The Best Vibrators You Can Buy in 2024, According to Experts and Reviewers

Pros: Intuitive design, wireless, rumbly vibrations

Cons: Not waterproof

Kink educator and psychologist Rebecca Blanton, PhD, cohost of Fat Chicks On Top, a sex- and body-positive podcast, recommends this wand from Lovehoney over other models because it provides very powerful, intense, “thuddy” sensations. “The length of the handle is long enough to suit most bigger-bodied folks and wide enough to be comfortable to hold for people with arthritis,” she adds.

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: N/A | Waterproof: No | Battery life: 3 hours

Pros: Ergonomic design, travel lock, three-year warranty

Cons: Not whisper quiet, less intense than competitors

Sex experts love Dame—and for good reason. Each vibe from this luxury company is made with a powerful motor and body-safe silicone. The brand’s take on the wand vibrator, the Com, is as ergonomic as can be. It has a flexible neck, so you can rest your arm while still holding the toy at the perfect angle. The ergonomic shape also works for many non-able-bodied folks, which is a huge win when it comes to closing the pleasure gap. It has five intensities and patterns and is surprisingly quiet for its size.

Speeds: 5 | Patterns: 5 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1 hour

Pros: App-enabled, flexible neck, soft bulbous head

Cons: Not waterproof, shorter than others

If you’re on the hunt for an app-enabled wand vibrator, consider your search over with Lovense’s Domi 2. This sleek, black toy provides rumbly vibrations and has a softer silicone head than some others on our list do. Best of all, it syncs with the Lovense app via Bluetooth so you (or your long-distance lover) can quickly adjust the intensity with a swipe. Oh, and you can also purchase additional attachments too, in case you don’t have enough room in your nightstand for more vibes.

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: 7 | Waterproof: Water-resistant | Battery life: Up to 6 hours

Pros: Bulbous head, intuitive buttons, waterproof

Cons: Pricey, may be too girthy for beginners

The gold medalist is this super versatile option from Lelo. It has a curve made specifically with the G-spot in mind and a firm silicone body to apply even pressure. The shape of the head also makes it great for internal play and clitoral stimulation when you’re still getting warmed up.

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: 8 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1.5 hours

Pros: Beginner-friendly size, waterproof, ergonomic curve

Cons: Buzzier vibrations than others, edged tip may take some getting used to

The Dame Arc is a lightweight G-spot wand that comes highly recommended by Monica Grover, DO, a double board-certified gynecologist. The vibe’s deep curvature separates it from others on our list—plus it’s made with medical-grade silicone that’s easy to clean and safe for both internal and external use, as SELF previously reported. “By moving it around and changing the speeds and sensations, you will really be giving yourself a crash course in pleasure,” Grover says. Time to earn those caps and gowns.

Speeds: 5 | Patterns: 5 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1.5 hours

Pros: Silky soft exterior, waterproof, wide variety of speeds and patterns

Cons: May be too large for some

This vibe from Hot Octopuss has a flexible silicone head and a slight curve at the top. But what sets it apart are its two motors, one in the body and one in the tip. You can adjust each motor separately to find the perfect combination—which may take a while, seeing as there are 210 possibilities. “The multilayered stimulation is super intense and feels amazing,” one Amazon reviewer wrote. “Brilliant toy. Heartily recommend.” Noted!

Speeds: 5 | Patterns: 25 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Bendable body, waterproof, only one button

Cons: May be too thin for some, no travel lock

Behold the Bender, which comes recommended from Gigi Engle, a COSRT-certified sex and relationship psychotherapist and resident intimacy expert at dating app 3Fun. She likes its slim, minimalist, vaguely futuristic shape and says you can easily curve the vibrator to hit both your clitoris and your G-spot—or one or the other. Unbound Babes reviewers are fans too: “This was the first toy I ever bought and it was 100% worth it! Never disappoints!” one wrote.

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: 10 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: App-compatible, anal safe, double-sided

Cons: Pricey, large

If you’re in the “bigger is better” camp, Kate Balestrieri, a licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and founder of the group therapy practice Modern Intimacy, recommends a thrusting sex machine, like this option from Lovense. “Good for solo play or partnered play (there can be up to two people using it at the same time), this machine packs a big bang,” she says. Simply turn the machine on, position yourself nearby, then enjoy the hands-free “penetrative bliss,” as she calls it.

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: N/A | Waterproof: No | Battery life: N/A

Pros: Angled tip for pinpoint stimulation, waterproof, travel lock

Cons: ABS plastic body isn’t as soft

This lipstick-shaped option from We-Vibe is a favorite amongst pleasure-seekers looking for something discreet. “The Tango X offers strong vibrations that penetrate through the skin to stimulate the entire clitoris (even the internal portions),” Frye-Nekrasova previously told SELF. Even better, “the silicone at the base of the vibrator makes it easy to hold without the vibrations going into your hand and dulling the experience.”

Speeds: 8 | Patterns: 7 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Uniquely curved head, versatile design, waterproof

Cons: Slightly longer than most bullet vibrators

Bullet vibrators are helpful because they can deliver targeted sensations to your G-spot but are also so small that you can hold them between your fingers for clitoral stimulation. Don’t let this one’s small size fool you, says Emily Morse, doctor of human sexuality, sex educator, relationship expert, and host of the Sex With Emily podcast. It boasts deep, rumbly sensations, multiple speeds, and plenty of vibration patterns to explore alone or with a partner. It’s curved just enough to make contact with your clitoris too.

Speeds: 5 | Patterns: 7 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1.5 hours

Pros: Unique hammer shape, remote- and app-controllable, waterproof

Cons: Can’t be used in a harness

This bullet vibe’s interesting hammer-like shape is what landed it a spot on our list, as it creates a variety of can’t-be-replicated sensations. The dual-ended head helps pinpoint smaller or larger areas around your clitoris and vulva. It’s also remote-controllable, making it a great pick for long-distance lovers.

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: 7 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: App-compatible, flexible internal arm, waterproof

Cons: Bulky, no travel lock

“If you’ve been wanting to have a blended orgasm, the Nova 2 should be your first stop,” Morse says. The curved piece constantly targets your clitoris. Meanwhile, the longer, flexible arm bends to hit your G-spot in just the right, well, spot.

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: 10 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Girthier internal arm, waterproof, travel lock

Cons: Short battery life

This toy from Fun Factory has not one, but two motors inside—one with a buzzier feel for your clit and a more rumbly one for your G-spot. It’s also girthier than other rabbit toys, which makes it perfect for those who crave a sensation of fullness.

Speeds: 6 | Patterns: 6 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1 hour

Pros: Intuitive design, waterproof, travel lock

Cons: Short battery life, may be too thick for some

If you’re a newbie to vibrators and find the giant ones intimidating, Engle recommends the Amour Dual G Wand. It’s great for anyone who knows they enjoy both external and internal stimulation, she says. Plus, it’s “smooth, sleek, and objectively not horrifying,” she adds—all things that make a toy appealing for first-timers.

Speeds: 5 | Patterns: N/A | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 40 minutes

Pros: Adjustable external arm, medical-grade silicone construction

Cons: Pricey, steep learning curve, features may be overwhelming

Already know and love rabbit vibes? Self-acclaimed tech geek? Indigo Stray Conger, LMFT, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, recommends this modern take from Lioness. It syncs to a smartphone app that can map out your body temperature, muscle contractions, and even orgasms, she says. This allows you to “explore the intimate details of your erotic blueprint through seeing exactly how you respond physiologically to stimulation.”

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: 100 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Waterproof, app- and remote-controllable

Cons: Pricey

The We-Vibe Chorus is a C-shaped vibrator designed to zero in on your clit and G-spot at the same time. You could wear it while masturbating, but it’s also a great addition to vaginal intercourse with a partner. Or slip it under a strap-on harness for a little extra stimulation. The toy is also remote- and app-controllable, which is ideal for long-distance relationships, according to Lovehoney reviewers: “Me and my boyfriend are long distance, and this has helped us stay connected and feel more intimate with each other. Would definitely recommend,” one wrote.

Speeds: 3 | Patterns: 7 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1.5 hours

Pros: Beautiful design, easy to use, quiet

Cons: Short battery life

Not only is this chic necklace a beautiful piece, but it’s also one of the best stainless steel vibrators on the market, according to sex and relationship expert Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, PhD, associate professor in the department of human communication studies at California State University. “I love how quiet and sleek it is,” she says. With its single button, you can cycle between four speeds and pinpointed sensations.

Speeds: 4 | Patterns: 2 | Waterproof: Water-resistant | Battery life: 40 minutes

Pros: Low-profile shape, hands-free stimulation, waterproof

Cons: May not fit all vulvas, buzzier vibrations

With arms that fit into the labia, Dame’s Eva 2 looks a bittt like an alien. But this ET-esque vibe gives couples the ability to go hands-free and still get those awesome clitoris-focused vibrations, says psychologist and AASECT-certified sex therapist Megan Fleming, PhD, resident expert with Lovehoney. She likes it both for couples and for solo play—tuck the flexible arms in and let your hands roam over your partner or stay focused on a dildo or set of anal beads.

Speeds: 3 | Patterns: N/A | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1 hour

Pros: Discrete shape, app- and remote-controlled, rumbly vibrations

Cons: Bluetooth connectivity can be spotty, according to reviewers

Here’s a wearable panty vibrator that can make your long- (or short-) distance sex life a little more exciting. It has a magnet that clips on to the outside of your underwear to lock it in place, and it’s easily controlled by your phone (via Bluetooth) or a remote. Wear it during foreplay, the main event, or even out and about—the options are basically endless. “Different vibration patterns suit every mood. It seems a little bulky but is actually very discreet and surprisingly quiet even at the highest setting,” one Amazon reviewer raved. “Well worth the investment.”

Speeds: 1 | Patterns: 10 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Rumbly vibrations, thin edges for precision, waterproof

Cons: Shape may be awkward to use on penises

“If you prefer a deep, rumbly vibration rather than a buzzy one, you’ll be an instant fan of the Mimi,” Morse says. She loves its unique shape, which is similar to a bar of soap (but smaller). Because it’s flat, the Mimi’s vibrations can make their way throughout your nerve endings, unlike with more pinpointed toys. But if you do like to mix and match sensations, Morse suggests flipping between the broad sides and the thinner edges. “And it’s submersible in water,” she adds. “Another delightful option for solo play during bath time.”

Speeds: 5 | Patterns: 7 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1.5 hours

Pros: Fits easily in palm, edged tip for clitoral stimulation, waterproof

Cons: May be too small for grinding

The Dame Pom comes recommended by Bezalel, who says it’s both quiet and versatile. It’s also flexible to fit your (or your partner’s) anatomy. Whether you’re craving clitoral stimulation or buzzing against your boner, she says this portable, discreet vibe is a solid bet.

Speeds: 5 | Patterns: 5 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Low-profile shape, intuitive button design, waterproof

Cons: May not fit all hand shapes

Most vulva-owners need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, as SELF previously reported. Designed to be worn between your fingers, the Dame Fin is a tiny vibe that can be slipped on and worn seamlessly during solo or partnered play. “It’s also sexy because it feels like an extension of your fingers instead of an inanimate object,” one Dame reviewer wrote. “I love its size and unique grip.”

Speeds: 3 | Patterns: 1 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1.5 hours

Pros: Mimics oral sex, easy to hold, waterproof

Cons: Short battery life

This vibe features a flickering tongue that’s designed to mimic the sensation of oral sex from a very skilled lover. It’s made with Fun Factory’s extra soft silicone and has an easy-to-grip handle, so it’s great if you prefer a gentler texture or tend to avoid heavy, bulky toys.

Speeds: 6 | Patterns: 6 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 45 minutes

Pros: Rumbly vibrations, waterproof, intuitive button design

Cons: Short battery life, may not fit all bodies

The Form 2 from JimmyJane has two ear-like attachments that are designed to sit on either side of your clit, encasing it with rumbly vibrations. As intense as this vibrator is, however, its approachable, beginner-friendly design “looks like a bunny,” Engle previously told SELF. “What could be scary about that?” (And if you’re looking for more from this brand, might we also suggest the SELF + JimmyJane line of toys and sexual wellness products?).

Speeds: 5 | Patterns: 5 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1 hour

Pros: Remote- or app-controllable, surprisingly rumbly vibrations, ergonomic shape

Cons: May be too small for some, according to Amazon reviewers

If one partner in your duo (or trio) has a penis, or dildos make a regular appearance in your sex life, then vibrating cock rings (sometimes known as C-rings or penis rings) are a must-try item, according to Nekrasova. Hands-free and easy to use, they’re designed to stimulate both the person wearing it and the person being penetrated for fuss-free clitoral stimulation and perineum pleasure. In particular, Nekrasova suggests the We-Vibe Bond. “It’s remote controlled, app-compatible, and waterproof,” she says. “Plus, it has 10 different settings, allowing you the opportunity to customize your vibrations to your preferences.”

Speeds: 1 | Patterns: 10 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: App-compatible, intuitive button, waterproof

Cons: Pricey

Another penis ring that podiums is Lelo’s Tor 3, which is made from medical-grade silicone and feels silky to the touch. In addition to feeling soft while keeping the wearer hard, “it has multiple vibrations settings—all of which are powerful,” says Suwinyattichaiporn. Plus the toy can connect to your smartphone via Bluetooth, which makes switching those intensities easy-peasy, she says.

Speeds: 1 | Patterns: 8 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Whisper quiet, comes with an extra stimulator head

Cons: Pricey

Berkheimer calls the Womanizer Premium 2 a “pleasure life changer,” which is a common consensus among Lovehoney reviewers. This elegant air-suction vibe is coated in silky smooth silicone and features a nozzle that uses air to practically pull an orgasm from your body. It’s whisper quiet, waterproof, and boasts an impressive 14 settings. Another bonus? The smart silence feature, which puts the toy on standby mode when it isn’t touching skin.

Speeds: 1 | Patterns: 14 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 4 hours

Pros: Whisper quiet, ergonomic head, travel lock

Cons: Nozzle may not fit all bodies, may require learning curve

Slim and low-profile, the Melt fits just as easily in a drawer or carry-on as it does between couples. Like many We-Vibe toys, this one can also sync with an app so a partner can control it from afar (hello, long-distance relationship savior). “I like that it is so quiet and easy to use!” one We-Vibe reviewer wrote. “From beginners to experienced—mind blowing!”

Speeds: 1 | Patterns: 12 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Travel-friendly, waterproof

Cons: Less intense than larger models

This cute suction vibe is a more budget-friendly option from Womanizer. Fleming appreciates its petite, portable size: “The whole idea of the Liberty is that it’s compact—you can just throw it in your bag, and it’s discreet,” she tells SELF. The best part? It’s half the price of most other luxury suction vibes on the market today (including our top overall pick).

Speeds: 1 | Patterns: 6 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Waterproof, larger nozzle

Cons: Harder to hold than other options

If you’re looking to focus solely on your clitoris but prefer a gentler, deeper sensation, Lelo’s Sila comes highly recommended by Kate Moyle, a psychosexual therapist and the host of The Sexual Wellness Sessions podcast. The Sila has a larger mouth than other clitoral stimulators and uses sonic waves instead of buzzing vibrations, for a less intense experience that won’t numb you out, she explains.

Speeds: 1 | Patterns: 8 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Provides dual stimulation, waterproof, Afterglow setting automatically kicks in at the end of a session

Cons: Pricey, may not fit all body shapes

The Womanizer Duo is a double-tasking toy that provides G-spot pleasure and suction on the clit all at once, according to licensed therapist Jessica Cline, LCSW. It might look a bit weird at first, but it’s basically a rabbit vibrator—only rather than using bunny ears against your clitoris, there’s a Womanizer air sucker attachment. Genius.

Speeds: 14 | Patterns: 10 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Beginner-friendly size, remote- and app-compatible, waterproof

Cons: May be too small for experienced users

If you’re new to anal vibes, the Ditto is a pretty fail-safe place to start. It’s small, with a distinct diamond design that makes it easy to insert. Like all We-Vibe toys, it can be controlled via an app on your smartphone or a remote control. And the long, thin base extends to sit against your perineum (the highly sensitive region between your anus and genitals) for even more pleasure.

Speeds: 1 | Patterns: 10 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Weighted, lots of settings, long stem for comfortable wear

Cons: Not waterproof

This expert-beloved vibrating butt plug works overtime ensuring your anal play experience is top-notch. Not only does it have 10 different vibration settings, but it’s also weighted, which helps stimulate your nerve-dense anal canal with each and every movement. Like all high-quality butt plugs, this one has a tapered end for safety and ease of use. It also comes in five sizes and has a variety of speeds to choose from.

Speeds: 4 | Patterns: 6 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 1 hour

Pros: App- and remote-controllable, variety of rumbly vibration settings, waterproof

Cons: Pricey, may be too big for beginners

If you have a prostate or you’re sleeping with someone who does, look no further than the Lelo Hugo, which is curved with P-spot stimulation in mind. It’s lightweight, portable, and rechargeable, Plus it has two motors and a remote control, which means you won’t have to twist backwards to adjust it while you use it.

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: 6 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 2 hours

Pros: Strong connector tapered design for easy insertion, single-button control

Cons: May increase in size too quickly for beginners, short battery life

For most anal-sex havers, the sensation of a butt plug going in is the best part about wearing one (if you know, you know). Anal beads, which look like a string of round bulbs, are designed specifically to be moved in and out of the butt, Engle previously told SELF. Vibrating beads, like these from FemmeFunn, add a little buzz to take things to the next level. The connector manages to be flexible but firm all at once, allowing for more comfortable anal play. The beads graduate from about the size of a blueberry to the size of an apricot and feature 20 different settings.

Speeds: N/A | Patterns: 20 | Waterproof: Yes | Battery life: 50 minutes