It’s a lovely thought, but I’m not convinced it’s possible. I think people, being people invariably make mistakes and hurt each other. Not intentionally, necessarily. Invariably, expectations happen. People have a way of defining what they think a perfect relationship or perfect lover has to be like. The person may ✔️check off on everyone of your hopes, wishes & dreams but they will also have other & extra aspects about them, too. Love & loving is seldom simple.