You see a galaxy far away. That galaxy is attracting you with a certain amount of gravity. I'm wondering if the gravity influence of the galaxy on you, as measured by you, always ends up being what you see and measure from your frame. For examples consider the cases below:
If that galaxy is moving towards you with relativistic speed, you see it blue-shifted and therefore you perceive it as having more energy. Do you feel more gravity from it proportional to the blue-shift?
Now you start moving towards it instead of it towards you with the same speed. You see it as blue-shifted but also at a shorter distance due to length contraction. Do you feel more gravity from both these effects proportional to the blue-shift + the effects of the reduced distance?
Now you are in a strong gravitational field where time is flowing at half the rate of most of the space between you and the galaxy. You have no relative velocity with respect to the galaxy. You "see" the galaxy as being at about half the distance an observer far in space would measure because you would time a 2 way light signal to return in half the time due to your slower clock. To you the galaxy is about half as many light years away. On top of that shorter distance, the galaxy is blue-shifted purely due to the difference in clock rates. Would you feel an increase in gravity from both these effects combined?