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Why I'm No Longer Talking to White People About Race by Reni Eddo-Lodge
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The Centrality of Race

Eddo-Lodge’s concern is not with prejudice, the irrational bias by white people against people of colour. It is with what she calls ‘structural racism’ for which overt racial prejudice is neither a necessary nor sufficient condition. Structural racism is what is left after all the explicit legal, technical and other formal constraints on the developmental possibilities available for people of colour have been largely removed. Structural racism is cultural; it is invisible; and it, not the rules and regulations, has always been the source of the ‘racial problem’ - not only in Britain but throughout that part of the world dominated by European culture.

Structural racism is the result of unrecognised presumptions by white people - and also by ‘assimilated’ black people - that are psychologically ingrained and sociologically enforced to mistrust, malign, demean, dismiss, and discount the abilities and competence of black people. And because white people hold the power to hire, fire, reward, punish, recognise or ignore black people, these presumptions become racism. The effects of these presumptions are rarely dramatic or even discourteous: “White privilege is dull, grinding complacency.”

The presumptions involved need not be consciously held. They are in fact most powerful when they are unrealised and unexpressed. The central presumption is one that is held not by the overt racist but by the self-designated anti-racist: that race does not matter. This is the only presumption necessary, that race does not exist, for racism to flourish. Whiteness is not a neutral characteristic which can be ignored in order to nullify its effects, its entitlement, its privilege. It represents an absence of all the existential conditions for those who are the victims of racism.

Like it or not, in today’s society, to be white is a sufficient condition for being racist. This is precisely Eddo-Lodge’s experience: “The claim to not see race is tantamount to compulsory assimilation. My blackness has been politicised against my will, but I don’t want it wilfully ignored in an effort to instil some sort of precarious, false harmony. And, though many placate themselves with the colour-blindness lie, the... drastic differences in life chances along race lines show that while it might be being preached by our institutions, it’s not being practised.”

The cure for this inherent racism is not to examine oneself for residual prejudices; this may produce guilt but not effective action. Rather the essential therapy, if I understand Eddo-Lodge correctly, is to develop an appreciation of what it is to be black in a white man’s world, to understand the range of intended or incidental slights, suspicions, exclusions, and denigrations which a black person endures as a matter of course. This is of course extremely difficult to accomplish. Among other things it demands that one be constantly open to education - mostly from black people - about when, where and how these apparently trivial, but cumulatively profound, events occur.

This is a bitter pill for those who consider themselves the allies of anti-racism and she knows it. “Who really wants to be alerted,” Eddo-Lodge says, “to a structural system that benefits them at the expense of others?” And she knows that it simply is not easy to see what’s missing: “In culture particularly, the positive affirmations of whiteness are so widespread that the average white person doesn’t even notice them.” The essence of white privilege is its diffuse ubiquity: “White privilege manifests itself in everyone and no one. Everyone is complicit, but no one wants to take on responsibility.” Overcoming white privilege is intimately personal and non-political, and for just those reasons extremely difficult.

“Seeing race is essential to changing the system,” she says. Attacking racism therefore implies seeing the absence of people of colour on television and in film; the absence of memorials to the victims of slavery; the absence of the history of exploitation of black people by white people in school textbooks and popular history documentaries; the absence of criticism of those white cultural heroes like the founding fathers in America and the pillars of British society who participated in this exploitation. Without this sort of positive, painful, persistent empathy, structural racism will continue to exist for generations and centuries to come.

Whether one agrees with her or not, Eddo-Lodge has to be taken seriously for what she has accomplished: the articulation of a devastating, factual description of the world from inside black skin. That experience she summarises as a “manipulative, suffocating blanket of power that envelops everything we know, like a snowy day.” I don’t see how this can be gainsaid as anything but truth.
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January 13, 2018 – Shelved as: to-read
January 13, 2018 – Shelved
September 4, 2018 – Started Reading
September 4, 2018 – Shelved as: british
September 4, 2018 – Shelved as: biography-biographical
September 4, 2018 – Shelved as: african-american
September 4, 2018 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by carol. (new)

carol. First!

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Kai (CuriousCompass) Because this is Goodreads and because I'm kinda a pessimist I'm waiting for the avalanche of "Not all white people!" comments from folks who missed the point. Nice review!


message 3: by BlackOxford (last edited Sep 04, 2018 12:03PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

BlackOxford CuriousCompass wrote: "Because this is Goodreads and because I'm kinda a pessimist I'm waiting for the avalanche of "Not all white people!" comments from folks who missed the point. Nice review!"

That happened over the weekend in criticism of my review of Baldwin - and indeed it was all about ‘not all white people’. Let’s see if they come back here and what they have to say. See: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...
If you’re watching folks, that’s a dare.


Monica BlackOxford wrote: "Let’s see if they come back here and what they have to say..."

Shorter BlackOxford: "Bring it!! "

I'm following this thread too!! Great review!!


message 5: by BlackOxford (last edited Sep 04, 2018 12:32PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

BlackOxford Monica wrote: "BlackOxford wrote: "Let’s see if they come back here and what they have to say..."

Shorter BlackOxford: "Bring it!! "

I'm following this thread too!! Great review!!"

🤙I can only hope they haven’t been frightened off.


message 6: by Brad (new)

Brad Lyerla This sounds a little like a rehash of Coates' Between the World and Me. The one thing about Coates' book that was unpersuasive was his failure to avoid being sucked into the post-modern denial of truth.

How does Eddo-Lodge deal with that? I would read that book if I had some reason to believe that she transcends the post-modern maelstrom.


message 7: by Brad (new)

Brad Lyerla Her book. I would read her book.


message 8: by BlackOxford (last edited Sep 04, 2018 02:02PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

BlackOxford Brad wrote: "This sounds a little like a rehash of Coates' Between the World and Me. The one thing about Coates' book that was unpersuasive was his failure to avoid being sucked into the post-modern denial of t..."

Eddo=Lodge has not written a literary piece, post-modern or otherwise. She is not a professional writer and I imagine she would find your hesitation about reading her book incomprehensible and possibly offensive.

There may be similar ideas in both books but I don’t think you can dismiss hers as a rehash-unless-proven-otherwise. Your suggestion that she might be involved in in a philosophical position you find wanting is very disturbing indeed.

By relativising her experience as a black woman you are acting precisely from the position of power and with the attitude of entitlement she describes. You have the luxury of worrying about the theory of truth; she has the necessity to deal with the daily trials of being black in a place dominated by white people.

To point out that you have the wrong question is too obvious - but obviously a point necessary to make. Once again I am amazed about the inability of white people to engage with the substance of black experience. Evasion seems to be a standard tactic, at least in America.


Eleanor Great review BlackOxford, and thanks for liking mine. (I’m now following your reviews.)


BlackOxford Eleanor wrote: "Great review BlackOxford, and thanks for liking mine. (I’m now following your reviews.)"

Good to meet you Eleanor. I look forward to getting to know you. -Michael


message 11: by Jill (new)

Jill Hutchinson An excellent and very insightful review.


BlackOxford Jill wrote: "An excellent and very insightful review."

Thanks Jill.


message 13: by [deleted user] (last edited Jan 14, 2019 10:31AM) (new)

Thank you, that is an important readjustment for me on how to think about race. Of course, we should pay attention to all major structural injustices and learn to see from the other side - but in the United States, this is THE injustice and THE blind spot with the saddest and most persistent legacy.


BlackOxford David wrote: "Thank you, that is an important readjustment for me on how to think about race. Of course, we should pay attention to all major structural injustices and learn to see from the other side - but in t..."

Her analysis is profound. Impossible not to see once known.


BlackOxford Jennifer wrote: "I loved this book, not because it was all touchy feely, but because it really got to the nitty gritty and caused me to examine my place in the situation. I realized I need to basically sit down and..."

I think you got it. I feel the same way.


message 16: by Michael (new)

Michael Perkins I'm reading White Fragility, which could be a companion volume to this book, and I think it lays the groundwork for this book. Some of the angry, reactionary one-star reviews here by people who have not read the book perfectly illustrate what Fragility is about....

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3...


BlackOxford Michael wrote: "I'm reading White Fragility, which could be a companion volume to this book, and I think it lays the groundwork for this book. Some of the angry, reactionary one-star reviews here by people who hav..."

I think James Baldwin would serve as a good introduction. Sixty years is not a long time by the standards of racism. And he certainly had white fragility nailed.


message 18: by Michael (new)

Michael Perkins definitely. Along with his books, this recent documentary....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNUYd...


message 19: by Ned (new)

Ned Excellent review, I have come to this point myself, recognizing my white privilege and not letting that guilt lead to apathy. Literature has helped, especially Baldwin and Percival Everett. Coates of course.


message 20: by Ned (new)

Ned And Morrison and ...


BlackOxford Ned wrote: "And Morrison and ..."

🤘


Cecily Excellent review, and you pick out some of the points I found most striking (and I was also very ignorant of black British history). Her use of the term structural racism, rather than institutional could be glossed over, but it's fundamental to so much of what she explains. And the importance of seeing race. I vaguely knew that, but hadn't fully appreciated its importance.


BlackOxford Cecily wrote: "Excellent review, and you pick out some of the points I found most striking (and I was also very ignorant of black British history). Her use of the term structural racism, rather than institutional..."

It’s revealing isn’t it?


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