Best Sex Toys for Couples
Our Favorite 24 Bedroom Toys for Couples to Enjoy Together
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Sex between two people is a tried-and-true formula. You find somewhere private, you get naked, you go at it. We’ve been doing it for millennia — why switch it up now?
But technology has changed our lives for the better in many ways, and there’s no reason why a little high-tech wizardry can’t do the same in bed. Sex toys may be something people have historically associated with single women (or very lonely guys), but today, they’re no different from any other digital gadget you might own — sleek, smart, and capable of highly impressive things.
They’re also increasingly designed not just for horny singles but for couples play, and there are things on offer for people of all genders (and genitalia). These days, the only thing holding people back from amping up their sex life with a little high-tech action is often the perception that a sex toy is a guy’s competition in bed — rather than his teammate.
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But facing your fears can be the best thing you’ve ever done in this situation, because it can unlock not just toy-assisted pleasure but also the power of communication. When you and your partner (or partners) get comfortable talking about sex — what works and what doesn’t — it becomes a whole different world. When you buy a couples sex toy, you’re buying yourself a ticket to a world of more open, honest and straightforward sex.
But you don’t want to buy just any sex toy — you want one that’s well-made, that’s in your price range, and that’s right for you. That’s why we put together this list.
The Best Sex Toys for Couples
We-Vibe Sync O
We-Vibe’s Chorus toy has long been a mainstay of online Best Couples Toy lists, but we think their new Sync O is even better. Designed to amplify penis-in-vagina sex, it’s a dream for hetero couples since it stimulates the G-spot, the penis and the clitoris all at the same time. Plus, it’s Bluetooth-enabled, meaning you can control the vibrations’ intensity with your phone. Not too shabby.
$127.00 at We-Vibe.com
Lovense Lush 3 Egg Vibrator
This remote-controlled hands-free vibrator is designed to give you maximum control over your partner’s pleasure, and it’s perfect for long-distance or discreet public play. Completely waterproof with a slim, ergonomic design, it includes multiple speed settings and even allows you to sync its rhythms to music, allowing for endless creativity between the sheets, in the shower, and beyond.
$119.00 at Lovense.com
Magic Wand Rechargeable
The Magic Wand was originally created to relieve tension and relax sore muscles, but quickly made its way down south and became recognized as a sex toy in the 1960s. The Magic Wand Rechargeable improves on the classic model, featuring a variety of powerful, penetrating vibrations with multiple patterns and intensities to please men and women alike. Plus, it’s cordless, so you can take the wand just about anywhere to relieve tension … wherever it may be.
$139.95 at GoodVibes.com
Lelo Hugo 2 Prostate Massager
LELO’s sequel to its immensely popular Hugo prostate massager, the Hugo 2, is here. A refinement of the original rather than a radical reboot, it boasts powerful motors, a sleek and P-spot friendly shape and, of course, Bluetooth connectivity so it can be controlled by one partner while the other luxuriates in the pleasure.
$155.00 at Lelo.com
We-Vibe Pivot
Speaking of remote controls, the We-Vibe Pivot brings your partner control over the vibrations in a different location — the base of your erection. So while it’s gripping your shaft tightly to keep it extra hard as any cock ring would, it’s also thrumming and buzzing and driving you wild with pleasure like a vibrating one — with the added bonus that your partner’s the one dictating the exact vibratory patterns.
$109 at Lovehoney.com
Dame Eva II
The Eva II from Dame boasts a devilishly clever design that uses a pair of flexible ‘wings’ to hold itself in place between the clit and the vaginal opening, meaning the wearer can get clitoral pleasure while being penetrated. And yes, the penis will feel the vibrations, too. Win-win!
$140 at Dame.com
Womanizer Next
For many clit-havers, airflow-based toys offer the best possible clitoral stimulation, since they pack a sensorial punch without wearing down the nerves through direct physical contact. What that means is multi-orgasmic potential, and the small size and sleek shape make the Womanizer Next an awesome and inconspicuous addition to penetrative or oral sex.
$219.00 at Womanizer.com
Bender G-Spot Vibrator
The Bender G-Spot Vibrator can be twisted, turned and molded however you want, making it an ideal couples vibrator. It can also be wrapped around the shaft and used as a makeshift cock ring. Get creative with it!
$71 at UnboundBabes.com
VeDO Yumi Compact Silicone Finger Vibrator
The YUMI finger vibe is proof that good things come in small packages. Just slip your digits through its one-size-fits-all finger grip and stimulate your partner manually — only this time, you’ve got the added power of vibration. With the YUMI finger vibe, you become the sex toy.
$45.99 at Amazon.com
plusOne Rose Arouser
You may have noticed the preponderance of rose-shaped sex toys online in recent years. They’re being made by all kinds of different brands — but this one, by plusOne, is a standout. It’s incredibly cheap compared to almost every other electricity-powered toy out there, but doesn’t compromise on quality, so you can go to town on a clit-having partner while they go to town on themself. Hot, and aesthetically pleasing.
$27.99 at MyPlusOne.com
Real Vibes Anal Trainer Kit
This kit is ideal for anal beginners because it includes four plug sizes that allow you to start smaller and then explore plugs of increasing size. These plugs are designed with narrow tips that gradually widen for easy insertion and suction cups at the base for hands-free play. They can help to prepare for anal sex, be used to achieve double penetration or even used in masturbation to stimulate anal nerve endings. However you choose to use them, be sure to pair the Real Vibes Anal Training Kit plugs with plenty of lube.
$15.99 at Amazon.com
Cuffies
Interested in exploring some bondage play? Standard cuffs can be uncomfortable with users fumbling with chains, buckles and locks, but Cuffies are unique in that they’re made from strong body-safe silicone. Basically, they’re resilient, ideal for getting into different positions and can be stretched to fit wrists of all sizes.
$19 at UnboundBabes.com
Femme Funn Bougie Wand
If the Magic Wand Rechargeable seems a little too big to bring into bed with the two of you, perhaps a smaller wand — like Femme Funn’s Bougie Wand — is the move. In addition to its chic metal finish being aesthetically pleasing, it’s also designed to be used as part of temperature play since it can retain both hot and cold temperatures, especially for use in a nice bath.
$146.99 at FemmeFunn.com
Lelo Personal Moisturizer
Any number of reasons can mean that P-i-V sex requires a bit more lube than the vagina can produce. It’s always a good idea to have some high-quality lubricant on hand, and if you’re using it with toys, you should opt for a water-based lube, since silicone-based lubes will degrade silicone-based toys (Science!). Smooth and slick and sleek, Lelo’s entry in this category is one of the absolute best available.
$21 at Amazon.com
Kiiroo Onyx+ & Pearl2 Couple Set
If you’re doing the long-distance thing, you might want to invest in Kiiroo’s answer to long-distance sex: the Onyx+ and Pearl2 set. The toys are Bluetooth enabled, and can communicate directly with one another, meaning when one partner thrusts into the Onyx+, the other partner’s Pearl2 vibrates. Yep — you can literally feel each other from half the world away.
$396 at Kiiroo.com
The Pelvic People Ohnut Depth-Limiting Rings
If you’re in a relationship with a partner who experiences vaginal pain from penetrative sex, you should seriously consider getting the Ohnut rings from The Pelvic People. This is a genius device to help couples achieve intercourse that’s pleasurable and not painful simply by limiting how deep penetration can get. The Ohnut is both stackable and stretchy, meaning it can be used with a variety of penis shapes and sizes; it retains body heat, and, most importantly, it helps the penetrated partner enjoy sex that won’t hurt them.
$75.00 at ThePelvicPeople.com
Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator
A strapless strap-on? How can it be? Well it’s actually quite simple. The Desire Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator utilizes the wearer’s Kegel muscles by inserting the shorter of two shafts, called the “pony.” Then, adjust the pony to find the best fit and angle that works for both partners, and explore the full range of vibration speeds and patterns to benefit from shared arousal.
$99.99 at Lovehoney.com
Liberator Wedge & Ramp
The Liberator Wedge & Ramp offers extra height for ease of entry, which makes a man’s penis feel larger as it can penetrate more deeply. The wedge’s design helps hit the G-spot or the prostate for feel-good effective sex. The Liberator Wedge is also great for female masturbation, offering the best angle for more effective use of all toys for solo orgasms. When the fun's over, just remove the cover — it's washable for easy cleanup.
$239 at Amazon.com
Epiphany Clit Arousal Serum
If you’re in a relationship where a clitoris-having partner experiences less desire than they’d like to, and struggles to orgasm during sex, it could be time to try Epiphany’s Clit Arousal Serum. It’s designed to produce a tingling sensation on the clitoris that stimulates its highly sensitive nerve endings, to help make sex (and masturbation) not just more exciting, but also more orgasmic.
$42.00 at TryEpiphany.com
Fun Factory Manta
The Manta is sort a mix of a cock ring, a stroker, and a wrench. (Well, the last part being more a question of form than function.) It’s designed both for solo and couples play, and can work to add a little spice to a great blowjob with its 12 sexy settings as well.
$139.99 at Lovehoney.com
JimmyJane Contour M Ceramic Massage Stone
To go along with the Afterglow Massage Oil Candle (or just on its own), the Contour M is a great rubbing stone for couples massage. Straight up, sometimes our partners want us to rub their backs, but we're feeling tired and kind of lazy and don’t want to show it. This stone is the savior. It cuts down the work, while also giving your partner a strong, enjoyable massage (which probably beats your lazy hands, anyway). Plus, the Contour M holds to body temperature, and is ergonomic.
$19.99 at JimmyJane.com
Lovehoney All You Need and More Bondage Kit
If you’re interested in taking your coupled sex to a kinkier place, but aren’t sure where to start, the All You Need and More Bondage Kit from Lovehoney might be just what you’re looking for. It features both wrist and ankle restraints, a blindfold, a spanking paddle, silicone nipple suckers, and more, meaning you’re ready to start exploring bondage play, impact play, and sensation play all at once.
Wild Flower Enby 2
Flexible, genderless, weird — the Enby 2 is a great option for couples who feel a little outside the gender binary and/or who like to get creative in the sheets. You can fold it, press it, lie against it, rub it on someone, all while it vibrates — without feeling or looking like a traditional sex toy or a set of genitals.
$74.99 at WildFlowerSex.com
LELO Toy Cleaning Spray
If your bedroom hosts a library of sexual playthings, you should at least make sure they’re clean. Alcohol- and paraben-free, LELO’s cleaning formula is a quality, effective and affordable choice for sex toys of any shape or size.
$10.30 at Lelo.com
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