happiness
The gifts of gab
Why Yapping With Your Friends Is So Good For Your Mental Health
You don’t have to go deep to feel connected.
By Anna Borges
Life
How to Actually Maintain Close Friendships in Your 30s
Because jobs, kids, and living in different cities can make it really, really hard.
By Julia Ries
Bestie behavior
16 People Who Actually Made New Friends in Adulthood Share How They Did It
If you feel like it’s too late—or too hard—let these meet-cutes be your inspiration.
By Anna Borges
Hater aid
How to Be a Little Less Judgy
You’re not a bad person if you have a lot of critical thoughts—but it’s still worth trying to keep your inner Regina George in check.
By Anna Borges
Beauty
17 Women Share the Reasons They Stopped Wearing Makeup
“What am I trying to hide? This is my true skin, wrinkles and all.”
By Jenna Ryu
Party of one
8 Solo Date Ideas That Can Help You Actually Enjoy Doing Things Alone
Going to a cozy bar or weekday movie by yourself doesn’t have to be awkward.
By Jenna Ryu
RIP
Actually, ‘Bed Rotting’ Can Be a Very Legit Form of Self-Care
It’s called rest, people.
By Jenna Ryu
Thank us later
7 Easy and Non-Corny Ways to Practice Gratitude Every Day
Don’t roll your eyes—the mental and physical health benefits are legit.
By Jenna Ryu and Carolyn L. Todd
Self-reflection
How to Stop Comparing Your Current Body to Your Former One
It’s easy to romanticize the past, but we’re not meant to look the same our whole lives.
By Jenna Ryu
Dude awakening
Here’s What I’ve Learned About Raising Boys in My 30 Years as a Child Psychologist
We know what kids need to flourish. We’ve just been slow to apply it to our sons.
By Michael Reichert, PhD
Nice work
Here’s How to Actually Be Kinder to Yourself
Self-compassion isn’t silly—and it can make life’s challenges so much more manageable.
By Jenna Ryu
Historical fiction
How to Stop Romanticizing the Past So You Can Enjoy Your Life Right Now
Was the grass really so much greener back in the day?
By Jay Deitcher
Well aware
4 Ways to Tell If Your Self-Care Practice Is Actually Making You Feel Better
If it causes stress or guilt, what’s the point?
By Julia Ries
Relationships
9 Feel-Good Books That Celebrate Non-Romantic Love
Partners aren’t the only objects worthy of our affection.
By Christine Pride
Health
5 Alternatives to Journaling for People Who Simply Don’t Wanna
We’re not all Virginia Woolf, okay.
By Julia Ries
Love
5 Ways to Keep Your Friendships Strong—Even When Life Is Hectic
Consider creating a new bonding ritual.
By Samantha Vincenty
Value proposition
How to Set Money Resolutions You Actually Feel Excited About This Year
You’re more likely to stick with goals that deeply matter to you.
By Lindsay Bryan-Podvin, LMSW
Downtime dilemmas
How to Find Your Downtime Sweet Spot
No matter how much you have, you can make it more restful.
By Nikki Campo
Culture
How to Stop Constantly Comparing Yourself to Other People Online
Even if you know Instagram isn’t reality, it’s a hard habit to break.
By Julia Ries
Health
I Highly Recommend Romance Novels If You’re Really Going Through It Right Now
They saved me when self-help couldn’t.
By Jennifer Chen