Clitoral suction stimulators — affectionally known as clit suckers — are all the rage right now, but not all are created equal. While you might love the Rose, some might argue there are more premium playthings out there that are worth the investment.
One of those is our sex writer, who openly (read: proudly) admits that LELO's SILA Sonic Clitoral Massager is one of her personal favourites... as in she rarely uses anything else unless absolutely necessary.
Rather unsurprisingly to her, it's one of the Swedish sexual wellness brand's top-rated sex toys, having already racked up more than 510 five-star reviews.
But by now you should know that we don't blindly go along with the hype. Yep, members of the Women’s Health team have since put the SILA to the ultimate test: multiple rounds of self-pleasure in the pursuit of total satisfaction. So, read on for our honest verdict.
Everything you need to know about LELO's SILA
| In the box | USB-charging cord, satin storage pouch, warranty registration card and a detailed instruction manual |
|---|---|
| Material | Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic |
| Length | 3.1 inches |
| Weight | 105 grams |
| Run time | Up to 120 minutes |
| Power | USB rechargeable |
| Waterproof | 100% |
The SILA is one of LELO’s best-selling clitoral vibrators that sends gentle sonic waves to the tip of the clitoris for a deeply intense orgasm.
The vibrator has a bigger mouth than most on the market, helping to cover the entire clitoris for a deeply satisfying experience. It also has the added bonus of being fully waterproof which is ideal for those looking to make their bath even more satiating self-care experience.
How to use LELO's SILA
First off, the brand recommends using lube on the product, I tried with and without and it definitely feels better with it but it still feels pretty fantastic without it.
Next, you turn on the device by clicking the plus button. I would recommend starting low and then working your way up, to be honest, I didn’t feel a major difference between the vibrations' strengths and usually stuck with the first setting for that reason.
Getting the head of the toy into the exact right spot can take a little bit of manoeuvring, but once you’ve found the sweet spot you can just leave it in place and wait for the magic to happen.
To switch between settings you press the middle button which toggles the pulsing sensation from a slow and steady pulse to a more rapid throbbing. I found switching between the sessions helped to delay my orgasm which made it all the more intense when I finally got there.
LELO's SILA: The Verdict
My only experience with a clitoral suction toy was a couple of years ago with a cheap one from Amazon that had been doing the rounds on TikTok, which I thought was extremely overrated and didn’t get the hype.
With the SILA, I can say with conviction that the hype has been earned.
It’s not just my opinion either, on the LELO website the toy has received 550 five star reviews with the most common comment being a simple “wow”.
Coming in pink, lilac, and aqua, I went with the pink one because I’m a sucker for pastel pink and loved the look of it. I’ve seen toys that are a bit gouache with their colours, so I liked the subtlety of this design. It looks girly and feminine rather than intimidating.
I was impressed with how quiet the SILA is, I’ve tried toys before that describe themselves as silent but make such a racket I wouldn’t dare use it when anyone else is in the house. The noise output of this one means you could use it with other people at home without being at all self-conscious.
Although it is more expensive than other clitoral suction toys on the market, the quality is of a far higher standard and you really do get what you pay for. It also comes with a year-long warranty so if it starts breaking down on you, you can swap it for a new one or get a refund.
The sensation of this toy is as close as you can get to oral sex by yourself, which is emphasised by the eight different settings that help you mix up the sensations so you never get bored. Using the lube that comes along with the product also helps to mimic the feeling of the real thing. The silicone LELO uses makes it feel warm to the touch, so you don’t have to endure the feeling of cold silicone on your nether regions.
While the gentleness of the toy makes it great for multiple orgasms, it means it can take a little longer to get to the finish line. This is intentional, as it is supposed to help you slowly reach climax by teasing yourself all the way there.
How to clean and care for your SILA
As the SILA is fully waterproof, cleaning is simple. You just rinse the toy and clean it with either a dedicated toy cleaner or antibacterial soap, rinse again with hot water and pat dry with a towel.
The brand urges users to stay away from products that contain alcohol, petrol, or acetone because they can damage the toy (and also aren’t great for the delicate areas you’ll be using it on), as well as hand creams or silicone-based lubes because they can make the silicone permanently tacky.
Keeping the SILA in the bag it comes in between uses will help it stay free from dust and wear and tear. You should also be sure to never keep it in direct sunlight as this can cause damage to the silicone.
