By Hannah Morrill and Mari Uyehara
From childhood besties and college roomies to present-day confidants and future family members, your bridesmaids likely represent all of your life’s chapters. So finding a fitting gift to suit everyone is no small order.
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SKIP ADVERTISEMENTTo solve this gift-giving riddle, we enlisted the help of three experts: etiquette professional Elaine Swann, author and self-described professional bridesmaid Jen Glantz, and wedding planner Jove Meyer. All three warned against giving dust-collecting trinkets and uninspired doodads. Instead, Swann suggested prioritizing useful items that will still be relevant after the wedding bells chime. Do factor wedding-party gifts into your overall budget—especially if you have more than a few attendants. Here we list the very best items for your very best friends.
A jewelry keeper
![Multiple Pottery Barn Quinn leather jewelry travel cases.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2023/04/bridesmaidsgifts-2048px-quinnjewelrycase.jpg?auto=webp&quality=60&width=570)
Made with embossed leather and a rose-gold zipper, this elegant jewelry case comes in seven colors, with a monogramming option for an extra fee.
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Whether or not your bridesmaids are traveling to your wedding, these elegant little jewelry cases are sure to come in handy. Available in two sizes (petite and small), the Quinn Leather Travel Case features soft pebbled leather and a rose-gold, brass-plated metal zipper. You can personalize each case by choosing from seven different colors (such as pink or black), and drop-shadow printed monogramming is available for a small additional fee. If you want to make the presentation extra festive, you could stuff the case with more goodies, like simple jewelry, a spa gift certificate, a handful of sparkly candies, and a note about what it means to you that each woman agreed to be your bridesmaid.
Silky-smooth waves
This overnight, heatless curling set, composed of a silk-wrapped curling rod and two scrunchies, unlocks shiny soft curls, sans a scorching iron.
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Even if you’re paying a professional stylist to give all of your bridesmaids soft waves on the big day, they may also delight in the LilySilk Heatless Silk Curling Headband And Scrunchie Set. A viral TikTok sensation, the set includes a long, silk-wrapped foam curling rod and two scrunchies—from the same company that makes our favorite silk pillowcase. To use, twist sections of hair around the rod on each side, secure them with a scrunchie, and then go to sleep. Come morning, your bridesmaids will have soft, beachy waves. The heatless technique prevents hair damage, and the smooth charmeuse silk keeps the curls glossy. If you really want to go all out, get them the full beauty set, which includes the curling headband, along with a silk charmeuse pillowcase and cap.
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![A woman wears a white, blue-floral-print Hill House Nap Dress.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2023/04/bridesmaidsgifts-2048px-hillhousenapdress.jpg?auto=webp&quality=60&width=570)
With a ruched top and flowing bottom, this lovely dress, available from XXXS to XXL, is flattering on different body types and comes in range patterns to suit varying styles.
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Your bridesmaids may already be stocked up on pashminas and monogrammed trinkets, but everyone needs another great dress, especially one with pockets. With an elasticated, smocked top and a long, tiered skirt, the Hill House Nap Dress (so named because it’s comfy enough to snooze in) is flattering on all kinds of body types, and it comes in sizes XXXS to XXL. With more than 20 different patterns, there are plenty of choices to suit different styles: chic navy crepe, mixed tartan plaid, and dreamy pink floral. If you’re considering a casual or woodsy wedding, you could even make it the official bridesmaids’ dress—finally one they can wear again.
Prints charming
![Three shorts sets of Jungle Print Pajamas in three different colors; red, white, and green.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2023/03/bridesmaid-gifts-2048px-4506-1024x683.jpg)
These affordable cotton sets have limited sizing, but the fabric is soft, the colors vibrant, and the seaming secure.
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Getting ready is part of the fun. And your pictures will be all the better—and your bridesmaids all the happier—if everyone is matchy-matchy in Jungle Print Pajama Shorts Sets. These cotton sets come in three jungle-inspired prints, and though they likely won’t coordinate with your wedding colors, they will get worn again once the confetti settles. The short-sleeve tops have button-up fronts—ideal for disrobing after hair and makeup is done—and the shorts have roomy pockets. The size range isn’t particularly inclusive, and they do run a little snug, so size up.
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![A pink and orange color-blocked Papier Notebook on a table amongst other writing supplies.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2023/03/bridesmaid-gifts-2048px-4508-1024x683.jpg)
Consider giving a special hardback notebook that can be customized with countless details, like monogramming and colors.
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This Papier Hardback Notebook isn’t one of our top picks, but that’s because it serves a different function—namely, being a lovely and useful personalized gift. It features a two-tone hardback cover (available in several color combos) and monogramming at the top (in multiple colors, fonts, and sizes), so you can craft just the right vibe for each bridesmaid. And the 96 pages of lined, plain, or bullet-dotted paper will provide them plenty of creative space to keep track of all the wedding details (with no ink feathering or page bleed-through).
A true gem
![A person wearing a GLND Solo Gemstone Necklace loosely dangling from their neck.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2023/03/bridesmaid-gifts-2048px-4511-1024x683.jpg)
This high-quality, elegant birthstone necklace comes with a handful of customizable options for gems, metals, and chain length.
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A piece of jewelry is a lovely token for your maids on the big day, and this GLND Solo Gemstone Necklace falls into that elusive category of a high-quality yet strangely affordable gift. Select a chain metal (gold fill, sterling silver, rose gold fill, or 14 karat gold) and a length, and then outfit each one with a personalized gemstone. GLDN offers all of the traditional birthstones, plus a few other beauties like pyrite and black onyx. This simple and understated necklace goes well with strapless or V-neck bridesmaids dresses, and it’s sure to become a treasured everyday piece.
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![A Coatt Morse Coded Bracelet.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2022/08/bridesmaids-gifts-2048px-0021-1024x683.jpg)
This dainty personalized bracelet quietly broadcasts someone’s monogram with a series of gold or silver dots and dashes strung along a silk cord.
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Elaine Swann said one of the best bridesmaids’ gifts she ever received was a pair of earrings that worked on the big day and for years afterward. With that in mind, we think these dainty Coatt Morse Coded Bracelets are simple, special, and sartorially versatile. Editor Catherine Kast gave these to her very pleased bridal party in 2013, and she reports that her own is still holding up all these years later. At first glance, the bracelet simply looks like a series of metal beads. But for the ham radio aficionado, the long-short initials make it secretly personal. Customize it further with six different silk colors and dots and dashes forged in sterling silver or gold fill.
A custom care package
![A peak of a mask and candies with the BoxFox box.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2022/09/bridesmaids-gifts-2048px-6554-1024x683.jpg)
Boxfox offers hundreds of fancy, well-curated items at a one-stop online shop. But beware, the cost can add up quickly (as does the time you spend assembling it).
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If selecting one large and suitably meaningful gift proves elusive, Jove Meyer suggests “a collection of smaller things.” We found Boxfox to be the most luxurious care-package service we tested. Choosing the contents will still take some time on a laptop, but that’s worlds quicker than crawling to boutiques, drugstores, and the UPS store to do it all yourself. To assemble a box, first filter by color—your wedding hues, perhaps. Then fill ’er up with a selection of luxe bath products, sweets, books, accessories, and paper goods. You pay per item, so keep an eye on the bottom line. Or opt for the pre-filled Bridesmaid box.
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![An L.L.Bean Boat and Tote bag and a small straw fedora on a beach towel at the beach.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2023/03/bridesmaid-gifts-2048px-4509-1024x683.jpg)
With its simple and durable design, this bag will last a lifetime. It’s also newly modern, thanks to an expanded range of strap colors and monogram options.
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The durable and attractive L.L. Bean Boat and Tote is always a welcome gift—just resist the urge to emblazon it with your wedding hashtag. One of our standouts from testing, this bag is made of a heavyweight canvas, so it maintains its shape even when empty. But we think the tote makes a nicer gift when it’s brimming with snacks, books, or other extras. Choose each bridesmaid’s go-to color for the contrast-tone handles, and then add an embroidered name or initials (at no extra cost). Or, if you can be clever in fewer than 10 characters, some of your bridesmaids might appreciate an ironic inscription instead.
A chic passport cover
![Someone holding a green Tusk Siam Passport Cover.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2022/08/bridesmaids-gifts-2048px-1800-1024x683.jpg)
This elegant goatskin passport cover comes in 11 zippy color combos, and it won’t fade or scuff, even after years of traveling.
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Elaine Swann said travel-related gifts are good bets for your attendants, since they’ll likely be traveling for work, pleasure, or even their next wedding in the near future. Tusk’s Siam Passport Cover is a thoughtful gift: It comes in bright colors, so it elevates the grind of crossing through customs and conveniently stands out in the dark recesses of a carry-on. Supervising editor Hannah Morrill has used this cover for several years, and she reports that it remains just as supple and clean-looking as it did on its maiden voyage. If your own wedding will take place abroad, consider giving this one well in advance of takeoff.
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The rambling, hand-illustrated florals from this Florida-based stationer have come to embody a certain millennial aesthetic.
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This refined stationery offers formal features, such as colored borders and envelope liners.
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The three experts we spoke with emphasized that, above all else, your gift should convey appreciation—and a heartfelt note is an excellent way to do just that. Rifle Paper Co.’s thank-you-note offerings feel almost as special as an IRL bouquet, with gilded details and tangles of blooms. If your wedding aesthetic is slightly more formal, heritage stationery company Crane is highly endorsed by Wirecutter senior editor Courtney Schley. If you’re writing dozens of notes, a monogrammed set will feel more personal, and you could add printing or edging to reflect your wedding colors. For something a little less formal than Crane’s offerings, we also love (and recommend) Joy Creative Shop’s extra-colorful sets, which have bigger monograms in brighter colors.
Self-care kit
![Three colorful Lush bath bombs.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2022/08/bridesmaids-gifts-2048px-0003-1024x683.jpg)
The bath bombs from Lush “explode” as soon as they hit the water, filling your tub with long-lasting fragrance and skin-soothing oils.
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Lightweight and contoured, this mask comfortably fits a variety of face shapes, and it blocks light well (note that it’s best for those snoozing upright or on their back). The deep eyecups allow the eyes to flutter during sleep.
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After months of wedding details, a weekend of travel, and one memorable night of backing it up and throwing them down, your loyal wedding attendants will be ready to recharge. Help them get started with a long, luxurious bath and some shuteye. Our favorite bath bombs from Lush will make their soak all the more soothing. Unlike other versions, a bath bomb from Lush detonates as soon as it hits the water, releasing the yummiest scents and prettiest color explosions. Our top-pick sleep mask, the Nidra Deep Rest Eye Mask, has roomy, comfortable eye pockets that fully block light, no matter how early the day-after flight is. Complete their pampering pack by adding a favorite snack and a soothing sheet mask.
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![A decorative wall covered with square photo magnets from Shutterfly, a great gift for groomsmen.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2022/08/giftsforgroomsmen-2048px-shutterflymagnets-1024x769.jpg)
These vibrant photo magnets are a cinch to make, and they won’t fade or lift after years of livening up a fridge.
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Your bridesmaids have seen you through more than just your wedding. Remind them of those other special moments with magnets featuring beloved memories. Shutterfly makes it easy: Upload photos directly, or pull them from social media accounts. In under a week, the site will mail the photos printed on sturdy magnets. If you have the magnets shipped to you, the 2-by-2-inch squares are small enough that you can get creative in your wrapping. Consider tucking them into a heartfelt card, bundling them in a pretty scarf, or slipping them between the pages of a great book.
Custom chocolate bars
![An array of Tony’s Chocolonely custom chocolate bars.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2022/08/bridesmaids-gifts-2048px-0009-1024x683.jpg)
These tasty, ethically sourced chocolate bars come in five flavor combos—with nearly endless possibilities for customizable wrappers.
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Most custom candy is cute on the outside and … waxy and nearly inedible on the inside. That’s not the case with Tony’s Chocolonely bars. These are our preferred chocolate bars, thanks to the superior flavor quality and the company’s ethical labor commitment. Happily, Tony’s Chocolonely bars become all the more gift-like with a simple customized wrapper. Upload your image, and then select colors, fonts, stickers, and photos for your wrappers. A group shot from the bachelorette party is one cute idea, or use a favorite snap of each bridesmaid from the start of your friendship. Shipping is $10 for any order up to $85; we think the price is well worth it, considering that these are both totally personal and entirely delicious.
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![A Min & Mon Charm of a person with fuzzy pink hair, attached to keys.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2023/04/bridesmaidsgifts-2048px-160.jpg?auto=webp&quality=60&width=570)
These whimsical leather characters readily perk up everyday accessories, such as purses and key chains.
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The leather Min & Mon Charms are, well, simply charming. You’ll have a blast figuring out which one is best for each of your bridesmaids. Maybe octopus twins for your maid of honor (with whom you’re practically joined at the hip) and a crowned squid for every queen in your life? We feel fairly confident that your bridesmaids won’t own one of these whimsical little charms, and they’ll take up almost no room in a suitcase. Even if some attendants aren’t the purse-wearing type, they’ll smile when they see one of these hanging from a carry-on or car mirror.
Coffee club
![Three colorful bags of coffee from Atlas Coffee Club.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2022/08/bridesmaids-gifts-2048px-3142-1024x683.jpg)
Through monthly or bimonthly subscriptions, this coffee-delivery service offers beans from around the world, working with each region’s farms to finetune the brews.
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Chances are good that your bridesmaids’ coffee orders vary as wildly as their opinions on the dress you’re having them wear. Wirecutter tested and enjoyed several coffee subscriptions, and for the wedding party with wanderlust, we think Atlas Coffee Club is the best. Each month’s delivery hails from a different country. And since the company works directly with local farmers, those beans are also more uniquely produced (for instance, one bag that editor Ben Keough particularly liked involved using anaerobic fermentation). Give bridesmaids a three-month subscription, and they can select the roast and grind preferences to suit their individual tastes.
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![Someone wearing a Natori Shangri-La Robe in the kitchen.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2022/08/bridesmaids-gifts-2048px-6547-1024x683.jpg)
This high-quality jersey-knit robe comes in a range of women’s sizes and several fun colors, and it feels light as air and fantastic to wear.
As cute as those de rigueur little satin robes are, Jen Glantz warns that your pals likely don’t need another one (they’re often given to bridesmaids on the big day to wear for getting-ready photos). Instead, consider a luxurious, full-length robe that your attendants can wear in the comfort of their own homes for years to come. Natori’s Shangri-La Robe is one of our top-rated robes from testing. The jersey knit feels as light and soft as a cherished college T-shirt, yet it holds up better: Our testers report that even after they’ve worn this robe for years, it remains as soft as the day they received it. The Shangri-La Robe is available in over a dozen colors and in sizes XS to XXL.
Hands-free!
![Someone wearing a Dagne Dover Ace Fanny Pack.](https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2022/08/bridesmaids-gifts-2048px-6551-1024x683.jpg)
A great combo of style and function, this pack can be stuffed with everything from a large wallet to a makeup kit—with room to spare.
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An attractive, durable fanny pack is excellent for day-of organizing, and your lucky bridesmaids will have a stylish and functional bag for years to come. The Dagne Dover Ace Fanny Pack is a standout from our testing. While prepping on the big day, your attendants can use it to store phones, extra hair pins, and emergency sewing kits. Later on, they’ll appreciate the built-in card pocket, the key clip, and an elastic loop that’s just the right size for lip balm or gloss. The pack comes in several versatile colors, and, thanks to the adjustable straps, it can be worn ’90s-style (around the hips) or in a cool-kid cross-body style.
This article was edited by Hannah Morrill and Jennifer Hunter. Dorie Chevlen contributed reporting.
We love finding gifts that are unusual, thoughtful, and well vetted. See even more gift ideas we recommend.
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Hannah Morrill is an editor on Wirecutter’s style team, spearheading the gifts and beauty sections. For the past decade, she has worked as a freelance writer and editor for publications such as Allure, Elle, and InStyle, among others. She lives in Portland, Maine, with her partner and their two children.
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Mari Uyehara
Mari Uyehara is a staff writer for Wirecutter’s gifts team. She was previously an editor at GQ, Saveur, and Vice, and she won a 2019 James Beard Award for her column on American cooking in Taste. The daughter of a potter, she has long been a believer in the power of a well-made thing.
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