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The 18 best lubes for friction-free foreplay, according to a sex writer
Let’s get down and damp 💦
We’d argue that you should be loading up your love zones with lube every single time you get down and dirty. Because there’s nothing worse than being uncomfortable down there, especially when you’re trying to get it on.
But did you know there are certain points in your cycle where you’re prone to a bit of vaginal dryness? And it can even be an unfortunate side effect of a heavy night — as if a sore head wasn’t bad enough.
Enter: lube. This liquid (or gel) gold is designed to tackle any unwanted friction, chafing or tension during masturbation, foreplay, sessions with your sex toys and the main event.
From the various types, to how to use it, and ways to avoid it dampening the mood, we’ve pulled together a guide on everything you need to know about lube — plus 18 of our favourite sexual lubricants we'd totally recommend to a friend.
Best lube at a glance
We’ve splashed a few of our favourites right here...
- Best all-rounder: LELO Personal Moisturizer, £27.90
- Best on a budget: Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant, £12.99
- Best flavoured lube: Roam Cucumber & Yuzu Flavoured Lubricant, £14.99
- Best for backdoor: Bondara Water-Based Anal Lubricant, £12.99
- Best against vaginal dryness: MegsMenopause Motion Lotion Water Based Intimate Lubricant, £11
What are the different types of lube?
Lube comes in a few different forms, each promising its own bonking benefits. But for those playing with a rechargeable companion, we’d suggest a water-based option to avoid damaging their silicone coating.
Water-based lube
This is our go-to for most sexual scenarios, including self-care sessions with your newest sex toy.
Water-based lubes are also great for vulva owners who have a particularly sensitive downstairs area, as they tend to contain more natural ingredients.
They’re easy to rinse off with hot, soapy water or a toy cleaner. We’re particularly fond of Coco De Mer’s herby-smelling antibacterial spray. Simply spray, wipe away (with a dry cloth) and play.
Silicone-based lube
Often a little thicker (and arguably more luxurious) than its water-based rivals, silicone lube is suggested for those who prefer a bit of backdoor action.
It also tends to last a little longer, so it's ideal for those who like to go all night long.
Oil-based lube
If you fancy taking a leaf out of our ancestors' book, we recommend using these for sensual massages as part of your foreplay.
But just remember that oil-based formulas can trap bacteria, leading to blocked pores and infections. They're also a little messier and can stain your bedsheets, sofa, carpet and clothing.
Hybrid lube
Some brands have caught onto the fact that no two people are the same and created hybrid lubes to suit differing tastes.
So, if you’re after a water-based lube that’ll stand the test of time, try one blended with silicone.
How we test the best lubes
Sophie Donovan is the Sex and Relationships Senior Ecommerce Writer for Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health and Men’s Health. Sophie is passionate about everything sexual wellness, offering her readers honest reviews on vibrators, BDSM for beginners, sex essentials like lube and condoms, plus feminine hygiene products such as period pants. She also spends her working week quizzing sexperts on their top tips for a satisfying sex life.
Sophie’s journalism career began in 2019 when she completed News Associates’ 22-week NCTJ fast-track Multimedia Journalism course and was awarded a Gold Standard Diploma. Accepting a place on The Sun’s Trainee Scheme, she gained experience on the newspaper’s print Showbiz, Production and Fabulous Magazine teams. After completing the graduate programme, she worked for Dear Deidre, where her role included publishing a weekly advice column offering sex, financial and mental health support, plus assisting with the launch of the brand’s Instagram page and first podcast series.
Outside of work, Sophie can either be found working on her love/hate relationship with running or dragging her friends to yet another F45 class. You can follow Sophie on Instagram @soph_don / @sextingthecity.
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