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Let’s Talk About It 👀 →The ‘Black Superwoman Complex’: There’s a cloak of invulnerability that Black women (&) leaders are often expected to wear. This ‘Superwoman’ facade pressures Black Women to consistently be at their peak, even when it’s unsustainable, masking vulnerabilities and emotions in order to meet towering standards, often set unrealistically high. Tips for non-Black colleagues and leaders in the workplace to better support and understand Black women: 1. Listen more, assume less: Don’t presume you know their experience. Ask, listen, and learn. 2. Check your biases: Be aware of stereotypes and actively work to counter them in your thoughts and actions. 3. Amplify, don’t appropriate: Boost their ideas in meetings, giving credit where it’s due. 4. Respect boundaries: Don’t expect them to be the office’s cultural educator or emotional support system. 5. Call out microaggressions: If you witness unfair treatment, speak up. Don’t leave them to fight alone. 6. Recognize diverse leadership styles: Assertiveness isn’t aggression. Challenge your perceptions of what leadership looks like. 7. Share the emotional labor: Don’t rely on Black women to always be the nurturers or peacekeepers in the office. 8. Create genuine inclusion: Ensure they’re not just invited to the table, but that their voice is heard and valued. 9. Advocate for equity: Support fair promotion practices and equal pay initiatives. 10. Educate yourself: Don’t rely on your Black female colleagues to teach you about racism or sexism. Do your own research. 11. Offer tangible support: Mentorship, sponsorship, and allyship should be more than just words. 12. Respect authenticity: Don’t pressure anyone to assimilate to a single corporate culture. Diversity in style and approach is valuable. Any more tips that I missed ?

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