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Sex toys for beginners - what do you recommend?

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MaryBoBary · 26/06/2019 20:36

OH and I have been together for over 10 years and I finally am getting my libido back after having our child. We are thinking about trying some sex toys which neither of us have ever done before.

What do you more experienced mumsnetters recommend end? I don't really know where to start but what I am sure of is that neither of us want to try anal, so no anal toy recommendations required!

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MaryBoBary · 26/06/2019 21:29

What?!? Not a single recommendation? Is everyone pretending they don't use them? Grin

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PutyourtoponTrevor · 26/06/2019 21:29

Maybe post in the sex topic

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MaryBoBary · 26/06/2019 21:33

I thought about it but was scared of the answers I might get there! Didn't think it would be so tabboo on chat!

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bengalcat · 26/06/2019 21:35

Go into the love honey website - they’re one of the biggest UK online sellers of sextoys

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Bluerussian · 26/06/2019 21:35

Do you really need sex toys, op? Surely the real thing with someone you love, who loves you, is infinitely preferable.

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Pinkyyy · 26/06/2019 21:37

People will be more willing to discuss this in the sex topic, where it's required that you've been a member for a while to ensure that you're not here with bad intentions. Report your post and get it moved. Or ask on a different forum that's more suitable.

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bigredvase · 26/06/2019 21:40

Op people tend to not discuss stuff like this on chat or aibu because of the amount of men people that use it for wank material.

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MaryBoBary · 26/06/2019 21:40

No I don't think we need them, our sex life is getting back on track anyway, but have both wondered if we might be missing out on something. So many people seem to use them that we thought we might give it a go. But at the same time I'm a bit nervous about it for some reason - probably because I know nothing about them.

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MaryBoBary · 26/06/2019 21:41

OK thanks everyone, hadn't thought about this being potabtial wank material. I'll ask for it to be moved.

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LilyMumsnet · 26/06/2019 21:44

We're just moving this over to the sex topic.

Good luck OP - hopefully you'll get some useful recommendations shortly. Gin

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AravisQueenOfArchenland · 26/06/2019 21:46

A blindfold or sleeping mask, the one wearing it lies down, while the other kisses them from head to toe, then back up to thighs/belly, then oral. Then use your imagination from there.

A mini vibrator, use it on your clit during sex (let the tip touch his penis, he'll probably like it). If he's adventurous, you could always tickle his prostate with it (aka put it up his bum, but not until he's already hard, and very very gently and with lots of lube. And with prior consent of course!). If he likes it, that can be his, and get a new one for you (easier than having to stop and clean one before switching uses).

Visit a sex shop for inspiration.

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MamaWeasel · 26/06/2019 22:15

Lovehoney is a great website for window shopping Smile

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MrsMiggins37 · 27/06/2019 01:08

Do you really need sex toys, op? Surely the real thing with someone you love, who loves you, is infinitely preferable.

It’s not either/or. Plenty of couples in loving relationships with good sex lives use toys to add a bit extra.

OP something like a bullet might be good or maybe a rabbit. I’ve ordered a wand but I gather it’s maybe not for beginners!

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