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The gifts of gab

Why Yapping With Your Friends Is So Good For Your Mental Health

You don’t have to go deep to feel connected.
Life

How to Actually Maintain Close Friendships in Your 30s

Because jobs, kids, and living in different cities can make it really, really hard.
Bestie behavior

16 People Who Actually Made New Friends in Adulthood Share How They Did It

If you feel like it’s too late—or too hard—let these meet-cutes be your inspiration.
Hater aid

How to Be a Little Less Judgy

You’re not a bad person if you have a lot of critical thoughts—but it’s still worth trying to keep your inner Regina George in check.
Beauty

17 Women Share the Reasons They Stopped Wearing Makeup

“What am I trying to hide? This is my true skin, wrinkles and all.”
Party of one

8 Solo Date Ideas That Can Help You Actually Enjoy Doing Things Alone

Going to a cozy bar or weekday movie by yourself doesn’t have to be awkward.
RIP

Actually, ‘Bed Rotting’ Can Be a Very Legit Form of Self-Care

It’s called rest, people.
Thank us later

7 Easy and Non-Corny Ways to Practice Gratitude Every Day

Don’t roll your eyes—the mental and physical health benefits are legit.
Self-reflection

How to Stop Comparing Your Current Body to Your Former One

It’s easy to romanticize the past, but we’re not meant to look the same our whole lives.
Dude awakening

Here’s What I’ve Learned About Raising Boys in My 30 Years as a Child Psychologist

We know what kids need to flourish. We’ve just been slow to apply it to our sons.
Nice work

Here’s How to Actually Be Kinder to Yourself

Self-compassion isn’t silly—and it can make life’s challenges so much more manageable.
Historical fiction

How to Stop Romanticizing the Past So You Can Enjoy Your Life Right Now

Was the grass really so much greener back in the day?
Well aware

4 Ways to Tell If Your Self-Care Practice Is Actually Making You Feel Better

If it causes stress or guilt, what’s the point?
Health

5 Alternatives to Journaling for People Who Simply Don’t Wanna

We’re not all Virginia Woolf, okay.
Love

5 Ways to Keep Your Friendships Strong—Even When Life Is Hectic

Consider creating a new bonding ritual.
Value proposition

How to Set Money Resolutions You Actually Feel Excited About This Year

You’re more likely to stick with goals that deeply matter to you.
Downtime dilemmas

How to Find Your Downtime Sweet Spot

No matter how much you have, you can make it more restful.
Culture

How to Stop Constantly Comparing Yourself to Other People Online

Even if you know Instagram isn’t reality, it’s a hard habit to break.
Health

I Highly Recommend Romance Novels If You’re Really Going Through It Right Now

They saved me when self-help couldn’t.