Mason L Eddy’s Post

When Lobsters fight... And the News The dominant lobster will strut with its claws in the air, while the subordinate lobster will sulk and may even flee Lobsters have a nervous system that's attuned to status and runs on serotonin, a brain chemical associated with happiness The higher a lobster climbs in the hierarchy, the more serotonin its brain makes available Defeated lobsters can experience significant consequences, including changes to their brain chemistry, loss of confidence, and changes in their posture For example, if a lobster loses enough fights and its social status, its brain may stop producing serotonin and parts of it may even shrink The lobster may become depressed and give up, while the winner's brain is flooded with serotonin.... Are you winning or losing daily? Do we fight, yes but at the end of the day my wife and I always reminder each other we are on the same team Is what you are focused on Positive or Negative? Either way its growing You are conditioning or "deepening" neural pathways in your brain It's powerful... Its why I HATE the news and news channels as it is 90% negative

Never be held prisoner to your past, it was meant to be a life lesson, not a life sentance

That’s the DREAM! I hear it often from people about the way my wife and I live Most of the times they are serious and some times they are being sarcastic… Either way Here are 3 steps to living the dream if you have a job and want to be financially free 1. Read books by people who have done it 2. Start side ventures that you can scale and automate (leverage existing platforms) 3. Plan your week nights and weekends to be productive (including fun and family time) instead of having your nights and weekends plan you! Godspeed!

God will put you with someone who doesn't look like you or talk like you or think like you or act like you SO THAT you can learn to love someone other than YOURSELF Today is Ali Eddy and my 8 year Wedding Anniversary The above is the #1 lesson I have learned after 8 years of marriage "Why can't she just be like me?" I would ask myself... and then God revealed to me... "Mason, you are basically wanting to love another version of yourself" OUCH! But true. So the question is this... What if marriage was designed to be a gift so that you can learn to love outside of yourself?

6 Types of Leadership Every Wife Wants from Her Husband.... That I have dropped the ball on multiple times... and so will you if you are a husband However, it doesn't mean we can't work on it 1. 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 - making her feel loved 2. 𝙋𝙧𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙖𝙗𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 - being emotional stable, not lashing out 3. 𝙎𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 - a man who selflessly contributes to her, the good of the family and others 4. 𝙑𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙧𝙮 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 - not only knows what he believes but but specifically has a vision for creating that 5. 𝙃𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 - a man that walks the walk in what he puts into his body and takes care of his body 6. 𝙎𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥 - Of all the areas of leadership, this may be the one your wife needs you to take the lead in most. Grabbing your family’s hands to pray together regularly and leading by example to help them live out their faith

Boys look to their dad or key men in their lives to learn who they are as men It’s a responsibility to model behavior for our boys Remember, deep in his heart, every man longs for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue

Happy Memorial Day Weekend

How many people at the company you work for are over the age of 61? Yet...the average retirement age is greater then 61 in the US So whats happening?? ... I don't even need to answer that , just think about it ... Writing is on the WALL Do yourself a favor and start building multiple streams of income now Its more risky then ever to have one source Here to help if you need Otherwise 3 books I highly recommend to get started: 1. The Cash Flow Quadrants by Robert Kiyosaki 2. The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy 3. The Go Giver by Bob Berg Godspeed

Leadership... Key to scaling any venture is allowing others to lead... Giving "rope" to those who are developing as leaders but still being involved in the process... Oh, and also a hack for those who have kids like ours who want to learn how to walk the dog!