Mum ‘repulsed’ after discovering her husband has been secretly ordering sex toys on Amazon Prime
A MUM was so ‘repulsed’ by her husband ordering a secret sex toy on their joint Amazon Prime account she immediately cancelled it.
The woman revealed her horror when checking their online shopping account, after ordering school supplies for their children.
Amongst the innocent stationary and books, she noticed a very naughty purchase.
Her husband had ordered a male sex toy, a fleshlight, which he’d also paid for out of their joint account.
She said she was “mortified and repulsed”, so she immediately cancelled the order on the account – which is shared with their children.
She took to Mumsnet to ask for advice over how to handle the situation, and if she was wrong to cancel his purchase.
She said: “We've recently ordered a lot of back to school stuff and I was checking order statuses today.
“One of them was for what I initially thought was a vibrator…
“When I looked more closely though it turned out to be a long vibrating tube designed to look like a vagina at the entrance which you obviously stick your penis into!
“I was mortified and repulsed and promptly cancelled it (it cost £42 from our joint account!).”
As her husband receives all the notifications from Amazon, he’s aware it’s been cancelled but the pair are refusing to discuss the elephant in the room.
She continued: “I can't help but feel absolutely reviled at the thought of him wanting to use this thing but, on reflection, AIBU?
“IME [in my experience] if a male partner discovered his female partner had ordered a vibrator he'd be thrilled and turned on, so you could argue why is the reverse so repulsive to me?
“There is just something desperate and emasculating about the idea of him using this thing, probably because we've typically used a vibrator as a part of the sex we've had together (I've rarely used one alone).”
Explaining their sex life has taken a dip recently, she wrote “Our sex life used to be great, but in recent years has got much less exciting due to work pressures and age etc, but recently picked up nicely on holiday.
"Just when I was thinking he found me sexy again and was looking forward to being intimate with him, this has made me recoil from him.
If the roles were reversed people would be outraged
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"He tried to instigate sex tonight and I've politely made excuses.”
Her post has racked up hundreds of comments, with people saying she had no right to cancel the order.
One person said: “You sound so controlling. Poor husband. If the roles were reversed people would be outraged.”
Another wrote: “His only error is ordering on the shared account. Men are allowed toys too. You said yourself your sex life isn’t the same."
A third commented: “It is not your decision how he masturbates.
“The only issue here is he's ordered it off an account your children have access to.”
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