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Toy for g spot

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Fredelliottisayfredelliott · 11/11/2020 09:44

New to the whole toy thing so bare with me! I got a womanizer recently and its bloody amazing! Bought it on a whim after seeing a thread here and I'm so happy I took a chance. Now its making me think what else have I been missing out on! I've never been able to orgasm from PIV only clitoral stimulation. I would love to try have g spot orgasm. Any suggestions for a toy that could help?

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Remmy123 · 19/11/2020 18:52

@Muuuuuummm report back!!

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Muuuuuummm · 20/11/2020 07:45

I like it. It feels like nothing else I've tried. I havent managed a proper g spot orgasm yet but with some cliteral stimulation too I had some really nice orgasms. I really think this toy needs some practice and I'm looking forward to putting some in. Would recomend!!!!

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DanceItOut · 22/11/2020 19:40

Well...now I want an njoy. I have a womaniser and it works but I wasn’t mind blown by it, I prefer my wand. I don’t think I’ve ever managed a g spot orgasm before...

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LisaD76 · 22/11/2020 20:38

Moregasm rabbit from Ann summers.... £70 but so worth it

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Mxflamingnoravera · 22/11/2020 21:58

Ok, so I'll be totally open about the njoy (copy) and how it was so effective for me. If you struggle with the idea of BDSM then don't read any further.

I'm into BDSM and I'm sub, my partner bought the toy. He can bring me to a gspot gush with his fingers but no toy has ever done this before.

A spreader bar held my legs apart and my legs were also further held apart with shibari rope ties as garters on my thighs. He built a rope bar between the garters and inserted the large end of the njoy into my vagina and slipped the other end into the rope bar between the ropes, my legs were raised and I used the crooks of my elbows to hold my legs up. I then just gently moved my bound legs up and down, the effect on the toy was magnified by the distance and the simple movement. My partner encouraged me to move my legs and it was only shallow inside me, the movement caused me to come and gush, it just kept happening again and again.

When (since) I've tried it alone, holding the toy with my hand, I cannot replicate the movement or the intensity, I can almost get it it, but not quite.

I've told this story simply because I think there are elements of situation, of intimacy and (and I think this is most important) not using my hands to move it- the feeling of it being in my control but in a restrained and vulnerable (and safe) situation all added to the pleasure, along with the angle of insertion. I'd suggest anyone who has bought one because of my recommendation, to find a way of moving it with your feet, or in your knickers or any way where there is an element of it being somehow, less thrusty than you might do if you hold it with your hand.

The nearest Ive got to replicating the first use was to rest the small end over a finger like a lever and then use very small movements with shallow insertion rather than hold it like you might hold a dildo or similar. I'm thinking that tying my ankles and slipping it between the tie then moving my legs could replicate and I will try it (but he has the toy ATM and he isn't here, so it will have to wait).

Sorry if this is TMI, but I figured if you have one and you're feeling disappointed, perhaps using it in a different way might help.

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DanceItOut · 23/11/2020 06:45

@Mxflamingnoravera no I think the way you’re explaining it is probably actually very helpful. That g spot stimulation works better with a rocking more gentle rocking motion rather than a typical thrusting one? However someone finds as the physical way of managing it.

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MisterT373 · 23/11/2020 15:17

Why do women get all the beautiful toys? Let's face it you can't really make a Fleshlight out of glass or steel?

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Muuuuuummm · 25/11/2020 07:34

Mx that's very interesting. I did find it very stimulating with very little movement. I was messaging a friend about it while I used it and I just rested the big end on my front with the small end in while I typed and the slightest movement felt really good. You can get very pretty butt plugs Mister, everyone can play with those 😀