Pregnant and stressed. Will need to, ( financially), return to work 3 days a week when baby is 5-6 months old.
Looking at childcare options and, pre-lockdown, found what I thought was an absolutely lovely day nursery that takes babies 3 months to four years.
Staff seemed lovely, lovely outdoor play area, pets/ farmyard animals,regular trips out, home cooked / nutritious meals , literally everything you could want.
Naively I also felt for a baby that I would prefer a nursery over a childminder , as there are people around, ( in case anything untoward happened), and everyone coming into the setting is DBS checked. I also assumed that , ( if settled ), baby would stay there until reception as they follow eyfs. However, I've just spoken to my sister , ( who works in a school), and she has told me in no uncertain terms :
-Day nurseries are full of bored 17 year old staff who don't care.
- They're horrible places which are lonely and boring for children.
-School nurseries are soooo much better, shge doesn't know anybody who would keep their child in a day nursery over a school nursery.
Have i got everything wrong ? Genuinely feel quite stressed and upset