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The 31 Best 13th-Anniversary Gifts to Mark a Momentous Occasion

Best 13th-Anniversary Gifts

Brides / Amelia Manley

Congratulations! Thirteen years of partnership is a reason to celebrate, and a meaningful present is an important way to mark the occasion. Lace is the traditional 13th-anniversary gift, symbolizing the intricate beauty of your relationship and the special care it needs to keep it intact. The modern gifts are fur and textiles, representing the warmth and comfort of a loving partnership.

Whether you give a modern or traditional gift or go in a completely different direction, the thought and meaning behind your present make it unique. Consider your partner's interests and look for gifts they'll love and use; bonus points if it's customizable or can be personalized. It's also important to consider the overall quality and construction of the product so your partner can enjoy it for as long as possible.

We’ve researched and selected the best options available with these features in mind. Ahead, Brides editors curated an amazing selection of gifts, from lace and (faux) fur to fancy lingerie and chocolate.

Sweet, meet spicy. These luxurious silk shorty pajamas come in a sultry dark red hue and are accented with delicate lace trim. With a slightly loose fit, this set is as comfortable as it is sexy. Pair with a silk robe for the ultimate lounging experience.

If your partner's happy place is the kitchen, surrounded by the bright colors of fruits and vegetables, they'll love this lovely take on the "lace" theme. Heritage brand Maison Pichon Uzès has produced ceramics in southern France since 1802. Their signature braided fruit bowl, available in teal or yellow, will make a perfect addition to your home and remind you of your beautiful, intertwined lives.

Set the table for a celebratory meal with these elegant scallop-edged placemats. Crafted from finely spun linen, they're hand-embroidered by artisan lace weavers in Bilbao, Spain. The look is graphic and modern, yet classic, and the subdued blue tone is the perfect complement to her favorite patterned china.

Is there any better use of lace than lingerie? We'd say no. This delicate chemise comes in 16 colors (we're especially partial to the barely-there blush) and is trimmed in an airy black lace for contrast. It's made of a super soft satin blend and will soon become her new favorite.

Take your pick from dinner plates, serving bowls, thermal mugs, and more from this china collection made by the iconic Danish brand Royal Copenhagen. Each piece features an elegant fluted rim trimmed with a black lace border. Bonus: it's dishwasher safe.

If the 13-year mark has you looking for a bedding upgrade, Linoto has you covered. The linen is sourced from some of the finest mills in Italy and Belgium and is pre-washed for extra softness and a relaxed, effortless look. It comes in 29 colors and patterns, so you can find one that matches your other bedding pieces.

A cozy night together might mean as much as extravagant dates when life gets busy. Take it to the next level by giving your spouse this super-soft cashmere throw from Sferra, which you can even get monogrammed with their initials or your shared last name.

Thirteen years into your marriage is a perfect time to spoil your partner with this chic and sexy black lace balconette bra from lingerie icon Kiki de Montparnasse. We especially love the strappy details and fringe lace detailing on this number. Add the matching high waist thong to complete the look.

Gear your spouse up to hit the slopes or just for a winter wonderland walk with this stylish woven knit beanie from Moncler, available in snowy white or rich black. Made of 100 percent virgin wool, the hat is topped with a faux fur pom for a touch of whimsy.

Remind your spouse (and yourself) of your 13th anniversary every time you cook dinner together. Handmade in Nashville, Tennessee, these unique stoneware canisters are decorated with designs made from real lace pressed in the clay before firing.

Delight the whiskey lover with a spirit as old as your marriage. This whiskey is part of the Last Great Malts Collection from Dewar’s, produced at the Craigellachie Distillery in Scotland. It's an exceptional blend that's best shared with someone special.

This serving set is all punch, pizzazz, and play. Handmade in a South African pottery studio, pieces are crafted from local clay and lace, creating a fun, intricate design. They come in three different earthy colors; buy the whole set or go for individual pieces to accent your other dinnerware pieces.

Whether she’s wearing it for you or just for herself, she’ll feel like the queen she is in this alluring lace and satin robe. Layer it over a minimalist silk nightgown in black or a brighter hue for contrast.

What better way to celebrate 13 years together than cuddled up under a fur throw blanket? Choose from three different colorways to fit your decor style, then toss these on the edge of the couch, the foot of the bed, or anywhere else you want to be cozy. These blankets are 100 percent faux fur—meaning no animals were hurt in the process.

Pamper your number one dude with a pair of plush shearling slippers. The ankle-height design adds extra warmth, and the durable outer sole provides extra traction and stability.

Whether you’re swinging under a tree together or catching a solo siesta, this hammock for two is a sweet spot to spend some time. It's 100 percent cotton and features a lace fringe hand-crocheted along the edge. Hang it up in a favorite spot, and you'll have the perfect excuse to relax and swing with your beau regularly.

This flirty chemise is made of super-soft, eco-friendly modal and features lace detailing on the supportive racerback top. Super comfy yet sexy, this nightie hits all the right notes.

This lightweight robe invites your loved one to take a load off and relax. It's 100 percent long-staple Turkish cotton for an extra-soft feeling against the skin. Whether first thing in the morning or evening before bed, it's the one thing they'll be excited to slip on.

Add a little cozy to your home with this lush sheepskin throw. Plush and super soft, it's ethically sourced in Ireland and comes in a warm, neutral tone that fits a range of decor styles. Toss it on the back of a sofa, on the seat of a chair, or at the end of a bed; it adds a touch of texture wherever you place it.

After 13 years, you may be thinking time flies. And it does. Keep him on track, and on time, with this classic-meets-modern timepiece. Hand-assembled in Detroit out of stainless steel and leather, it features Argonite Swiss Quartz movement and a retro-inspired subdial.

Somehow, this satin pajama set manages to be both sexy and cute. Scalloped lace edges add a feminine touch, while a pearly eggshell blue makes them a little glam. They’re also comfy, with an elastic waist and adjustable shoulder straps.

Complete with a gleaming stainless steel fork, knife, set of tongs, and turner, all with a handsome walnut handle and rawhide loop for hanging, this tool set is ready to fire up the grill. A navy canvas bag will keep everything stored away.

Treat yourselves and upgrade your home decor. The geometric design, neutral beige tone, and soft jute material make this rug a versatile choice for nearly any room. It will look just as nice next to a wicker couch in a sunroom as it would under a mahogany dining room table.

Citrine is the gemstone of the 13th wedding anniversary, providing the perfect excuse for a pretty piece of jewelry. This dainty necklace in gold-plated sterling silver sparkles with a lab-created citrine gem in an emerald cut.

A shearling collar steals the show in this chic-for-men aviator jacket. It's effortlessly cool, timeless, and designed with two oversized front pockets, ribbed knit cuffs, and a waistband. It’s available in various colors, including black, navy, camel, and caramel.

Whether for lounging around the house or worn under an oversized sweater, this lace bralette is soft and comfortable, no poking underwire here. You might want to grab a few because she may want them in every color.

Fluffy, (faux) furry, and soft, these fleece-lined mittens will warm up hands all season long. They’re also water-resistant, perfect for those snowy or sleet-slicked days. They’re available in two colors that go with everything—ivory and black. Go ahead and get both.

Citrine studs set in 14-karat yellow gold will add a subtle pop to her ears. They’re the perfect size for stacking if your spouse has multiple pierced holes.

A sleek, masculine house for the Airpods Pro, this leather case is soft and protective against every fall those earbuds withstand. A cutout at the bottom provides easy charging access, and a metal clasp will attach to belt loops or wallets for the person on the go.

Resting your head on these silk pillowcases at night will feel like slipping into relaxed luxury. The mulberry silk fabrics keep hair soft and skin supple, plus they’re hypo-allergenic and help regulate body temperature while sleeping. Buy two for a set; you and your spouse will both benefit.


Vintage lace and fabric meet in this elegant pendant necklace. Finished with a gold initial charm for a personalized touch, this is a charming gift that they'll wear for years to come.

What to Look for in a 13th-Anniversary Gift

  • The traditional gift, lace: Choosing a gift made of lace is a classic, sentimental way to mark the occasion. Personal stylist Meg Gallagher says to look for signs of higher quality lace made from softer, more breathable, durable natural fibers like cotton or silk (rather than synthetic fibers like polyester or nylon). Well-made lace follows a symmetrical, more intricate design with no loose threads or skipped stitches. “These patterns will have a denseness and intricacy compared to lesser quality lace patterns that will be simplified, flat, stiff, or limp,” says Gallagher. Expertly dyed lace (and any fabric) has a rich, consistent color throughout the material.
  • The modern gift, fur or textiles: Faux fur and textiles symbolize the warmth of a loving relationship. Go for plush faux fur, breathable cotton, lightweight linen, or warming wool—this gift category is an excellent option for couples who like to get cozy at home.
FAQ
  • What are other ways to celebrate the 13th anniversary?

    The options are endless—gift your spouse a beautiful floral arrangement, write them a special letter, or bring them breakfast in bed. Returning down memory lane by visiting places meaningful to your relationship is another romantic way to honor your love.

  • What are some experiential things to do for an anniversary?

    Treating your spouse to a romantic dinner out on the town is always a sweet idea. Consider taking them on a day trip or weekend away so you can reconnect without the distractions of everyday life.

  • How do I take care of textiles?

    Spot clean or brush fabrics instead of fully washing them and limit dryer time to a low heat setting—and dry clean as infrequently as possible, advises Gallagher. If ironing, use a protective cloth layer between the iron and fabric on a low heat setting to prevent burning the fabric.

    “Always consider the end use of a piece you purchase,” she adds. “Whether it’s lace, fur, or a durable fabric, the right care is key to preserving the original quality of the piece.”

  • How do I take care of faux fur?

    “Caring for faux fur is much simpler than real fur," says Gallagher. Spot clean whenever possible, wash cold if specified on the care label, and hang dry while avoiding direct heat or the dryer. “Heat will melt the fibers, which makes them matted and hard to the touch.”

Why Trust Brides

Brides contributor Elizabeth MacLennan has scoured marketplaces worldwide, hunting down that just right object for over 15 years as a prop stylist. Read: she’s seen just about everything when it comes to gifts! With a discerning eye and astute mind, she considers quality, function, and design when vetting products.

Brides contributor Hillary Hoffower has a decade of experience writing for the wedding industry, covering everything from bridal fashion trends to wedding decor. She’s always shopping, so her eye is trained to spot the best products on the web.

Meg Gallagher is a personal stylist in Los Angeles and New York City.

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