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Sketchbook

The Inescapable Thingness

On the deep and universal desire for connection.
The Front Row

“The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed” Is a Deceptively Plain Masterpiece

Joanna Arnow’s new film mines the comic potential of distance and framing, in an examination of degradations large and small.
Screening Room

Flirtation and Confrontation in “Sparring Partner”

In J. J. Kandel’s short film, the lunch-break banter of a flirtatious pair of co-workers, played by Cecily Strong and KeiLyn Durrel Jones, gives way to uncomfortable revelations.
On Television

“Jerrod Carmichael Reality Show” Is Exhibitionism as Art

Two years after “Rothaniel,” the comedian has committed another moving—and deeply entertaining—act of self-exposure.
The Front Row

“May December” Knows What It Thinks, and That’s a Problem

Presenting a battle between two narcissists, played by Julianne Moore and Natalie Portman, Todd Haynes’s film misses dramas that don’t fit its schematic.
Infinite Scroll

Your A.I. Companion Will Support You No Matter What

New chatbots offer friendship, intimacy, and unconditional encouragement. Do they mitigate isolation or exacerbate it?
The Weekend Essay

Facing the Rivals

I was eager to escape my parents. Then they befriended a couple from Belgium, who seemed eager to replace me.
Culture Desk

Goodbye, Hunk of Home

When you trade in the old car, trade me in, too.
Culture Desk

Into the Invisible Elsewhere

I am watched, therefore I am.
Photo Booth

A Photographer’s Frank, Tender Portrait of Her Parents’ Final Year

When the pandemic came, Becky Wilkes moved her enfeebled mom and dad into her own home. Her series “Till Death Do Us Part” documents that time.
Cultural Comment

Are You My Mother?

Transference and the contemporary classroom.
Personal History

Giving Away My Twin

Twinship evokes deep anxieties about separation and selfhood. Marriage has a similar effect.
Culture Desk

The Things We Carry

Sometimes, now as parents, we say things and only a while later realize that it was an echo of our parents, from decades before.
Personal History

My Adventures in Deconstruction

A college affair turns coming of age into coming apart.
Screening Room

A Family’s Journey to Acting and Acceptance in “Foreign Uncle”

After Sining Xiang came out to his parents, he decided to dramatize the experience in a short film—and cast his loved ones as themselves.
Shouts & Murmurs

Places You’ve Left Your Water Bottle, and Whether You Can Get It Back

At the gym? In theory, but that one spandex guy is there today and he’s making wet little groans.
On Television

On “Succession,” Everything Is Up in the Air

The heart of “Connor’s Wedding,” as the most recent episode is titled, is a protracted phone call from airplane to yacht lounge.
Shouts & Murmurs

Kindly Return My Client’s Sweatshirt

You only stand to lose money, face, and a clean legal record by withholding the hoodie in question.
On Television

“Succession” Finally Moves Forward

The HBO series has been stuck in a frustrating loop. Now, with its fourth and final season, the Roy family saga is finding a more generous palette of feeling and situation.
Shouts & Murmurs

A Selection of Books from the Library of Monogamy

Some recommended titles for those with a better (or worse) half.