Sex Therapists in San Antonio, TX

If you're reading this, you're likely feeling overwhelmed, shame, or alone due to trauma or problems in your sex life or relationship. Perhaps you feel confused about your sexual identity or aren’t accepted and celebrated for who you are. Maybe you are stuck in a negative loop of excessive porn use or a compulsive desire for sex that is ruining your relationships and your life. Together, we'll navigate the parts of your life you've buried deep out of shame and pain. I know it can be terrifying to plunge into these depths alone. I'll be by your side every step of the way, offering a loving and non-judgmental space.

Are you afraid your relationship is over? Struggling with secrets and relationship issues? What you need is a plan to.... change and heal. Are you seeking a non-judgement zone? Learn to stop the shame, blame, guilt and anger. End confusion over what to do and start working on a plan. Have a clear understanding of the problem and plan the best options for moving forward. Certified Sex Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist: Trained professional in sex therapy, infidelity, sex and porn addiction.

I would like to support your journey of finding a stronger connection to your true authentic self by exploring your concerns, strengths, limitations, background, beliefs, desires and goals. You are an expert on yourself and with my support we can facilitate a safe trusting space with curiosity and compassion. I provide individual and couples therapy from a trauma informed, anti-oppression, inclusive space. I support clients navigate through sexuality/sexual wellness, relationships, anxiety, depression, life transitions, trauma, and grief issues.

To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.

To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.

Infidelity &/or porn addiction (other sexual issues-performance anxiety, depression, anxiety) can be crushing to you and your family. I know all the steps needed to rebuild trust and intimacy. Have repaired many marriages. Am a full psychologist & sex therapist. No shaming, judging. I offer direct & tough, but compassionate, Biblically-based Christian care. I also deal with relationship problems, especially for men who haven't been in therapy before, but for women as well. I work with Performance Anxiety, & PTSD Abuse/Trauma recovery. Have both my Masters & Doctoral degrees. I use CBT. No psychobabble BS. 20 yrs of experience.

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and AASECT-certified Sex Therapist providing sex therapy to individuals and couples, helping them to overcome obstacles that interfere with sexual fulfillment to improve their relationships and strengthen their sexual expression. My practice addresses a wide range of issues ranging from erectile dysfunction to difficulty in achieving female orgasm, but much of my practice involves helping couples resolve issues to obtain a fulfilling sex life. Many therapists dislike or are uncomfortable with marital and couples therapy. I consider it to be one of my passions, strengths, and specialties.

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Holistic Sex Therapist. My aim is to provide a safe, respectful, supportive, and confidential space to explore and address a wide range of concerns to foster healthy, enhancing, and fulfilling life and relationships. Many of my clients come to me with issues with confidence/self-esteem, depression, intimacy issues, sexual dysfunction, low libido, communication problems, trauma or abuse, sexual identity exploration, infidelity, kink/fetish/BDSM, sexual compulsivity, sexual education, relationship enhancement, and/or preparation for major life changes. Exclusively Virtual for Texans

Are you experiencing anxiety or perfectionism or struggling with people-pleasing or setting healthy boundaries? Or maybe your relationship is navigating premarital/wedding prep, conflicts in communication styles, building emotional/physical intimacy, or infertility/reproductive decisions? If so, I would love to work with you! We'd also be a great fit if you are a "recovering" high achiever and an aspiring "good-enough-ist." I'd be honored to guide you through gentle challenges fostering self-reflection and self-compassion to improve your emotional well-being to build genuine relationships with yourself and others.

To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.

*****At this time I made the hard decision to cease taking insurance. I have many reasons for this but feel that it is the best choice for me at this time. My new fees will be in line with people who have medium to higher copays and no one has to meet a deductible. This simplifies the therapy process for all of us and I still seek quick solutions without sacrificing quality. My style is informal and your comfort is important to me as we deal with difficult, often painful subjects. This less formal billing process fits well with my style.

To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.

I believe that we are all here on borrowed time and that tomorrow is not promised. I would like to sit with you and have a conversation about your struggles, and needs. Let's talk about your happiness and what steps need to be taken to work towards the BEST version of yourself. In a session with me expect for us to explore your thinking patterns because how you think and what you do impacts your everyday life. Expect exploration of goals, a comfortable, and safe place for sharing.

Choosing a therapist you feel you can work well with is critical to successful treatment. I offer a safe, collaborative, empathic & trusting relational space in which you can explore your issues and concerns without fear of judgment. We will work together to help you develop greater self-understanding, foster close, connected relationships, uncover thought & behavioral patterns that interfere with happiness, master coping skills and achieve the emotional vitality necessary to a healthy, productive and satisfying life.

Are you tired of having the same argument about sex? I help individuals and couples overcome obstacles that interfere with pleasurable sex. Maybe you have low sexual desire, or pain during intercourse. Maybe you were exposed to the purity culture and your brain still believes sex is wrong. Maybe you have sexual performance anxiety and your body won't cooperate. Maybe you or your partner believes you have a sex addiction. Maybe you're haunted by past trauma and can't move forward. Maybe you just need a safe place to talk about life. I can help with all these issues and more. Call me and let's talk!

Since 2018, I have utilized person-centered and strength-based practices to promote the "Power of Self." These practices empower individuals to direct their therapeutic process. Establishing a safe zone and welcoming client feedback allows methods that are proven to be effective in managing difficulties, promoting personal growth, and accomplishing personal goals. I also provide therapy services to individuals exploring their sexuality; sexually fluent; and those that are experiencing a decrease or increase in sexual functioning.

Why see a Counselor? Reasons include: desire to improve a relationship, inquiry about your sexuality, alternative lifestyle questions, difficult relationship decisions, senior sexual health, a need to change attitudes, sexual orientation or simply wanting to enrich yourself with regards to relationship needs. I believe that our sex journey begins at birth, "is it a boy or a girl?" Our gender, our sex messages both positive and negative, our religion, culture and society all affect our relationship capabilities as well as the limitations.

As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in assisting individuals and couples struggling with relationship issues, intimacy, trauma and sexual concerns in overcoming life’s challenges with compassion and professional expertise. In my practice, you will find a supportive and nonjudgmental space to freely explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. My holistic, client-centered approach integrates physical, emotional, and mental health, catering to your unique personal growth journey.

You are reaching out because you are feeling a call towards something more in your life, and you are realizing that your desire for authentic and joyful connection with yourself and others is worth finding. You're ready to clear away stale patterns that no longer serve you and learn how to create your own unique, brave, and meaningful life. I am here to explore with you as you discover how to create and reclaim a life that is in alignment with what you value most. I have seen caring and honest therapeutic relationships change lives, so if you are ready, please call or email me for a free 15 minute consultation.