CUT OFF
My partner has no friends or social life and I don’t think it is healthy
He insists that I’m the only person he needs
DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner has no friends or social life.
I’m 30, my partner is 45 and we’ve been together for five years.
Over the course of our relationship, I’ve always met up regularly with my girlfriends, but my partner has no mates.
He’s never once met a school pal, or even a friend from work.
My partner isn’t close with his family and insists that I’m the only person he needs.
I’ve encouraged him to perhaps join a club around an interest of his such as football but he’s simply not interested. How can I help him widen his social circle?
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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s very understandable that you are concerned.
It is healthy in relationships for both of you to have your individual interests and friendships.
Over-relying on one person can feel stifling.
That said, some people are happier with a more reclusive life, which is fine as long as he doesn’t try to limit you.
My support pack Widening Your Social Circle has more advice.
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