Hey I’m writing today as I’m not entirely sure if I should put more pressure on my son towards potty training.
my son is three years old this month, and is still very much in pull up nappies. It’s not that I haven’t tried, because I have… ALOT. It’s just he’s clearly not ready. And I don’t want to put massive amounts of pressure on him, I feel as if like everything else, when he is ready, he will do it. I’m not saying I don’t encourage it but I currently accept it for what it is and think he will soon come round.
anyways let me get to the point of my post, my sons nursery informed me today, that if he isn’t out of nappies very soon, he will have to be held back. And will not move up to preschool with the group he joined with. To be in a group of 2 year olds again. which worries me as he is quite shy with kids and only in the last few months of nursery made two friends. I don’t want it to affect the way he transitions into reception. I was told by the teacher how I should “ just take off the nappy, let him pee all over the house and deal with it” and that “her son was out of nappies by two”.
now I don’t feel very comfortable letting my son embarrass himself by peeing himself, again and again and again. When he won’t even try to go in a potty. I’ve even tried sitting on the toilet while he does it, got him a different potty seat for the big toilet and a stool. Offered him treats or other bribes lol. But he doesn’t want to know… he does though announce when he needs a 💩following a running away and hiding.
what is it I can do? And should I just accept he might need to be held back? It’s making me so anxious and now I feel like I’m not up to speed. I’m a first time single mum and I don’t know if there’s a cut off point.
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MamaCE · 05/07/2023 00:57
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05/07/2023 18:53
LobsterCrab · 05/07/2023 18:31
Personally I think that ditching the nappies and going cold turkey is the best way rather than encouraging etc. Lots of accidents for the first few days and then they get the hang of it. Why not give it a try OP? Better than him having to stay down a room.
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