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I Who Have Never Known Men
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4 1/2 stars. Wow. This tiny, disquieting book carries a sadness that the most popular tearjerkers could never hope to capture.
It sits outside of genre, outside of time, outside of the reality we know, introducing the reader to a world unfamiliar to both them and the unnamed protagonist. The result is a palpable feeling of wonder and loneliness.
I have decided to round up because this book made me feel so deeply, and because I have decided that my personal frustrations are perhaps misguided. There were things that I was hoping for from this book that I didn't get, but then I was never promised them, and, in fact, the past tense narration forewarned I would not get them. So that's my problem.
The story starts in an underground bunker where thirty-nine women and one young girl-- our narrator --are imprisoned in a cage. They don't remember how they got there and they have no idea why they are there. The women remember a life before the cage with families, friends and jobs, but the child remembers only their current existence. They are watched over and fed by male guards who tell them nothing. It seems they are doomed to live and die in this cage... until one day a combination of chance and ingenuity provide an opportunity for freedom.
It is part eerie pastoral dystopia, part a deeply introspective novel about hope, loneliness and the things that give life meaning. The novel swings between the invigorating feeling of hope and the numbing despair of hopelessness.
I found myself wondering at one point if it was supposed to be a metaphor. (view spoiler) But perhaps I am overthinking things.
Either way, this short novel sat like a ball of anxiety in my throat from beginning to end. What a sad, evocative little story.
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“I was forced to acknowledge too late, much too late, that I too had loved, that I was capable of suffering, and that I was human after all.”
4 1/2 stars. Wow. This tiny, disquieting book carries a sadness that the most popular tearjerkers could never hope to capture.
It sits outside of genre, outside of time, outside of the reality we know, introducing the reader to a world unfamiliar to both them and the unnamed protagonist. The result is a palpable feeling of wonder and loneliness.
I have decided to round up because this book made me feel so deeply, and because I have decided that my personal frustrations are perhaps misguided. There were things that I was hoping for from this book that I didn't get, but then I was never promised them, and, in fact, the past tense narration forewarned I would not get them. So that's my problem.
The story starts in an underground bunker where thirty-nine women and one young girl-- our narrator --are imprisoned in a cage. They don't remember how they got there and they have no idea why they are there. The women remember a life before the cage with families, friends and jobs, but the child remembers only their current existence. They are watched over and fed by male guards who tell them nothing. It seems they are doomed to live and die in this cage... until one day a combination of chance and ingenuity provide an opportunity for freedom.
It is part eerie pastoral dystopia, part a deeply introspective novel about hope, loneliness and the things that give life meaning. The novel swings between the invigorating feeling of hope and the numbing despair of hopelessness.
I found myself wondering at one point if it was supposed to be a metaphor. (view spoiler) But perhaps I am overthinking things.
Either way, this short novel sat like a ball of anxiety in my throat from beginning to end. What a sad, evocative little story.
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This book has been on my reading list for a long time - will read it at the beginning of next year, I hope ☺️
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Completely agree, I felt desolate reading this book (in a good way, somehow), and nothing else has come close to that particular experience. It's just a really special, singular novel.
M.H. wrote: "This book has been on my reading list for a long time - will read it at the beginning of next year, I hope ☺️"
I hope you love it. It's unlike anything else I've read :)
I hope you love it. It's unlike anything else I've read :)
beth wrote: "Completely agree, I felt desolate reading this book (in a good way, somehow), and nothing else has come close to that particular experience. It's just a really special, singular novel."
Yes, desolate in a good way is absolutely right. Books that make me feel something intensely are always my favourites, even if that feeling is sadness or anger.
Yes, desolate in a good way is absolutely right. Books that make me feel something intensely are always my favourites, even if that feeling is sadness or anger.
Couldn’t agree more!!! I wanted all these answers but had to accept not getting them. This book is one of my favorites ever
I loved this book as well, mostly for that unsettled feeling I had when I finished and I think about it often. Can you recommend another favorite of yours that will evoke similar feelings? Thank you, Emily! I always trust your recommendations
well, gosh, another one that goes on my to_read list. Thank you Emily, always following your reviews, as I saw that our tastes are very similar.
Incredible book, I see themes of female solidarity under the patriarchy, the cabinets could serve as metaphor for the house, in the beginning the young protagonist could be seen as challenging the patriarchy while not understanding the complacency of her older cell mates, but then you see the importance of female solidarity when the woman unite to figure out the time. It also hints at how detrimental the patriarchy is to men, the dead soldiers in the bus is a strong example “they’d been custodians of the absurd, carrying out orders whose purpose they were unaware of” (pg. 159)
Great review, also gave me a feeling of anxiety from beginning to end I really loved it though will stay with me for a long time.
Something about this book made me feel so at peace despite the feeling of loneliness being at its core
"I found myself wondering at one point if it was supposed to be a metaphor. The relentless pursuit of answers, of meaning, in a world that ultimately makes no sense." This is not overthinking. This is an amazing analysis. Great review