Adam was not with Eve when she ate the fruit Satan offered her. He did not hear the conversation, otherwise, God in His response would have said that Adam listened to the serpent, but God said that he listened to his wife. Gen 3:17:
And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life;
This opinion is the basis for my understanding of this comparison. I do not wish to discuss this aspect of the situation. I state it here merely to illustrate my understanding of Genesis 3:6 and its translation, from which my question originates.
Gen 3:6:
And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her [?] and he did eat.
Just as Adam was not deceived, neither was Jesus deceived, Jesus did not sin.
Adam was not deceived but partook to help Eve. 1 Tim 2:14:
And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
Jesus partook of flesh and blood to help us.
The Church is referred to as a Crown of thorns to Jesus in Prov 12:4, just as a wife is a crown to her husband:
A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.
The Bride of Christ is Jesus's "Crown" as I complete the comparison from John 19:5:
Then came Jesus forth, wearing the crown of thorns, and the purple robe. And Pilate saith unto them, Behold the man!
John 3:16:
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Another observation: What other situation could Paul have been referring to when he referred to the "husband" as the savior or the marriage? Ephesians 5:23 (KJV):
For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body
This appears in all aspects to be accurate. Showing unnecessary deference to Eve/woman-kind by suggesting that Adam was "with her" at that time is merely an attempt to allude to a shared sense of guilt and does not justify distorting scripture, in my opinion.
Hence my question: Did Adam join Eve in disobedience to save her?