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Sex Toy Help - What should I choose?

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liveforsaturday · 30/07/2023 09:36

So last year me & my bf decided to get a toy to add something extra to our sex life - initially I was reluctant so said it could only be something very small. We’re both in early 20s and just moved in together so exploring more now.

We got ourselves a Lovehoney Mini Bullet Vibrator which was as much as I was willing to get at the time. Very quickly I got used to it and love using it, both with him and by myself.

Now we’re looking to step it up a bit and get something new. But not really sure what’s best to get next. Doesn’t have to be vibrator can be anything. Either for us as a couple or just for me ;).

Don’t have any specific budget and we’re not limiting ourselves to just one toy either, so could get a few.

Would love to hear any recommendations or suggestions on toys we should try.

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Bexx87 · 30/07/2023 14:11

Doxy wand. My only problem is that I now struggle to cum with other vibrators because it's that good.

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tvsondinnermade · 30/07/2023 15:51

www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/romp-shine-rechargeable-clitoral-suction-stimulator/a45535g82040.html

This is a good one, I have it myself. I agree with @Bexx87 a wand is good but very powerful and if you use it to much it may affect your ability to come with other toys.

I also have this one
www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/love-eggs-jiggle-balls/vibrating-love-eggs/p/lovehoney-inner-glow-rechargeable-remote-control-love-egg/a48215g85977.html
Which is also good, my dh also likes the feeling of this being inside me while he is

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DGConsultant · 30/07/2023 16:16

You can't go wrong with a Doxy wand. From experience, fab to use individually, but also with partner. Sensational. Alternate between It and something not quite as strong though.

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liveforsaturday · 30/07/2023 16:48

Thanks all

Seem’s the Doxy wand has a few recommendations, think I’ll definitely take a look.

Could also do with a toy that I can use with my bf together, not sure a wand is best for this?

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DGConsultant · 30/07/2023 16:59

@liveforsaturday You can certainly use the wand simultaneously with your BF, utterly marvelous. As a guy, one of the most erotic things I've ever done with a woman. Essentially you can position It on both of you when having foreplay, you'll have to adjust the speed settings, It can be to intense for guys at high speeds, if you want to use It together. I'd use on yourself at a high speed or whatever your comfortable with, then have a simultaneous play together, at a more relaxed speed. Lovely. He'll be in heaven, and so will you probably.

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liveforsaturday · 30/07/2023 17:34

@DGConsultant - thanks that sounds great!

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B1rd · 31/07/2023 00:13

I don't like wands because I think the vibrations are too much and end up numbing my clit.
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is a clit sucker and the greatest toy ever invented.
The Senzi pin point vibrator is great too.
I also like the thrusting butt prostate massager which I use as a vibrator.
Remote controlled love eggs are great, but not the app ones because that's not very discreet. The standard remote works well in the man's pocket.

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Bexx87 · 31/07/2023 08:07

I find the clit suction toys can be amazing if you can get them in the exact right spot and keep it there but I found that hard to do. They give low level stimulation that made me too wet and so it kept sliding out of place. So I've given up on those type for now.

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DGConsultant · 31/07/2023 11:31

@B1rd That Satisfyer Pro 2 sounds incredible. Wasn't aware that clit sucking toys existed. Making us guys redundant, almost. There's so much variety out there for women, It is frightening, but also fantastic. I'd love to get one of those Satisfyer Pro 2's, use It on a partner, and then compare skills, toy vs human. There's a channel 4 documentary in there, somewhere...

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