Julie's Reviews > Being Henry: The Fonz . . . and Beyond

Being Henry: The Fonz and Beyond by Henry Wrinkler is a 2023 Celadon Books publication.

My reaction to this memoir was unusual. As I turned the last page, I really thought, for the first time, that I might have been given a real glimpse into what life as an actor might be like. I even mused that maybe it was because when choosing memoirs, I usually gravitate towards those written by musicians. So, out of curiosity, I looked up my memoir shelf on Goodreads and was surprised – Make it shocked! - That I’d read so many biographies and memoirs about actors. I don’t guess any of those books painted a realistic picture of what happens to actors in the down times- when you are waiting for the phone to ring. It was nerve wracking, I have to say.

The book is written with a humorous tone- but for a long time there was a humming melancholy running beneath the surface. Henry made me laugh numerous times, but he seemed to live his life in a kind of tense desperation- desperate to reclaim the level of fame he had while on Happy Days, desperate to be ‘seen’, desperate to be taken seriously as an actor and desperate to maintain financial security and to stay employed. His personal life was also overshadowed by a hardcore grudge against his parents that never seemed to wane. On the other hand, Henry has a long-term marriage, children, grandchildren and stability- though he wasn’t always as emotionally mature or ‘there’ for his wife in key moments of their lives.

Yet by the time the book begins to wind down to present day events, we do see that Henry has matured, has made peace with some of his issues, and is now prepared to inspire and guide others, vowing to be as gentle and kind as possible going forward.

Overall, it was a very interesting memoir, well done- insightful and balanced. It was one of those times when I found I liked Henry more after reading the book than before- which is not always the case. He was not at all like I expected him to be, and his journey gave me some food for thought on several levels.

If you like celebrity memoirs this is one you might want to make room for on your bookshelf.

4 stars