God ordains love, so any feelings you may have for a person that are not from God is not true love. You may be feeling lust, you may be feeling fear or acting on a deep unconscious wound which has drawn you to that person, or you may simply feel attraction, but none of these feelings are truly love. Without God, true love is not possible. Any relationship that does not honor God, is not true love. Love simply cannot exist without God, for God IS love.