It's been close to a year since I decided to quit McKinsey, and one thing a lot of people (including friends of mine who are still at the firm) ask me is whether I miss it.
Short answer: Yes.
Long answer: every day at the Firm provided an exhilarating challenge. Within a very short time, I saw myself picking up skills that people take years to learn - skills that I've called on more times than I can count in my continuing professional endeavours.
Being at The Firm let me travel to places nobody in my peer group will visit in their lifetime.
I felt cared for, secure - almost spoiled. I met incredibly smart people and received very good mentorship and learned valuable lessons about what it takes to earn trust and build solid relationships.
I got humbled real quick after letting myself believe that getting in at all was proof that I'd made it - if anything, I had just gotten started.
My experience gave me immense confidence and what I call "professional agility" - the ability to stop dithering and just "do" when problems are thrown your way.
All of these and more are things I cherish, but don't get me wrong - as beautiful as my time at McKinsey was, it was also incredibly draining.
I've never met a single person from the Firm (or for that matter, from BCG/Bain) with a truly inspirational lifestyle - everyone sacrifices something to stay there and as the years pass, the weight of that sacrifice grows heavier and heavier.
I've seen the most die-hard, blue-bleeding consultants across tenures break at some point from this frustration.
Still, memory is a tricky thing. I don't think about the bad parts very often anymore.
Reminds me of what Milan Kundera said about the nature of love in the Unbearable Lightness of Being.
"In the sunset of dissolution, everything is illuminated by the aura of nostalgia, even the guillotine."
When a tiring relationship ends, what's tiring about it disappears and only the beauty remains.
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