When my husband asked me what I wanted this year for my birthday, I gave it some serious thought. Past gifts have included whiskey barrels and flowers, dilapidated chairs, antique wooden bunnies..... many of these gifts will live forever in the realm of family lore...let's just say hubby has a "knack" for gift giving. But I digress....what did I want this year? Some girls wants diamonds, furs, expensive cars...me, I want the smell of fresh lumber and topsoil. We had a swing at our old house…