The 32 Best Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her in 2023

Whether you and your partner have been together for a couple months or several years, finding the right Valentine’s Day gifts for her can feel a little tricky, if not a little stressful. After all, Valentine’s Day is a wonderful opportunity to show your girlfriend, wife, best friend, or mom just how much you care for her, so a thoughtful gift (read: something that goes above and beyond the standard box of chocolates and teddy bear) is a must. 

Not sure where to start? Spend a little time brainstorming about something your better half will use or experience regularly (and, in turn, that gives her a reason to think about you every time she does). And perhaps, true to the V-Day spirit, consider romantic gifts that’ll take your date nights from sweet to steamy; in which case, you can’t go wrong with some lacy lingerie or some swoon-worthy sex toys.

Whatever type of gift is on your list, don’t worry: From self-care and skin-care products to silky-soft pj’s, we’ve found the perfect presents for Valentine's to make her heart skip a beat. Keep scrolling to shop the best Valentine’s Day gifts for her from retailers like Nordstrom, Sephora, Venus et Fleur, Mejuri, Anthropologie, Etsy, Amazon, and more.

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• Valentine's Day Fashion Gifts for Her
• Valentine's Day Home Gifts for Her
• Valentine's Day Tech Gifts for Her

If your V-Day plans primarily involve staying in (wink), spice things up with a luxe sex toy (or three). Lelo’s Girl Power bundle features two of the luxe sexual-wellness brand’s bestsellers: the G-spot-targeting Gigi 2 and Nea 2, an easy-to-hold egg vibrator. Other sex toy Valentine’s Day gifts include the SELF Fave Maude Vibe (which is discreet, easy to use, and surprisingly powerful); the whisper-quiet Dame Kip, which pinpoints the clitoris; and hands-free We-Vibe Moxie panty vibrator, which is remote- and app-controllable (making it a great choice for long-distance couples).

For more: Sex Toys on Sale for Valentine's, Clitoral Vibrators, Sex Toys for Couples 

The best gift you could give your significant other? Self-care. If your girlfriend or partner has felt a bit tense lately, these pampering gifts will deliver a much-needed message: Relax. Nothing says that quite like a plushy bath robe, SELF Fave wearable heated neck massager (which clocks in under $50), or luxe bath salts and massage oil set from Maude. To elevate her daily routines, a sunrise alarm clock (which makes waking far more tranquil) or SELF Fave Tushy bidet (for cleaner, more pleasurable poops) are the perfect wellness gifts for her.

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A subscription makes a smart Valentine’s Day gift idea as it technically qualifies as multiple gifts in one tidy box and can be emailed as a gift card last minute. For a fun, sexy gift, opt for a lingerie subscription box like this one from Elite by AdoreMe, which sends curated sets in a wide variety of sizes. If she’s a coffee connoisseur, wine aficionado, or floral lover, these subscription boxes make for some of the most romantic V-day gifts, as they continue giving month after month.

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If you’re taking the beauty route for your sweetheart’s present, consider giving her something that not only feels luxurious but will look great on her bathroom counter. From skin care gift sets to TikTok-viral makeup must-haves, these gifts are practically guaranteed to make your beauty-loving better half smile. We’ve got our eye on this nourishing trio from Tatcha (including our favorite lip mask); a sultry, woodsy Glossier eau de parfum; and the worth-the-hype SELF Fave Dyson AirWrap (which makes getting ready for date night that much faster).

Shopping for someone else’s closet can be challenging, but fortunately, some clothing and accessories are always appreciated. A high-quality cashmere sweater makes an excellent choice, as does a piece of dainty jewelry. Even the pickiest giftee will cherish luxe loungewear and pajamas. To kick the romance up a notch, presenting her with a sexy (albeit comfy) bra and/or lingerie set. 

Between scented candles that create mood lighting, fuzzy throw blankets you can both snuggle under, and a Venus et Fleur rose arrangement that can last for over a year, home goods can make for some seriously romantic gifts. 

For the gadget-inclined partner, adding to her tech collection is a unique Valentine’s Day gifting strategy she’ll surely appreciate. Preserve new memories with a mini instant camera (frame-worthy selfies await) or cut to the chase and get them something practical, like a wireless charger that’ll keep their favorite devices fully powered or those AirPods she’s wanted.

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• The Best Valentine's Day Gifts of 2023
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