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"Every day seemed to offer new surprises and things were said to me — often in the guise of 'help' — that I never thought I’d hear come out of people’s mouths."
"It started with us hanging out as roommates, then as friends, and then in a way I couldn’t quite name. It felt completely different than any crush I’d suffered through with a boy."
"It’s not as if we said to each other, 'Let’s save our letters.' ... The years simply added up, as did the piles of paper, made even more precious by the passage of time and loss."
"There is your life before the death of your beloved spouse and your life after. The pain never fully goes away."
"Kids were all my husband Marc and I wanted, and it felt like everyone else had them. And worse, like they were kind of put out about it."
"I wasn’t sure what to do. I prayed no one else in the line noticed what was happening."
"My parents never understood my motives for admitting myself inpatient. However, from hundreds of miles away, Grandma Bevy repeated over the phone, 'I’m proud of you.'"
"After Dr. R terrified and humiliated me, he kept me on the examination table. Every part of me pushed to get up, but he held me down."
"When my beloved former youth pastor starts posting about LGBTQ+ people, it’s hard to scroll by."
"Many friends and students found my words illuminating and helpful. Now I stared at my screen, feeling like a failure who’d hurt the person I cared about most."