Podcast host sparks fierce debate after slamming 'entitled' women who complain about being taken to The Cheesecake Factory on a first date

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A podcast host has gone viral after sharing her explosive views about dating - claiming women are too picky and judgmental.

Sarah Fontenot, who hosts the It's Giving podcast, shared her views on the current dating culture - slamming women who expect too much from a man on a first date.

'What do you feel is a decent amount to spend on a first date?' the host, from California, was asked.

'I don't think it matters,' she answered, sounding surprised at the question.

After being warned the internet will 'come for' her with that answer, Sarah, who touts herself as a 'self-love guru,' continued her explosive explanation.

Sarah Fontenot, who hosts the It's Giving podcast, shared her views on the current dating culture - slamming women who expect too much from a man on a first date

The podcast host claimed the problem with men becoming lazy in dating is due to women not appreciate them

'I think these girls that feel like the date that they take you on defines the man that they chose, they're full of crap,' she argued, declaring it as 'absolute BS.'

'I think that it's a woman that's looking for a bigger, better deal that has the audacity to say "I can't believe you wanna bring me to the Cheesecake Factory,"' she raged.

Sarah branded the serial daters as 'scammers.'

'[They] literally go on a date every night just to be able to eat something - you're lucky you're eating tonight because you probably can't afford to do it yourself,' she said passionately. 

Sarah also told women, 'to be grateful that you got some food and be grateful that a man put in enough effort to take you somewhere and that's the problem.'

The podcast host claimed the issue with men becoming lazy in dating is due to women not appreciate them. 

'Women have these super high entitlement level thoughts that they deserve to be brought to freaking Bora Bora on their first date - and it's like who are you to even ask for that? What value have you brought to that man?' she ranted.

'It's the audacity for me,' Sarah continued. 'And on top of that, you wanna be friends with the person that you're choosing anyway. If I don't like you I'm not going on a trip with you.'

The comment section of the clip was filled with a lot of comments - many from men - praising Sarah for her strong view

Sarah then urged women in this mindset to 'be grateful' that man put in some effort.

'The more effort and appreciation that you choose, the better treatment you'll get. That's what I think,' she declared.

The self-proclaimed serial entrepreneur told her guest she doesn't think the amount of money spent on dates matters - and it shouldn't if you are trying to actually meet a nice partner for life.

'Women are ruining good men by acting like they deserve more than they do,' she declared.

'A lot of these women out here really don't have nothing coming.'

The comment section of the clip was filled with a lot of comments - many from men - praising Sarah for her strong view.

'A woman with a mindset like this deserve everything,' praised an Instagram user.

'She doesn't know she's rare as hell. And FIRE,' another user gushed. 'Every date idea she said I loved!! Not everyone thinks like this! She was on point with this message!!!'

Some users disagreed, arguing the men they have dated have wanted to go on the fancier dates regardless of what they want.

'Majority of the women I know feel like this however, the men are choosing the girls she described so there's that!' someone commented.

'"A lot of these women" Ruining good men??? Smh anything for clicks and views,' slammed another.

They added: 'Anytime you see a bunch men co-signing nonsense like this runnnn.'