Sleep and Dreaming
Sleep is a basic bodily function and an essential pillar of wellness but getting a proper night's rest isn't always an easy task. This could be due to battling anxious thoughts, physical illness, a sleep disorder, or maybe you simply drank too much caffeine too late in the day. Whatever the reason, poor sleep quality can seriously detract from our overall quality of life.
Then when we finally do get a good night's sleep we often wake up with all kinds of curious dreams to unpack—and that's the fun part!
Learn more about what your dreams might be telling you, how to develop better sleep habits, and how your mind uses the downtime to work through unconscious and unresolved feelings or experiences.
Frequently Asked Questions
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The amount of sleep we need can vary depending on our age. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) lists the amount of sleep we need, by age:
- Newborns (0 to 3 months old): 14 to 17 hours of sleep per day (including naps)
- Infants (4 to 12 months old): 12 to 16 hours of sleep per day (including naps)
- Toddlers (1 to 2 years old): 11 to 14 hours of sleep per day (including naps)
- Preschoolers (3 to 5 years old): 10 to 13 hours of sleep per day (including naps)
- School-age children (6 to 12 years old): 9 to 12 hours of sleep per day
- Teenagers (13 to 18 years old): 8 to 10 hours of sleep per day
- Adults (19 to 60 years old): 7 or more hours of sleep per day
- Adults (61 to 64 years old): 7 to 9 hours of sleep per day
- Adults (65 years and above): 7 to 8 hours of sleep per day
Learn More: How to Ditch Poor Sleep Hygiene -
In order to fall asleep faster, you'll need to retrain your body and develop better sleep habits. Some of the habits to change include not reading and watching TV in bed, altering your behaviors in the hour leading up to sleep, and working on evening eating habits. Some skills you will develop include relaxation, not languishing in bed, and exposing yourself to more daylight.
Learn More: How to Fall Asleep Faster -
It is possible to experience fragmentary dreams in non-REM sleep. This includes the lighter stages of sleep (called stage 1 and stage 2) and slow-wave sleep (called stage 3). It is believed that the dream content of non-REM is more simplistic. If REM-related dreams are a movie, non-REM dreams may be likened to a photograph.
Learn More: Why Can't I Remember My Dreams?
Key Terms
- Lucid Dream
A lucid dream occurs when a person is asleep but aware that they are dreaming. In this state, a person can take control of their dream’s narrative to some degree, essentially guiding and directing the course of their dream.
- Insomnia
Insomnia is a common sleep disorder that affects millions of Americans. This often unrelenting condition can impact sleep in multiple ways, including causing difficulty falling asleep, difficulty staying asleep, waking up too early (and not being able to fall back asleep), and poor sleep quality.
- REM
Rapid eye movement (REM) sleep is one of the four stages that the brain goes through during the sleep cycle. This period of the sleep cycle usually takes place about 90 minutes after a person first falls asleep. It is marked by a number of physiological changes that include muscle relaxation, eye movement, faster respiration, and increased brain activity.
- Narcolepsy
Narcolepsy is a sleep disorder that is characterized by chronic, excessive daytime sleepiness. It is a neurological condition that impacts the brain's ability to manage the sleep-wake cycle. People who have this condition usually have a difficult time staying awake for extended periods of time, no matter what time it is or what they are doing.
- Sleep Apnea
Sleep apnea is a common condition in which people stop breathing multiple times during the night due to upper airway obstruction. Because people briefly stop breathing, sometimes for 10 seconds or longer, their heart rate increases, blood oxygen levels drop, and sleep is briefly disrupted as the person wakes in order to breathe.
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