Dd (13) went to a birthday party on Saturday night for a girl she's friends with in her year (8) at school.
There was about 13 girls there and the mum was there too.
I picked her up about 9.30 and she told me the mum had got some alcohol free Prosecco for them. Dd said she had tried it but it was horrible so discreetly left it on the table.
It's been playing on my mind and just doesn't sit right with me giving children that young alcohol free Prosecco.
I'm the daughter of an alcoholic so sometimes things can be a little triggering for me so not sure if I'm being over the top.
Is it like like trying makeup out? Trying to look grown up maybe? I'm just not sure.
I have older teens who have been allowed to drink around us after around 16/17 so I'm not anti alcohol and drink myself.
What do you think I'm I just being stupid?
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13 years olds and no-secco
troppibambini6 · 05/02/2024 10:45
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Comedycook · 05/02/2024 11:00
Even when you buy alcohol free in shops, you need to be over 18
Well apple juice, orange squash and milk are alcohol free. Surely you should need id to buy them then?
Comedycook · 05/02/2024 11:00
Even when you buy alcohol free in shops, you need to be over 18
Well apple juice, orange squash and milk are alcohol free. Surely you should need id to buy them then?
CorylusAgain · 05/02/2024 11:16
I think one of the biggest problems is making it a forbidden fruit. And then they romanticise it, it becomes and "grown up" item and are far more likely to overindulge when older
Despite lots of individual anecdotal accounts, the research doesn't bear this belief out. Early drinking is more likely to lead to problematic drinking.
Growlybear83 · 05/02/2024 11:09
My husband only drinks alcohol free or very low alcohol wine or beer now and it really irritates me when they have to do an ID check at the self checkouts for alcohol free drinks.
I wouldn't have a problem at all with 13 year olds being given alcohol free wine, as it's so revolting that it will only put them off drinking! But if it was Nozeco rather than another brand, it is only very low alcohol, not alcohol free (0.5% by volume) which some people may not be happy with. I used to let my daughter have an occasional alcoholic drink at that age, such as with Christmas lunch, but i would never have given anyone else's child any drink containing alcohol.
Comedycook · 05/02/2024 11:00
Even when you buy alcohol free in shops, you need to be over 18
Well apple juice, orange squash and milk are alcohol free. Surely you should need id to buy them then?
Acatdance · 05/02/2024 14:13
My sister and I used to get given Shloer with Sunday dinner, even when we were quite small, while the adults drank my dad's home-made wine (made out of varying garden fruits such as rhubarb or gooseberries). This was in the 70s/80s - I don't think there were as many low/no alcohol drinks about in those days. I still think a glass of Shloer tastes quite nice (better than home-made rhubarb wine).
Comedycook · 05/02/2024 11:02
I'm surprised how many people would be upset by this. What if they made and drank mocktails?
ohtowinthelottery · 05/02/2024 14:49
@Acatdance As children we could buy cans of lemonade shandy which was just badged as fizzy pop and was on the shelf next to the coke and lemonade. The alcohol content was, I believe , below 1% but nevertheless was easily available for children to buy.
Acatdance · 05/02/2024 14:13
My sister and I used to get given Shloer with Sunday dinner, even when we were quite small, while the adults drank my dad's home-made wine (made out of varying garden fruits such as rhubarb or gooseberries). This was in the 70s/80s - I don't think there were as many low/no alcohol drinks about in those days. I still think a glass of Shloer tastes quite nice (better than home-made rhubarb wine).
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