[Enhancement] add remoting client non-oneway updateConsumerOffset function

[qianye1001]

Before Creating the Enhancement Request

• I have confirmed that this should be classified as an enhancement rather than a bug/feature.

Summary

add remoting client non-oneway updateConsumerOffset function

Motivation

This facilitates the client's control over ConsumerOffset and provides a foundation for issues such as skipping ConsumerOffset when establishing a new consumer group on an existing topic.

Describe the Solution You'd Like

add updateConsumerOffsetWithFuture function in org/apache/rocketmq/client/impl/mqclient/MQClientAPIExt.java

Describe Alternatives You've Considered

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