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How to introduce sex toys?

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CoconutGal · 12/06/2021 19:16

OH has never used sex toys in previous sexual relationships. I would like to bring some into foreplay. I'm fully aware that OH doesn't want them used on him but I'd like him to feel comfortable using them on me during foreplay. How do I introduce this?

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StarlightLady · 13/06/2021 06:46

You say “look what l’ve got”.

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Catullus5 · 13/06/2021 08:20

"Let's try this!"

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StarryNight13 · 13/06/2021 09:23

Have a conversation about which one you would like to try together and learn together by experimenting. Maybe you could try it out first by yourself and then show him how you like it to be used.

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StarlightLady · 13/06/2021 09:57

OP - be aware, it’s better if “you drive” and he holds you. Men are often useless in finding the right spot pressure etc.

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Catullus5 · 14/06/2021 01:47

@StarlightLady

OP - be aware, it’s better if “you drive” and he holds you. Men are often useless in finding the right spot pressure etc.

This. Although I like to think I'm not completely useless

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Or have him hold the toy and direct his hand, so he sees and feels how to use it.

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