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How to Have Multiple Orgasms When One Just Isn’t Enough

It’s a marathon, not a sprint.
Sex Love

The 26 Sexiest Shows to Stream on Netflix Right Now

From the steamy to the downright dirty.
Love

How to Get Really, Really Good at Kissing

Tips about form, technique, and all things tongue.
Sex

The Beginner’s Guide to Using a Vibrator

If you’re brand-new to this type of sex toy, here’s everything to know to have an amazing time.
Sex

What My First Time Having Sex After Giving Birth Felt Like

It absolutely took longer than six weeks to get back in the groove.
Sex

Here’s Where to Find the Best Audio Porn and Erotica

Whether you’re into sexy stories, masturbation tutorials, or straight-up moaning.
Sex

How to Give a Mind-Blowingly Hot Prostate Massage

You can make the P-spot feel great from the inside or outside of your partner’s body.
Sex

5 Ways to Make Oral Sex Feel Even Better If You Have a Vagina

Changing up your positions isn’t just for penetration.
Mind blowing

How to Get Out of Your Head During Sex So You Can Actually Enjoy It 

Whether you’re wondering what your partner thinks of your body or worried that you’ll never come.
Bloodlust

Why Do I Get Ridiculously Horny Around My Period?

Time to break out the sex towels.
Gift Guides

54 Thoughtful Valentine's Day Gifts for Everyone in Your Life

Non-corny picks for your partner, your friends, and yourself.
Love

33 Sex Toy Deals to Jump On Before Valentine’s Day

These are sales we can get down with.
Business etiquette

What Are the Rules for Talking About Your Sex Life With Friends?

Sharing dirty details can be fun (and healthy!) but it’s important to respect everyone’s boundaries.
Exposure therapy

How to Really, Actually Feel Better Naked

Insecurity is normal, but at a certain point, it can keep you from enjoying life to the fullest.
Down bad

Why Does Having a Crush Put Me in Utter Mental Hell?

Has a hot person turned you, a confident adult, into an Instagram-refreshing buffoon? Blame your brain chemistry.
Health

‘Sex With a Brain Injury’ Is Our January SELF Well-Read Book Club Pick

Annie Liontas’s memoir explores how a concussion can change your life.
Best-laid plans

24 Ways to Have Better Sex in 2024

Observe a sexual opposite day. Pretend someone is filming you. Use a lot more lube.
Shopping

25 Cyber Monday Sex Toy Deals You Can Shop Now

These are the gifts that keep on giving.
Magic touch

8 Really Good Reasons to Masturbate (Other Than the Obvious)

Your brain, body, and love life will thank you.
I want you, I knead you

How to Give a Sensual Massage That’s Actually Hot and Nice

Here’s exactly what to do—and not do—to pull off a sexy, relaxing back rub.