My son just turned 10. What a milestone. Each year as my son's birthday approaches, he gets to decide if he wants to have a party or get some large presents from mom and dad. This year, he chose to have a party. Well, lesson learned for Mom, I need 6 weeks of planning time for a party and not just three or four. Thus, my son's birthday party is going to take place two weeks after his birthday. Sigh. Alas, it's going to be a good one. We're doing commando training and the party theme will be…