Infidelity Therapists in Tucson, AZ
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Debra L. Kaplan
Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT-S, PACT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tucson, AZ 85712
Patrick Carnes IITAP; a CSAT therapist and Supervisor, and the author of, "For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Betrayal," "Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money and Power in Relationship.
I specialize in attachment trauma, sex and porn addiction, and financial therapy (money, work and financial disorders). I provide in-person and virtual sessions in Arizona, and teletherapy for Colorado based clients. I work with couples and individuals to resolve their life issues for increased well-being and life fulfillment. I am faculty for Dr. Patrick Carnes, CSAT Supervisor/ therapist for IITAP, and integrate the PACT approach for couples.
Patrick Carnes IITAP; a CSAT therapist and Supervisor, and the author of, "For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Betrayal," "Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money and Power in Relationship.
I specialize in attachment trauma, sex and porn addiction, and financial therapy (money, work and financial disorders). I provide in-person and virtual sessions in Arizona, and teletherapy for Colorado based clients. I work with couples and individuals to resolve their life issues for increased well-being and life fulfillment. I am faculty for Dr. Patrick Carnes, CSAT Supervisor/ therapist for IITAP, and integrate the PACT approach for couples.
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Jennifer Branch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tucson, AZ 85747 (Online Only)
My expertise lies in addressing life transitions, relationship issues, narcissistic abuse, betrayal trauma, and grief.
My approach is tailored to you, the individual. I empower individuals to manage the present, while exploring the root causes of issues, facilitate personal growth, and enable clients to live their best lives. I take a person-centered approach, creating a non-judgmental space that accounts for each individual's preferences.
My expertise lies in addressing life transitions, relationship issues, narcissistic abuse, betrayal trauma, and grief.
My approach is tailored to you, the individual. I empower individuals to manage the present, while exploring the root causes of issues, facilitate personal growth, and enable clients to live their best lives. I take a person-centered approach, creating a non-judgmental space that accounts for each individual's preferences.
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Linda Schwartz
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Tucson, AZ 85711 (Online Only)
My years of experience allow me to be the calm presence to quickly understand your challenges and to help you end "endless" arguing, to move through the pain of infidelity and to reconnect emotionally and sexually.
I firmly believe there is a definite quality difference between a marriage-counseling specialist and a therapist who "also" works with couples. My singular focus enables me to meet you where you are in your struggles and to work with you without judgment and never favoring either partner. I use the most-effective approach of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy. This science-based method is a "brief" model, which means you may experience relief in the early phase of our work together. You'll learn about a "negative cycle" of arguing or distancing and how that cycle is your enemy, not each other!
My years of experience allow me to be the calm presence to quickly understand your challenges and to help you end "endless" arguing, to move through the pain of infidelity and to reconnect emotionally and sexually.
I firmly believe there is a definite quality difference between a marriage-counseling specialist and a therapist who "also" works with couples. My singular focus enables me to meet you where you are in your struggles and to work with you without judgment and never favoring either partner. I use the most-effective approach of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy. This science-based method is a "brief" model, which means you may experience relief in the early phase of our work together. You'll learn about a "negative cycle" of arguing or distancing and how that cycle is your enemy, not each other!
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Katy Herder
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC, PMH-C
Verified Verified
Tucson, AZ 85737 (Online Only)
I hope to create a unique and individualized treatment plan that best fits you and your needs. I can help you through whatever ails you, including perinatal/postpartum mental health struggles, couples navigating perinatal relationship stress, parenting young children, trauma, family of origin issues, self-esteem concerns, communication challenges, infidelity, attachment issues, anxiety, or depression. I have experience supporting individuals of all ages; primarily with adults, couples, and families.
I hope to create a unique and individualized treatment plan that best fits you and your needs. I can help you through whatever ails you, including perinatal/postpartum mental health struggles, couples navigating perinatal relationship stress, parenting young children, trauma, family of origin issues, self-esteem concerns, communication challenges, infidelity, attachment issues, anxiety, or depression. I have experience supporting individuals of all ages; primarily with adults, couples, and families.
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Relationship struggles are exhausting. Is your relationship struggling with communication, boundaries, trust, infidelity or another problem that is making it hard to have a fulfilling relationship? Is it a family matter that has become a complicated mess? Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle you can't seem to get out of? Have you tried to change but just seem to find your situation spiraling? I am here to help. My name is Patricia Guido and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Arizona. Together, we can work to get past these roadblocks and toward you having a stronger, deeper connection with your partner.
Relationship struggles are exhausting. Is your relationship struggling with communication, boundaries, trust, infidelity or another problem that is making it hard to have a fulfilling relationship? Is it a family matter that has become a complicated mess? Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle you can't seem to get out of? Have you tried to change but just seem to find your situation spiraling? I am here to help. My name is Patricia Guido and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Arizona. Together, we can work to get past these roadblocks and toward you having a stronger, deeper connection with your partner.
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Mindful Sex and Relationship Therapy, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
Tucson, AZ 85712
We provide nurturing guidance and mindful approaches to various issues, including communication, infidelity, low sexual desire, sexuality, and gender identity.
Are you tired of feeling "stuck" in a repetitive pattern with your partner and it just won't stop no matter what you do? Do you have low sexual desire and you are concerned it won't come back? Have you been told you have a sex/porn addiction? Are you polyamorous and having a hard time with jealousy or fear?
We provide nurturing guidance and mindful approaches to various issues, including communication, infidelity, low sexual desire, sexuality, and gender identity.
Are you tired of feeling "stuck" in a repetitive pattern with your partner and it just won't stop no matter what you do? Do you have low sexual desire and you are concerned it won't come back? Have you been told you have a sex/porn addiction? Are you polyamorous and having a hard time with jealousy or fear?
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Keri Sipek
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT, PMH-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tucson, AZ 85704
Now offering daytime & evening appointments. Reaching out for help can be difficult & takes courage. I’m here to offer a safe space & provide support while you explore your issues. From there, you can begin to heal & create positive change in your life & relationships. My experience includes working with couples, & individual adults who have struggled with infidelity, relationship strain, sexual issues, parenting, depression, anxiety, & more. In addition, I work with women & couples struggling with infertility, postpartum anxiety, postpartum depression, traumatic birth recovery, & adjustment to parenthood.
Now offering daytime & evening appointments. Reaching out for help can be difficult & takes courage. I’m here to offer a safe space & provide support while you explore your issues. From there, you can begin to heal & create positive change in your life & relationships. My experience includes working with couples, & individual adults who have struggled with infidelity, relationship strain, sexual issues, parenting, depression, anxiety, & more. In addition, I work with women & couples struggling with infertility, postpartum anxiety, postpartum depression, traumatic birth recovery, & adjustment to parenthood.
![Photo of Ashley Snider - Arizona Marriage and Family Therapy Clinic, MAS-MFT, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://cdn.statically.io/img/photos.psychologytoday.com/4f9def60-eed7-43f2-a5f1-430509076342/2/320x400.jpeg)
Arizona Marriage and Family Therapy Clinic
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tucson, AZ 85750
The decision to seek therapy is not always an easy one, but can be one of the most beneficial choices a person can make. My main priority as a therapist is to help my clients feel comfortable while offering a neutral and unbiased perspective to their current challenges. I have worked with a variety of presenting concerns, but have extensive experience in attachment-based therapeutic approaches helping couples to address communication issues, sexual relationship concerns, relationship injuries and infidelity. I also have a strong background in working with children and families in the areas of parenting and behavioral challenges.
The decision to seek therapy is not always an easy one, but can be one of the most beneficial choices a person can make. My main priority as a therapist is to help my clients feel comfortable while offering a neutral and unbiased perspective to their current challenges. I have worked with a variety of presenting concerns, but have extensive experience in attachment-based therapeutic approaches helping couples to address communication issues, sexual relationship concerns, relationship injuries and infidelity. I also have a strong background in working with children and families in the areas of parenting and behavioral challenges.
![Photo of Edythe Vuke Ryan, LCSW, CSAT, CMAT, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://cdn.statically.io/img/photos.psychologytoday.com/55144d9f-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/1/320x400.jpeg)
Edythe Vuke Ryan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tucson, AZ 85719
The best way to reach me is by email. I enjoy working with individuals who are motivated for personal growth and/or are wanting to work towards freedom from an issue that is causing undue suffering. Patients who are excited to learn about and understand themselves better will be able to heal themselves and their relationships.
The best way to reach me is by email. I enjoy working with individuals who are motivated for personal growth and/or are wanting to work towards freedom from an issue that is causing undue suffering. Patients who are excited to learn about and understand themselves better will be able to heal themselves and their relationships.
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Michaela Conley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LAMFT, DipACLM, NBC-HWC, NMI
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Tucson, AZ 85710
I believe in the power of connection and the resilience of love. I specialize in couples relationship counseling, my practice offers a compassionate and safe space for partners to explore, understand, and strengthen their bonds. Whether you're navigating communication barriers, facing emotional disconnect, or seeking to rekindle the spark in your relationship, I'm here to guide you through. My approach is rooted in both the Gottman Method & Emotionally Focused Therapy, tailored to address the unique dynamics of your partnership.
I believe in the power of connection and the resilience of love. I specialize in couples relationship counseling, my practice offers a compassionate and safe space for partners to explore, understand, and strengthen their bonds. Whether you're navigating communication barriers, facing emotional disconnect, or seeking to rekindle the spark in your relationship, I'm here to guide you through. My approach is rooted in both the Gottman Method & Emotionally Focused Therapy, tailored to address the unique dynamics of your partnership.
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Lana Lucas
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tucson, AZ 85718 (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
I specialize in working with couples and families. For couple work, I only use Gottman Method Couples Therapy, as I believe in evidence based practices and strive to provide the best experience possible for everyone seeking services. I also have extensive experience working with families struggling with changes in life and hardships. I understand that the teen years can be an especially challenging time and have assisted many families in forging new bonds and ways to communicate that have allowed all members of the family to feel respected and validated.
I specialize in working with couples and families. For couple work, I only use Gottman Method Couples Therapy, as I believe in evidence based practices and strive to provide the best experience possible for everyone seeking services. I also have extensive experience working with families struggling with changes in life and hardships. I understand that the teen years can be an especially challenging time and have assisted many families in forging new bonds and ways to communicate that have allowed all members of the family to feel respected and validated.
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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tucson, AZ 85750 (Online Only)
ACCEPTING NEW TELE-HEALTH CLIENTS. I specialize in working with people struggling with Depression, Anxiety, Suicidal Thoughts, LGBTQ+ concerns, Trauma, Addition, Academic and Life Transitions, Relationship issues, Grief & Loss, Parenting, Autism Spectrum Disorders, Low Self-esteem. If your daily functioning is being impacted and you are struggling, participating in therapy can help you learn healthy ways of coping. As a mindfulness psychotherapist, I am passionate about helping people by creating a warm and non-judgmental environment and supporting them to live more fulfilled lives.
ACCEPTING NEW TELE-HEALTH CLIENTS. I specialize in working with people struggling with Depression, Anxiety, Suicidal Thoughts, LGBTQ+ concerns, Trauma, Addition, Academic and Life Transitions, Relationship issues, Grief & Loss, Parenting, Autism Spectrum Disorders, Low Self-esteem. If your daily functioning is being impacted and you are struggling, participating in therapy can help you learn healthy ways of coping. As a mindfulness psychotherapist, I am passionate about helping people by creating a warm and non-judgmental environment and supporting them to live more fulfilled lives.
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Your therapy journey should be as unique as you, and my approach is eclectic in a way that allows me to meet you where you are and illuminate your path through encouragement and support. Therapy and counseling can be deeply transformative and healing for those willing to show up for themselves. I believe that through this process anyone can uncover meaningful change and I am here to guide you through that journey and empower you to be the best version of you.
Your therapy journey should be as unique as you, and my approach is eclectic in a way that allows me to meet you where you are and illuminate your path through encouragement and support. Therapy and counseling can be deeply transformative and healing for those willing to show up for themselves. I believe that through this process anyone can uncover meaningful change and I am here to guide you through that journey and empower you to be the best version of you.
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There are times in life where we feel extremely alone, lonely, misunderstood, unhappy and beyond frustrated. Sometimes these overwhelming feelings can be about others; and sometimes about ourselves. These situations can arise because of: anxiety, change, depression, grief, conflict, and immense life challenges. At times, these problems are too much to face and bear alone. I specialize in helping clients through overwhelming problems and challenges. I collaborate with my clients to find changes they want to make, how they want to "see and live" their lives. My approach to therapy is a positive, hopeful, open approach.
There are times in life where we feel extremely alone, lonely, misunderstood, unhappy and beyond frustrated. Sometimes these overwhelming feelings can be about others; and sometimes about ourselves. These situations can arise because of: anxiety, change, depression, grief, conflict, and immense life challenges. At times, these problems are too much to face and bear alone. I specialize in helping clients through overwhelming problems and challenges. I collaborate with my clients to find changes they want to make, how they want to "see and live" their lives. My approach to therapy is a positive, hopeful, open approach.
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Taking the first steps to begin counseling can be hard, and searching for a counselor can be overwhelming. I am ready to walk with you through your counseling journey. I believe that everyone has their own strengths, and my goal is to help you discover ways to grow and build on those strengths. I will always work to create a safe and inclusive environment for anyone who comes in, as well as form an authentic and trusting relationship.
Taking the first steps to begin counseling can be hard, and searching for a counselor can be overwhelming. I am ready to walk with you through your counseling journey. I believe that everyone has their own strengths, and my goal is to help you discover ways to grow and build on those strengths. I will always work to create a safe and inclusive environment for anyone who comes in, as well as form an authentic and trusting relationship.
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Chet Weld
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, EdD, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tucson, AZ 85741
Searching for marriage counseling with an experienced Christian-based therapist? Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, family issues, or other specific needs? I have 40 years of experience as a therapist. I've been the director of counseling in two large churches and worship leader in another one. With clients who value faith in Christ, I integrate biblical principles and techniques, including prayer and the use of scriptures. I also counsel people of all faiths and will meet you where you're at. I think of myself as "warm and human first; professional always." I'm accepting new clients, including Saturday appointments.
Searching for marriage counseling with an experienced Christian-based therapist? Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, family issues, or other specific needs? I have 40 years of experience as a therapist. I've been the director of counseling in two large churches and worship leader in another one. With clients who value faith in Christ, I integrate biblical principles and techniques, including prayer and the use of scriptures. I also counsel people of all faiths and will meet you where you're at. I think of myself as "warm and human first; professional always." I'm accepting new clients, including Saturday appointments.
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Sandra Guilfoyle
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, EMDR, Somatic, Yoga
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tucson, AZ 85711 (Online Only)
I believe one of the bravest things you can do is begin to understand your own story. Whatever your problem, I will help you find a solution. Therapy is enriching and life changing as you raise your awareness and learn new ways to handle your life and emotions. There is no reason to stay in bad relationships, a job you hate, being stuck in anxiety/anger/depression or trauma. I will guide you to emotional freedom full of meaning and purpose.
I believe one of the bravest things you can do is begin to understand your own story. Whatever your problem, I will help you find a solution. Therapy is enriching and life changing as you raise your awareness and learn new ways to handle your life and emotions. There is no reason to stay in bad relationships, a job you hate, being stuck in anxiety/anger/depression or trauma. I will guide you to emotional freedom full of meaning and purpose.
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Margaret Adcock
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tucson, AZ 85719
Waitlist for new clients
I offer a caring and non-judgmental approach to therapy designed to help you increase your capacity to greet your life with flexibility, compassion, and curiosity. My goal is to help you feel more engaged and empowered in your life by building on your own insights and strengths as well as helping you gently expand your willingness and creativity in facing difficulty. Together we will work towards healing distress and increasing your satisfaction in yourself and in your relationships.
I offer a caring and non-judgmental approach to therapy designed to help you increase your capacity to greet your life with flexibility, compassion, and curiosity. My goal is to help you feel more engaged and empowered in your life by building on your own insights and strengths as well as helping you gently expand your willingness and creativity in facing difficulty. Together we will work towards healing distress and increasing your satisfaction in yourself and in your relationships.
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Cato Counseling & Consulting, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SEP, DARe
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tucson, AZ 85742 (Online Only)
Note: Potential clients only, no soliciting. I have been a clinician in residential treatment for over 10 years. During that time, I treated adults of all ages with a myriad of issues. Since everyone's needs are different, I have learned to adapt my approach to the individual and their particular goals. Self-motivation to find healing is paramount to beginning the healing process. I primarily work with professionals and those willing to pursue treatment on their own. Additionally, I am a clinical supervisor and also work with Somatic Experiencing students to assist them with obtaining their certification. My practice is Telehealth.
Note: Potential clients only, no soliciting. I have been a clinician in residential treatment for over 10 years. During that time, I treated adults of all ages with a myriad of issues. Since everyone's needs are different, I have learned to adapt my approach to the individual and their particular goals. Self-motivation to find healing is paramount to beginning the healing process. I primarily work with professionals and those willing to pursue treatment on their own. Additionally, I am a clinical supervisor and also work with Somatic Experiencing students to assist them with obtaining their certification. My practice is Telehealth.
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I am deeply aware of the profound effects that stress, anxiety, and unresolved trauma can have on every aspect of our lives. They can weigh heavily on our relationships, careers, families, and self-worth; leaving us feeling trapped and unable to move forward. I believe that fear and anxiety do not have to dictate our daily thoughts and actions. Through my work, I am passionate about guiding clients towards a path of healing. If you're ready to take that first step towards a brighter tomorrow.
I am deeply aware of the profound effects that stress, anxiety, and unresolved trauma can have on every aspect of our lives. They can weigh heavily on our relationships, careers, families, and self-worth; leaving us feeling trapped and unable to move forward. I believe that fear and anxiety do not have to dictate our daily thoughts and actions. Through my work, I am passionate about guiding clients towards a path of healing. If you're ready to take that first step towards a brighter tomorrow.
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How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.