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I hate the term “ live like you are dying”. I know what it feels like to be dying.. trust me, it’s not about skydiving and bucket lists. Living like you’re dying looks a lot more like fighting for one more day to live. For one more day to memorize your child’s face, touch your partners skin, lay in cold grass, smell the season, hear the wind rustle through the trees… When you are dying you don’t seek out the most extraordinary day before you go. You hold on to one more ordinary day. Just like the one you probably woke up to today. When you are dying you realize that the most beautiful gifts of living are in the in between. They happen everyday there is breath in your lungs. We miss them when we think our life has to be bigger. We have to see more, do more, have more to really live our best life. We sleepwalk through the living. When you’re dying you realize the ordinary every day is in fact extraordinary. That’s when you start living. Don’t live like you’re dying. Live like you’re living. Because today you are. This ordinary day is a miracle. Live. #asalesgal #live #yesthatsmehikingduringchemo #becauseimabadass #betyouaretoo 💃🏻💪🏼🎀

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🪭Michelle Hecht

🌐 Global Sales Enablement Manager @ HiBob | 🚀 Modern HR Tech for Modern Business | 2X LinkedIn Top💯Sales Star 🌟| All about ROI: Return On Impact!💥 | Hardcover Books 📚| Lifelong Learner♟| Animal Lover ❤️

2y

You have a way with words, my friend. You put it all in perspective and interrupt the societal pressure BS that’s baked into our very existence. Proud of you. Love you. Grateful for you ♥️

WAYNE LOCO

Director at Dorchester Boiler Solutions Ltd and LO-CO Heating and Cooling.

2y

Seriously, I can’t believe that anyone can put a term on emotion. I’d just like to say that when I was 30 (now52) my mother passed away. As did most of her siblings. Since then I decided that I would live my life as though every was my last. As a result I lived quite a lonely independent existence as I didn’t care about what happened to me until I met somebody who I’d influenced and as a result we ended up becoming a couple. Unitentially we became a couple and became a family. This was 2004. Since then we have a a roller coaster life as everybody has. Then last year we were finally in a position where we felt that our lives were making sense and we could settle down and being old, we expected that it was our time. Then the day we we inherited some money that enabled us to put down a deposit and finally settle down, we had the diagnosis that my wife had been diagnosed with breast cancer and once again our lives were turned up side down. Fortunately with everything that cancer research has achieved It’s fortunate for us that we had a result that meant my wife didn’t require chemotherapy. We are some of the lucky people that have benefited from the resent trials and hope that it helps people in the future. Xxc

Bill Edge

President @ Edge RTLS Consulting | Real Time Location Systems (RTLS)

2y

Thank you for this post, this comes as the best possible moment for me, I just lost my mother this week and there are no words but your really hit me and I thank you for them. No one thought it would be her time, we all thought she would be around for ever. I was lucky as she texted me good morning everyday and made me text her each time I took a flight and landed safely, my thoughts sometimes were "oh mom" but when that plane touched down in Toronto my first thought was "I cant text her anymore to tell her I am here safely" 😭 So make sure you live everyday to its fullest and love everyone in your life no matter what, always hug your mom, your wife your children. Thank you again for your beautiful words!! 🕊

Samuel Flores

A.S at Laurus College

2y

I kinda remember when a doctor told my wife that the next 12 hours were going to tell if I was going to live or die, and if I were to live my life would be altered drastically. So if your husband has family you should call them. I was 45 years old at the time when I walked out of a supermarket and was suddenly surprised by 4 guys they said "hey old man hand over your wallet and we won't hurt you". I asked them did you call me a old man! They began to take my wallet and a fight assumed. We fought all the way through the parking lot and as I was punching one of them in the face I suddenly felt a swift kick to my stomach. I gave chase and then a lady yelled out "the cops are coming " I didn't even know I was stabbed in the stomach until a police officer shined his flashlight on my shirt. I woke up from surgery 3 days later to find a ventilator tube down my throat. I totally understand the message you are sending. When I left the hospital I was supposed to be wearing a bag to defricate in for the rest of my life. I wasn't having that. Now 10 years later I'm a totally different person. I'm not hateful or vengeful. I even went back to College and earned my A.S Degree in Business Management and Administration. All of the changes I have made just to have a regular day.

Angelo Castiglione

Proprietario presso B&b AcasadiAmici

2y

Il 15 settembre del 2021 il cancro ha rubato alla vita la persona più bella dentro e fuori che potevo mai incontrare … Marina Butenko ha dato tutto se stessa per il lavoro in GSK ed è stata abbandonata! Lei donna orgogliosa , forte ed onesta non è stata ripagata dall’azienda che dopo sei mesi di malattia grave non l’ha mai più sostentata ed aiutata anche nel reperimento dei farmaci che le sarebbero serviti per curarsi ! Ho scritto più volte alla presidente Emma ma lei non si è mai degnata di rispondere … Marina ha dato tutta se stessa per l’azienda è per questo ,quasi certamente , scoprendo anche in ritardo il male che l’avrebbe uccisa _ Grazie GKS , grazie grazie grazie a nome suo per non averla mai citata neanche nella convention di dicembre 2021 … la sua onestà e la sua dedizione al lavoro andavano citati in sua memoria ❤️

Sergio Penton

Broadcast Media Professional

2y

Deep! I lost my mother earlier this year and I have never felt a pain like that before, I know she’s with me everyday. I feel her when I do something right, I feel her when I do something wrong. I just know that I feel her! Thank you for the deep post.

Phillip Kristiansen

Account Manager at ESW IT Business Advisors

2y

I guess its all your point of view on the term. I feel like the term means exactly what you said. Breathe it all in. Love more, enjoy the moment. I dont think live like you are dying means go Skydiving, I think it means live every moment, enjoy the moment and do what you want to do now because there may not be a later. BUT... I will now say LIVE LIKE YOU ARE LIVING because I like that better.

Lewis Paulk

CAMS Consultant at Self Employed

2y

During my struggle with death and chemo I focused on 3 things. Not only did they help me through the valley I can say you are correct bucket list is not important. Time with my 3 things was what was important. I called it my 3 Fs. FAMILY.. FRIENDS...& FAITH. According to Mayo... I have a 20something percent chance just to live for 2 years. 80% odds I wouldn't last 2 years. I am now just past my 10year mark. A major milestone for my cancer. My faith gave me positive attitude to accept life or death as my fate. But what was precious to me was family and friends and time with them. The little things as you said.

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