9 Best Prostate Massagers to Try for Deep, Intense Orgasms

Lisa Finn, a brand manager at Babeland, recommends the MGX Trident, which is gently contoured to hit the prostate and has tabs that flare out to add extra sensation to the perineum. “You can comfortably massage internally and externally at once—up and down or in and out, in any position,” Finn tells SELF. The MGX is only one inch thick and 3.5 inches long, which shoppers say is a comfortable starting point for beginners. They also rave about the toy’s ribbed stem, saying it sends a pleasurable “tingling sensation” through their body during withdrawal.

Pros: Dual external stimulation, ribbed base, waterproof, easy to clean
Cons: It can take time to adjust to pivoting the toy with the clenching of your pelvic floor muscles (versus letting it do the thrusting for you)

The combination of the Pure Wand’s density, insertable length (eight inches), and arched shape is ideal for applying a deep-reaching, targeted pressure to the P-spot, Finn says.

Carolanne Marcantonio, LCSW, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, also praises its heaviness for helping create a pleasantly full feeling. “The weight of it effortlessly drops into the prostate,” she tells SELF. She adds that its stainless steel material is “fantastic” for anal sex because it warms and cools quickly, in case you want to experiment with temperature play.

Pros: Discreet, great for temperature play, waterproof, easy to clean
Cons: Might be too rigid for beginners, pricey

The Duke offers P-spot and perineal pressure, two vibrational speeds, and three patterns to cycle between. There’s even a cavity that can hold a bullet vibrator for added sensation. The S-shaped toy bulges at one end with 4.4 inches of girth—a big step up in size from most prostate massagers, so it’s best suited to someone more familiar and comfortable with anal sex.

Pros: Waterproof, girthy
Cons: Not for beginners

The Loki Wave’s curve mimics the come-hither motion of a finger inside the anus, while its rabbit-style, outer arm strokes the perineum for dual pleasure. Lelo shoppers love the pulling sensation, combined with the toy’s 10 different vibrations—“from feathery tickles to stout rumbles,” one wrote in a review.

Pros: Dual motors, fast-charging
Cons: Pricey, controls are tricky to navigate

Dr. Queen likes this Aneros massager because it combines the brand’s signature design (an insertable body, plus a two-armed base) with the addition of a huge range of settings for sensation experimentation—18 vibrational patterns, in fact, with four varying speeds.

Pros: Remote-controllable, dual motors, tons of vibrations, waterproof
Cons: Pricey

Whether you’re on a budget or new to prostate play, you don’t have to spend a ton to test it out. The Optimale is a no-frills prostate massager with a similar design to an Aneros toy, but with a ring in its base that makes it easy to remove. Both Dr. Queen and Marcantonio like that it’s made of silicone, which is a softer material (than, say, stainless steel or glass). “It’s not as firm, which could be a preferable sensation for some,” Dr. Queen says.

Pros: Easy-pull handle, waterproof, affordable
Cons: Too simple for the experienced person

The Fun Wand is similar to the Pure Wand but with a line of graduated anal beads at one end. “As the beads are removed, they arouse the sensitive nerve endings of the sphincter muscle,” Alicia Sinclair, the CEO of sex toy company B-Vibe, previously told SELF. “This stimulation creates a series of pleasurable sensations, like having a muscle massaged.” The Fun Wand is also half as light as the Pure Wand—which could help keep your arm from getting tired if you’re holding it over a long period of time.

Pros: Lightweight, great for temperature play, waterproof, easy to clean
Cons: Might be too rigid for beginners