Taking it slow

"Taking things slow" can be one of the most annoying things you might hear when you're really excited about someone and you truly believe they're "The One." While there's nothing wrong with taking your time — it only becomes a problem when "taking…

Have you ever looked at someone and known right away that you were meant to be together? I know that sounds really corny but I believe that...

I flip another page in my notebook because for some reason it feels like it will help. Page after page is filled with similar words over and over and over again. I feel I am simply repeating myself trying to find the system and tugging at a way for it all to connect. Day after […]

Never rush into a relationship. Take it slow, become friends and mostly trust one another.

Or "let's take it slow"? Take what slow? Just like Kodak Black said.. maybe I'm not your speed bro. I'm so tired of guys who tell me this. Either WE are gonna do this or not stop playing with me. I can't take you seriously.

Ask yourself, “How do I know I want to slow down?” What are the clues and guidance you are using in this decision? Is it a gut feeling, are you noticing a red flat, is there something you have learned in your past that is helping to inform this? Whatever they are, honor that they exist – you have every right to make a change.