relationships
Who's a good girl?
Are You Seriously Turned On By Validation? Here’s How to Explore a Praise Kink in Bed
There’s nothing like a steady stream of compliments to make good sex fantastic.
By Erica Sloan
Sex
A Beginner’s Guide to Pegging
Ready to take butt stuff to a whole new level? Here’s how to try it.
By Erica Sloan
Sex
9 Very Hot Non-Penetrative Sex Ideas
If you can’t—or don’t want to—get it in, we’ve got some moves that’ll still get you off.
By Erica Sloan
Life
How to Deal With a Friend Who Complains Constantly
You’re not a bad person for wanting a break from the negativity.
By Jenna Ryu
Life
How to Make Friends With Other Couples
You might have to look outside your social circle to find The Ones.
By Julia Ries
Love
How Bad Is It, Really, to Go Through Your Partner’s Phone When They’re Not Looking?
Sneaking a peek at their texts can be tempting, but we asked a therapist if it’s worth it.
By Jenna Ryu
Life
5 Little Ways to Practice Setting Boundaries If You’re a Recovering People Pleaser
Standing up for yourself doesn’t have to be dramatic or confrontational.
By Jenna Ryu
Breast Cancer
Dating in Your 30s Is Hard Enough—Here’s What It’s Like If You Also Have Breast Cancer
One guy told me, “I just get uncomfortable with needles and doctors and stuff like that.”
By Caroline Reilly
Life
How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone You Hate
If your least favorite influencer or ex’s new partner is living in your head rent-free, read this.
By Jenna Ryu
Love
What Does ‘Enough’ Sex Really Look Like in a Healthy Relationship?
Is once a week really the sweet spot? We asked experts to weigh in.
By Jenna Ryu
Love
7 People Share How They Discovered Their Partner Was Emotionally Cheating
“She was quick to start fights…and spoke fondly of a coworker.”
By Kayla Blanton
Life
How to Stop Obsessing About What Other People Think of You
Craving social acceptance is only human, but the desire to belong can also go too far.
By Jenna Ryu
Losing battle
5 Signs You and Your Partner’s Arguments Are Unhealthy
If one of you regularly employs the silent treatment, that’s a problem.
By Julia Ries
Love
‘All My Exes Are Crazy’ Is a Relationship Red Flag You Should Take Seriously
Constantly trash-talking people they once loved reveals a lot about their character.
By Jenna Ryu
Endometriosis
How Dating With a Chronic Illness Taught Me Not to Settle for Less
The stigma is real, but I had to stop thinking of myself as “damaged goods.”
By Caroline Reilly
Relationships
14 Non-Corny Ways to Feel Much Closer to Your Partner
Ask them for advice, sleep in their clothes, and sneak a candy bar into their work bag.
By Amy Rose Spiegel
Love
How to Get Really, Really Good at Kissing
Tips about form, technique, and all things tongue.
By Nikki Campo and Gigi Engle
Love
8 People Share How Their Divorce Changed Their Life for the Better
“Finally, I loved what I did for a living. I loved who I was and the new friends I’d made.”
By Jenna Ryu
Sex
What My First Time Having Sex After Giving Birth Felt Like
It absolutely took longer than six weeks to get back in the groove.
By Julia Ries
Love
6 Not-Obvious Signs You’re Falling Out of Love With Your Partner
There’s a difference between needing a little space and fantasizing about a separate life.
By Jenna Ryu