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Please recommend a vibrator..

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IAmCabbageDear · 12/04/2020 08:37

For a woman (me, 40 plus) who has never achieved the big O, either solo or as part of a couple.

Something that would get an orgasm out of a stone (or a very sexually inept lady) required.

Be gentle, please. I'm not proud of it.

Thank you

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Namechangedyorkshire · 12/04/2020 10:38

Womaniser...but be prepared for it being mindblowingly quick as it puts direct suction in your clit

After you have achieved it then perhaps try one that isn't as intense

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maggie1862 · 12/04/2020 10:53

yes womaniser or Satisfyer Pro 2 , if you enjoy half as much as I do then wow , go girl .

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StarlightLady · 12/04/2020 11:09

I can’t speak for the Womaniser. I do have a nains rechargeable Omax, which is excellent albeit a little heavy. I don’t think they make them any more, but you might find you can pick one up on a specific search.

But as a new starter, l would suggest the little Durex bullet, quiet, slips in a make up bag and almost part of my wake up routine. I travel a lot for work and it goes everywhere with me.

As for orgasms, l am of similar age to you, remember the focus is on the clitoris. It’s important to remember how our bodies “work”. x

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Bouldghirl · 12/04/2020 12:24

Womaniser is undoubtedly ‘full on’. It really doesn’t suit every woman. I’m inclined to agree with @StarlightLady that the Durex Bullet is a better place to start. It’s discreet but powerful enough to get to where you want to be. Enjoy the experience x

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StarlightLady · 12/04/2020 13:08

@Bouldghirl - I agree. In addition the Durex Bullet can be picked up for around £10 in Boots etc. It takes one AAA battery and its lightweight, which means it doesn’t make your arm ache. Mine has certainly lasted longer than others vibeys, l have had in the past.

I certainly wouldn’t be without one.

It’s so quiet too, l find it quite off putting to have something that sounds like a cement mixer in the bedroom.

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IAmCabbageDear · 12/04/2020 15:49

Thanks everyone.

@StarlightLady Even I managed to find my clitoris But while enjoyable I don't even get close (in my perception of what close might be) on my own, or with company. I just want to feel what other people seem to be able to feel but I can't. It's quite sad really. Can't think too much about that 😞

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BaroleCaskin · 12/04/2020 17:54

Have you spoken to your GP about this OP? Do you think it could be psychological? Good luck on your quest to orgasm, I hope you succeed!

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Crystal87 · 13/04/2020 00:26

For me it would have to be a rabbit. I've tried other types of vibrator but I always go back to them. Some are better than others though.

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Namechangedyorkshire · 13/04/2020 07:41

I recommended the Womaniser/Satisfyer as I have heard how effective they are and may help Op get over the barriers you have .

However, I didn't want one as it sounds so quick and I don't have a problem getting to orgasm so enjoy a more standard rubber type one which is softer and love DH using inside me...takes a little while which is lovely and end result is very intense.

I had tried a rabbit but didn't like it twirling in me lol

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Crystal87 · 13/04/2020 08:37

I turn off the twirling function in the shaft as I find it doesn't really do anything for me. But the shaft holds it in place to get the rabbit ears in the right place which is the bit I love.

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nancyjuice7 · 13/04/2020 19:46

https://dodsonandross.com/sexfeature/first-time-orgasm

Read everything on this woman's website and she explains it clearly. May be how you are using the devices, rather than the devices not being strong enough

Good luck

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