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Parenting

Personal History

Cast Out of the Garden

While I flopped through Hebrew school, my father dreamed of Gramercy Park.
Under Review

Should We Expect More from Dads?

Two new books assess our contemporary scripts for fatherhood.
Fault Lines

We’re All Tiger Moms Now

Amy Chua’s “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” prompted controversy thirteen years ago, but, among the upper middle class, variations on her parenting style have proliferated.
Fault Lines

How Liberals Talk About Children

Many left-leaning, middle-class Americans speak of kids as though they are impositions, or means to an end.
Fault Lines

Little Communes Everywhere

What parents might learn from radical movements.
Persons of Interest

“Matrescence,” and the Transformations of Motherhood

In her new book—part memoir, part science writing—Lucy Jones argues that having a baby changes the body as much as adolescence, and should be taken as seriously.
Cultural Comment

The Trials and Tribulations of the Boymom

A new book encapsulates the zero-sum thinking that affects much of contemporary parenting discourse.
Fault Lines

Summer Camp and Parenting Panics

Camps once sold a story about social improvement. Now we just can’t conceive of an unscheduled moment.
Weekend Essay

Swimming with My Daughters

It was so reasonable—why couldn’t we want different things? Two could go into the water and one could stay on the shore. But I didn’t want to leave her there.
Photo Booth

When Babies Rule the Dinner Table

In the past two decades, American parents have started to ditch the purées and give babies more choice—and more power—at mealtime. 
Cultural Comment

How “Co-regulation” Became the Parenting Buzzword of the Day

According to experts, maintaining an infectious state of calm is the single goal from which all other family aspirations can flow.
Sketchbook

Is My Toddler a Stochastic Parrot?

The world is racing to develop ever more sophisticated large language models while a small language model unfurls itself in my home.
The New Yorker Interview

Dr. Becky Kennedy Wants to Help Parents Land the Plane

A conversation about grocery-store tantrums, the virtues of disappointment, and the gap between good kids and bad behavior.
The Weekend Essay

Watching Childhood End in My Back Yard

For seven years, I helped kids stage a series of silly, madcap musicals. I didn’t realize that it couldn’t last.
Page-Turner

What Makes a Mother?

In her novel “Still Born,” Guadalupe Nettel blurs the lines between family members and strangers.
Letter from Europe

French Parents Don’t Know What They’re Doing, Either

An ongoing debate in France complicates the notion that there is an overarching secret to raising kids à la française.
This Week in Fiction

Hila Blum on Power and Parenthood

The author discusses “Do You Love Me?,” her story from the latest issue of the magazine.
Annals of Education

The Parents Who Fight the City for a “Free Appropriate Public Education”

Children with disabilities have a constitutional right to accommodation in public schools. Securing those rights can bring their families to a breaking point.
The New Yorker Interview

Harvey Karp Knows How to Make Babies Happy

The pediatrician and best-selling author on the perils of excessive individualism, the moralization of baby sleep, and why when it comes to newborns he’s “a little bit like a priest.”
A Reporter at Large

Living in Adoption’s Emotional Aftermath

Adoptees reckon with corruption in orphanages, hidden birth certificates, and the urge to search for their birth parents.