The relationship type that leads to success

How giving more can lead to ultimate success...

I had the fortunate pleasure of recently connecting with Michael Datta . This was after many phone tags and rescheduled appointments but we were both persistent in making it happen. Michael is a great networker and what I love about him, is his shoutouts and recaps after meeting with different folks to help give those individuals spotlight on LinkedIn.

During our conversations we discussed the different relationship archetypes and how individuals can find ultimate success choosing one.

Give and Take:

"Give and Take" relationships are perhaps the most common in our everyday lives. In these connections, there is a balance between giving and receiving. I do this for you in exchange for ___. There are no favors, it's really I'm doing this because you know you will get something on the backend. Both parties contribute, and there is a sense of reciprocity. These relationships can be highly functional, as they often lead to mutual growth and benefit. However, they can also become transactional if not nurtured properly. Striking the right balance and ensuring that both parties feel valued is essential to maintaining the health of a "Give and Take" relationship.

Give and Receive:

"Give and Receive" relationships are marked by one person predominantly giving while the other primarily receives. At some point there might be a breaking point or a moment where the giver feels overwhelmed or frustrated because of lack of acknowledgement. On the positive side, while there may be an apparent imbalance, the beauty of these connections lies in the potential for personal growth and transformation for both parties. The giver gains a sense of purpose and fulfillment, while the receiver benefits from support and guidance.

Give and Give:

Now, let's turn our attention to the most extraordinary type of giving relationship: "Give and Give." In this form of connection, both individuals are committed to giving without expecting anything in return. It's a relationship built on selflessness, empathy, and a shared vision of making each other's lives better. Here's what a "Give and Give" relationship looks like:

This is why winners hang out with winners in my opinion.

a. Mutual Empowerment: In a "Give and Give" relationship, both individuals empower each other to reach their full potential. They serve as each other's cheerleaders, offering unwavering support and encouragement.

b. Collaborative Growth: These relationships foster an environment of continuous learning and growth. The synergy between two people committed to self-improvement creates an upward spiral of development.

c. Unconditional Support: There are no strings attached in a "Give and Give" relationship. Both parties offer help, guidance, and love without expecting anything in return. It's about genuine care and concern for each other's well-being.

d. Long-lasting Bonds: "Give and Give" relationships often lead to deep, long-lasting connections. The trust and intimacy that develop in such relationships are unmatched, creating a profound sense of belonging.

e. Positive Ripple Effect: These relationships have a ripple effect, positively impacting other areas of life. Individuals who experience "Give and Give" relationships tend to radiate positivity and generosity in all their interactions.

In the realm of personal development, motivation, and meaningful relationships, "Give and Give" relationships stand as the pinnacle of connection. They are a testament to the power of selflessness, empathy, and genuine care for others. While all types of giving relationships have their place and importance, striving for a "Give and Give" dynamic can lead to profound personal growth and fulfillment.

TTS: Relationship Building

Tip: Is there any thing I can do to help you right now? ...Simply asking that question can transform your relationships

Tool: Airtable - great CRM to track your relationships

Strategy: Do something without asking - If there's a way you can help someone either by observation or just knowing that a specific connection would make sense, go out of your way to do that.

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