Sex Therapists in Houston, TX
I have a particular expertise in behavioral medicine, cancer, chronic illness and sexual health/sex therapy.
My approach to helping is supportive and collaborative. I want to work with you on agreed upon goals to help you improve your functioning in your daily life and in your relationships. My work is primarily from a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy model, with some influence by Emotionally Focused Therapy and with insights from dynamic approaches where appropriate. My own personal development work has been influenced by Jungian and Buddhist writings. Kink/poly/CNM friendly!!
I have a particular expertise in behavioral medicine, cancer, chronic illness and sexual health/sex therapy.
My approach to helping is supportive and collaborative. I want to work with you on agreed upon goals to help you improve your functioning in your daily life and in your relationships. My work is primarily from a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy model, with some influence by Emotionally Focused Therapy and with insights from dynamic approaches where appropriate. My own personal development work has been influenced by Jungian and Buddhist writings. Kink/poly/CNM friendly!!
Lacy Isenburg
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77064
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Certified Sex Therapist who has been practicing since 2017.
Living in the US today can be scary for a number of different reasons, and it can make one feel alone and hopeless. No one gets through life without hurt, but having someone who truly sees you and can acknowledge that you matter can go a long way in easing some of that hurt. There are elements in life that are embarrassing or even shameful to talk about, or even admit, and it can be such a weight off to be able to talk about that stuff in a compassion driven, non judgmental atmosphere.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Certified Sex Therapist who has been practicing since 2017.
Living in the US today can be scary for a number of different reasons, and it can make one feel alone and hopeless. No one gets through life without hurt, but having someone who truly sees you and can acknowledge that you matter can go a long way in easing some of that hurt. There are elements in life that are embarrassing or even shameful to talk about, or even admit, and it can be such a weight off to be able to talk about that stuff in a compassion driven, non judgmental atmosphere.
Dr. Laquinta Milson
Licensed Professional Counselor, DPC, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77098
Milson is a sex and relationship therapist.
Therapy gives us an opportunity to look at the problem areas in our lives in a safe and non-judgmental environment so that we can find ways to make the changes we desire. As a licensed professional counselor with years of experience working with individuals, couples and families, Dr. Milson helps manage the feelings associated with life's struggles; recognize, understand, and change self-defeating patterns; heal past pain; discover and foster inner strength; and learn new ways to cope that allow a person to live authentically.
Milson is a sex and relationship therapist.
Therapy gives us an opportunity to look at the problem areas in our lives in a safe and non-judgmental environment so that we can find ways to make the changes we desire. As a licensed professional counselor with years of experience working with individuals, couples and families, Dr. Milson helps manage the feelings associated with life's struggles; recognize, understand, and change self-defeating patterns; heal past pain; discover and foster inner strength; and learn new ways to cope that allow a person to live authentically.
Paul Courtland Soper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, CST, CCTP
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77008 (Online Only)
I am currently taking new telehealth clients for sex therapy, couples therapy and trauma therapy. My ideal client wants to heal. With all the trauma from the past few years, self-work has never been more necessary and normalized. Coming out of a global pandemic, with relationships and sex lives suffering, we all need to be intentional about rebuilding emotional, mental and sexual health. Whether you’re trying to heal from trauma, improve communication and intimacy in your relationship(s), explore polyamory or consensual non monogamy, or explore sexual and/or gender identity, I believe I can help you to achieve your personal goals.
I am currently taking new telehealth clients for sex therapy, couples therapy and trauma therapy. My ideal client wants to heal. With all the trauma from the past few years, self-work has never been more necessary and normalized. Coming out of a global pandemic, with relationships and sex lives suffering, we all need to be intentional about rebuilding emotional, mental and sexual health. Whether you’re trying to heal from trauma, improve communication and intimacy in your relationship(s), explore polyamory or consensual non monogamy, or explore sexual and/or gender identity, I believe I can help you to achieve your personal goals.
I work with a variety of goals and concerns but also have special expertise in the areas of PTSD/Trauma Resolution, Sexual Trauma, Singles/Divorce issues, Dating Coaching, Couples/Sex therapy, & compulsive or problematic patterns with sex, porn, or infidelity/affairs.
Whether you are seeking a brief, solution-focused consultation or more in-depth psychotherapy for personal growth, resolving past trauma, or breaking unhealthy personal or relationship patterns, my goal is to help you achieve the results you are seeking in a confidential, comfortable, nonjudgmental setting. My practice is a full-service, psychological consulting practice. I offer individual, couples, and other types of relationship therapy, and I have experience helping all ages and backgrounds. I also offer Premarital Counseling and Dating/Relationship Coaching to help you achieve more successful connections.
I work with a variety of goals and concerns but also have special expertise in the areas of PTSD/Trauma Resolution, Sexual Trauma, Singles/Divorce issues, Dating Coaching, Couples/Sex therapy, & compulsive or problematic patterns with sex, porn, or infidelity/affairs.
Whether you are seeking a brief, solution-focused consultation or more in-depth psychotherapy for personal growth, resolving past trauma, or breaking unhealthy personal or relationship patterns, my goal is to help you achieve the results you are seeking in a confidential, comfortable, nonjudgmental setting. My practice is a full-service, psychological consulting practice. I offer individual, couples, and other types of relationship therapy, and I have experience helping all ages and backgrounds. I also offer Premarital Counseling and Dating/Relationship Coaching to help you achieve more successful connections.
Chelsea Koutroulis
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, MEd, CST
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77008
Therapy is about finding what works best for you! Your goals are your goals. I work collaboratively with individuals, couples, multi partnered, and adolescents that may be struggling with concerns in their behavior, emotions, or relationships. This may entail those experiencing anxiety, stress, trauma, life transitions, or wanting to navigate relationship obstacle's. I am also a fully trained Certified Sex Therapist from the National Sex Therapy Institute. As a sex therapist, I have further knowledge on intimacy, different sexual interests, lifestyles, ED/PE, mis-matched/low desire, sexual health & performance issues to name a few.
Therapy is about finding what works best for you! Your goals are your goals. I work collaboratively with individuals, couples, multi partnered, and adolescents that may be struggling with concerns in their behavior, emotions, or relationships. This may entail those experiencing anxiety, stress, trauma, life transitions, or wanting to navigate relationship obstacle's. I am also a fully trained Certified Sex Therapist from the National Sex Therapy Institute. As a sex therapist, I have further knowledge on intimacy, different sexual interests, lifestyles, ED/PE, mis-matched/low desire, sexual health & performance issues to name a few.
Dr. Sana Vawda
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, LCDC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77095
I have graduate degrees in both Counseling and Counselor Education and am a Certified Sex Therapist (candidate).
If you're looking for change, you've already taken the first step. Allow me to meet you there. I am passionate about working with others in a safe, trusting, and growth-oriented environment. I believe the challenges we experience can provide deeper meaning for our lives and I am here to help you explore and work through them. I look forward to co-creating meaningful goals that will enhance your life and relationships. Your time, effort and experience is incredibly valuable and I hope to guide you towards long lasting growth.
I have graduate degrees in both Counseling and Counselor Education and am a Certified Sex Therapist (candidate).
If you're looking for change, you've already taken the first step. Allow me to meet you there. I am passionate about working with others in a safe, trusting, and growth-oriented environment. I believe the challenges we experience can provide deeper meaning for our lives and I am here to help you explore and work through them. I look forward to co-creating meaningful goals that will enhance your life and relationships. Your time, effort and experience is incredibly valuable and I hope to guide you towards long lasting growth.
Trained in sex therapy at The Kinsey Institute's Sexual Health Clinic.
Couples Coaching involves altering relationship dynamics by improving communication & building/healing trust, decreasing conflict, teaching how to provide support/ responsiveness, emotional intimacy & sexual satisfaction. Individual Coaching is supportive, non-judgmental, & goal oriented. We will find new strategies to overcome life barriers, & develop new skills to attain your goals. I want to empower you to take control of your life, & teach you how to contribute to your own happiness. I focus on changing ineffective beliefs and behaviors that contribute to current problems, & foster more adaptive, flexible, & efficient solutions.
Trained in sex therapy at The Kinsey Institute's Sexual Health Clinic.
Couples Coaching involves altering relationship dynamics by improving communication & building/healing trust, decreasing conflict, teaching how to provide support/ responsiveness, emotional intimacy & sexual satisfaction. Individual Coaching is supportive, non-judgmental, & goal oriented. We will find new strategies to overcome life barriers, & develop new skills to attain your goals. I want to empower you to take control of your life, & teach you how to contribute to your own happiness. I focus on changing ineffective beliefs and behaviors that contribute to current problems, & foster more adaptive, flexible, & efficient solutions.
Rocio J Tharp
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, Ed, LMFT, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77079
I work with people from diverse backgrounds: couples, families, individuals and groups -either, in English or Spanish. Issues explored: relations, career, personal challenges, trauma and family dynamics; also, gender roles, power and control issues, inequality, intimacy, sexuality, conflict and self-awareness. I provide my clients with a friendly environment that facilitates exploration, and the possibility of seeing old patterns from a different angle; with deep respect, an interested presence, and a curious attitude about my client's point of view. I believe in the power of healthy relationships. Relationships can be transformed if we are ready to re-invent ourselves.
I work with people from diverse backgrounds: couples, families, individuals and groups -either, in English or Spanish. Issues explored: relations, career, personal challenges, trauma and family dynamics; also, gender roles, power and control issues, inequality, intimacy, sexuality, conflict and self-awareness. I provide my clients with a friendly environment that facilitates exploration, and the possibility of seeing old patterns from a different angle; with deep respect, an interested presence, and a curious attitude about my client's point of view. I believe in the power of healthy relationships. Relationships can be transformed if we are ready to re-invent ourselves.
Jonathan Kolmetz
Licensed Professional Counselor - Associate, MBA, MS, CFP®
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77008
Do you have relationship issues around money, sex, or communication? Let me help you gain insight into why you may be feeling stuck or challenged in these relationships. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples, who may not communicate well, work through differing values and beliefs to achieve healthier, stronger connections. Our goal is to build a more balanced self /couple able to respond to both the ordinary - and sometimes extraordinary - stressors related to relationships. Whether your stress stems from infidelity or the normal cycle of life, it’s time to get emotionally reconnected.
Do you have relationship issues around money, sex, or communication? Let me help you gain insight into why you may be feeling stuck or challenged in these relationships. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples, who may not communicate well, work through differing values and beliefs to achieve healthier, stronger connections. Our goal is to build a more balanced self /couple able to respond to both the ordinary - and sometimes extraordinary - stressors related to relationships. Whether your stress stems from infidelity or the normal cycle of life, it’s time to get emotionally reconnected.
Estefania Ballesteros
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77005 (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Certified Sex Therapist. I have extensive experience working with couples who struggle with assertive communication in their relationship and wish to learn new and healthier ways to interact. I also specialize in working with clients facing sexual/intimacy issues such as sexless marriages, low libido, and sexual shame. At my practice, I offer premarital counseling and work with clients that deal with anxiety, depression, adjustment to life transitions, stress management, grief, and loss. My clients report noticing improvement in their challenges after 4-6 sessions.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Certified Sex Therapist. I have extensive experience working with couples who struggle with assertive communication in their relationship and wish to learn new and healthier ways to interact. I also specialize in working with clients facing sexual/intimacy issues such as sexless marriages, low libido, and sexual shame. At my practice, I offer premarital counseling and work with clients that deal with anxiety, depression, adjustment to life transitions, stress management, grief, and loss. My clients report noticing improvement in their challenges after 4-6 sessions.
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Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S, CST, QTAP, CHT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77042
I hold a PhD in Clinical Sexology, dual certification as a Sex Therapist (AASECT & IICS), and certification as a Queer and Transgender Affirming Professional.
Finding the right therapist is sometimes the hardest part of the counseling process. The challenge of matching a therapist's personality and approach to counseling with a client's needs can sometimes feel like trial and error, but is a vital part of the process. I believe that the start of any new relationship, therapeutic or otherwise, begins with building rapport and simply becoming comfortable with each other. Once established, the real work can begin.
I hold a PhD in Clinical Sexology, dual certification as a Sex Therapist (AASECT & IICS), and certification as a Queer and Transgender Affirming Professional.
Finding the right therapist is sometimes the hardest part of the counseling process. The challenge of matching a therapist's personality and approach to counseling with a client's needs can sometimes feel like trial and error, but is a vital part of the process. I believe that the start of any new relationship, therapeutic or otherwise, begins with building rapport and simply becoming comfortable with each other. Once established, the real work can begin.
InTouch Relationship Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFT-A, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77008
As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate, I have chosen my niche in relationships and sex therapy due to my commitment to help couples and individuals find greater happiness in their romantic connections as well as their personal pleasure.
At InTouch Relationship Counseling, I use evidence-based approaches to help my clients work through all kinds of relationship issues. Whether it’s communication, trust, or intimacy, I provide a safe and non-judgmental environment for my clients to explore their feelings and create positive changes. I believe that understanding yourself and your relationships is the key to success.
As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate, I have chosen my niche in relationships and sex therapy due to my commitment to help couples and individuals find greater happiness in their romantic connections as well as their personal pleasure.
At InTouch Relationship Counseling, I use evidence-based approaches to help my clients work through all kinds of relationship issues. Whether it’s communication, trust, or intimacy, I provide a safe and non-judgmental environment for my clients to explore their feelings and create positive changes. I believe that understanding yourself and your relationships is the key to success.
Angela L. Jones
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77055
Ever felt like the answer you're seeking is closer than you think? I believe just that - that you hold the key to your own fulfillment. It's the guiding principle behind my therapeutic approach. Picture us as teammates in your journey of self-discovery, reconnection, and purposeful living. Together, we'll forge a bond built on trust and respect, creating a space where your voice resonates, and your needs are paramount. My focus? Connecting your past to your present, problem-solving, & fostering healthy choices. I addition, I'm currently a Certified Sex Therapist.
Ever felt like the answer you're seeking is closer than you think? I believe just that - that you hold the key to your own fulfillment. It's the guiding principle behind my therapeutic approach. Picture us as teammates in your journey of self-discovery, reconnection, and purposeful living. Together, we'll forge a bond built on trust and respect, creating a space where your voice resonates, and your needs are paramount. My focus? Connecting your past to your present, problem-solving, & fostering healthy choices. I addition, I'm currently a Certified Sex Therapist.
Christopher Vo
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77058 (Online Only)
My approach to therapy is to make it as casual and natural as possible. It should feel comfortable in the room, as if you're talking to an old friend. I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, families, and adolescents. I specialize in conflict resolution, sex, sexuality, intimacy, trauma, anxiety, depression, and life transitions. I am comfortable working with all ethnicities and cultures. I am committed to meeting my clients halfway and will move at your pace. I thoroughly believe that through guidance, education, understanding of one's problems, anyone has the capacity to enhance their life for the better.
My approach to therapy is to make it as casual and natural as possible. It should feel comfortable in the room, as if you're talking to an old friend. I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, families, and adolescents. I specialize in conflict resolution, sex, sexuality, intimacy, trauma, anxiety, depression, and life transitions. I am comfortable working with all ethnicities and cultures. I am committed to meeting my clients halfway and will move at your pace. I thoroughly believe that through guidance, education, understanding of one's problems, anyone has the capacity to enhance their life for the better.
Mel Sutton
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77006 (Online Only)
As a trained sex therapist, I can help you find solutions for sexual dysfunction, sexual pain, diminished arousal or desire, shame, and trauma & abuse recovery.
Your decision to start the journey of healing is a tremendous act of love turned inward. In individual counseling, I provide support and encouragement as you rewrite your story and work toward creating the life you want. In the couples therapy process, partners learn to improve communication, build intimacy, and solve conflict in a respectful way. All of my sessions are trauma sensitive and will be a safe space for repair.
As a trained sex therapist, I can help you find solutions for sexual dysfunction, sexual pain, diminished arousal or desire, shame, and trauma & abuse recovery.
Your decision to start the journey of healing is a tremendous act of love turned inward. In individual counseling, I provide support and encouragement as you rewrite your story and work toward creating the life you want. In the couples therapy process, partners learn to improve communication, build intimacy, and solve conflict in a respectful way. All of my sessions are trauma sensitive and will be a safe space for repair.
I am licensed by the Texas State Board of Examiners of Psychologists; Certified as a Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT); level 2 trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy; and a Gottman 7 Principles Program Educator.
I believe that your decision to seek therapy is a sign of strength, courage, and respect for your personal and relationship well-being. Congratulations on taking the first, and often, hardest step. Identifying a therapist with whom you are comfortable is also a critical step toward facilitating the changes that you desire. I have a collaborative and active style in therapy. I am sensitive to the diverse expressions of sexuality, gender, and lifestyles that my clients may bring. I specialize in sexual and relationship concerns, problematic sexual behaviors, kink/fetish, gender identity, and sexual identity.
I am licensed by the Texas State Board of Examiners of Psychologists; Certified as a Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT); level 2 trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy; and a Gottman 7 Principles Program Educator.
I believe that your decision to seek therapy is a sign of strength, courage, and respect for your personal and relationship well-being. Congratulations on taking the first, and often, hardest step. Identifying a therapist with whom you are comfortable is also a critical step toward facilitating the changes that you desire. I have a collaborative and active style in therapy. I am sensitive to the diverse expressions of sexuality, gender, and lifestyles that my clients may bring. I specialize in sexual and relationship concerns, problematic sexual behaviors, kink/fetish, gender identity, and sexual identity.
Jill Marie Gracely
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW-S, CST
Verified Verified
Houston, TX 77098
I hold a Doctor of Philosophy (Ph.D.) in Clinical Sexology and am accredited as a certified sex therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). Additionally, I am a licensed clinical social worker and possess qualifications as a clinical social work supervisor. I primarily work with adults, although I have experience working with adolescents, couples, and families. I continue to obtain as much knowledge as possible in the areas of mental health and sexual health to offer empathic and effective services to clients who may be seeking therapy.
I hold a Doctor of Philosophy (Ph.D.) in Clinical Sexology and am accredited as a certified sex therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). Additionally, I am a licensed clinical social worker and possess qualifications as a clinical social work supervisor. I primarily work with adults, although I have experience working with adolescents, couples, and families. I continue to obtain as much knowledge as possible in the areas of mental health and sexual health to offer empathic and effective services to clients who may be seeking therapy.
Bianca C. Kelly
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77008
I have a passion for and commitment to support healthy relationships (military, LGBTQ+, BIPOC, women, faith-based, trauma, sex).
My ideal client is someone who did grow up sharing their feelings without consequence or knowing that its ok to not be ok. Including those that did not know about or have access to therapy. If sharing how you feel or setting boundaries is a new an unusual feeling, I want to help you work through those emotions and build healthier relationships moving forward. I am here to dispel the myth minorities may have with therapy and mental illness. Let's start a new narrative for you and your life.
I have a passion for and commitment to support healthy relationships (military, LGBTQ+, BIPOC, women, faith-based, trauma, sex).
My ideal client is someone who did grow up sharing their feelings without consequence or knowing that its ok to not be ok. Including those that did not know about or have access to therapy. If sharing how you feel or setting boundaries is a new an unusual feeling, I want to help you work through those emotions and build healthier relationships moving forward. I am here to dispel the myth minorities may have with therapy and mental illness. Let's start a new narrative for you and your life.
Jennifer Reeves
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT-S, CST-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Houston, TX 77056 (Online Only)
Things like “dead bed”, poor communication, argumentative relationships, erectile concerns, navigating ethical non monogamy, infidelity, pain during sex, lack of emotional connection, co-parenting issues, and infertility just to name a few.
Are you and your partner feeling “like roommates”? Are you fighting all the time? Never fighting, but not really talking either? Talking, but getting no where? Or just feeling disconnected from one another? I can help! Whether you’re dealing with communication problems, desire concerns, infidelity, infertility, feeling unappreciated or just going through the motions; I’ve helped individuals and couples just like you. You are not alone! Give me a call if you’re tired of the way it’s been and you’re motivated to have a healthier relationship, with yourself and/or your partner, as we head into 2023.
Things like “dead bed”, poor communication, argumentative relationships, erectile concerns, navigating ethical non monogamy, infidelity, pain during sex, lack of emotional connection, co-parenting issues, and infertility just to name a few.
Are you and your partner feeling “like roommates”? Are you fighting all the time? Never fighting, but not really talking either? Talking, but getting no where? Or just feeling disconnected from one another? I can help! Whether you’re dealing with communication problems, desire concerns, infidelity, infertility, feeling unappreciated or just going through the motions; I’ve helped individuals and couples just like you. You are not alone! Give me a call if you’re tired of the way it’s been and you’re motivated to have a healthier relationship, with yourself and/or your partner, as we head into 2023.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.