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This is interesting. In a TED talk by the former Dean of Freshmen at Stanford University, she said: “If kids aren’t doing the dishes, it means someone else is doing that for them. And so they’re absolved of not only the work but of learning that work has to be done and that each one of us must contribute for the betterment of the whole.” Yay or Nay? I personally believe that kids helping out around the house is not just a chore for them, but a way for them to build their personality and attitude to work. Some of us grew up in homes where we had to do everything ourselves with the supervision of our parents and it taught us responsibility, more than words and advice could ever have done. And it seems I’m not alone in this line of thought because one of the most remarkable studies on happiness and success is the Harvard Study of Adult Development, the longest-running longitudinal study ever conducted. The results reveal that children who help with household chores early on develop essential skills that contribute to their future success. The study has made groundbreaking discoveries about what drives human happiness, and one surprising finding is that people who do more chores as children are happier later in life. We can encourage the kids around us to pitch in and take on age-appropriate tasks around the home. It could be as simple as making their bed, cleaning their room, or helping with meal prep. This hands-on learning instills a sense of responsibility, self-reliance, and the understanding that teamwork makes the dream work. Do you agree? #education #socialresponsibility #teamwork #inclusion #leadership 🎥reisagda

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Yeah well I have sucked at having my kids consistently do chores Sören Müller and it has come to bite me in the a--. Ha! No I do make them do some chores but not as much as I probably should. Definitely not as much as I had to do as a kid. But I am getting better at having them do more.

Absolutely, I think it's really important for kids to help out around the house. When kids don’t do chores, it means someone else is doing it for them. This means they miss out on learning how to work and how everyone needs to pitch in to help the family. Growing up, I had to do a lot of chores, and it taught me responsibility in a way that nothing else could. It showed me that every family member needs to help out for the good of everyone. Research also supports this idea. The Harvard Study of Adult Development, a really long study about happiness and success, found that kids who do chores early on learn important skills that help them later in life. These kids tend to be happier and more successful as adults. As a mom, I make sure my kids have age-appropriate chores. Whether it’s making their bed, cleaning their room, or helping with meal prep, these tasks teach them responsibility and the importance of working together as a team. It’s not just about getting things done; it’s about helping them grow into responsible and capable people. So yes, let’s encourage our kids to do chores. It’s a simple way to help them become happy and successful adults. ❤️🥰

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Sören Müller 🤝🎯 Very much linked to 2 other famous & essential studies/frameworks that help parents provide an experience for children that will maximise their chances of success & wellbeing too. 1. The Dunedine Study. https://www.royalcommissionecec.sa.gov.au/documents/formal-submissions/session-2/Dunedin-submission.pdf Because emotional regulation, personal responsibility, agency, an internalised locus of control, and being encouraged, enabled & empowered to progress towards leading their own life, is essential for their future success. 2. The 4 parenting styles. (Based on Baumrinds work) https://www.cafcass.gov.uk/sites/default/files/2023-09/Parenting-styles-tool.docx Because styles: 1. permissive, 2. neglectful or 3. authoratarian, all have grave consequences. But style 4: authoratative (high expectations but also high responsiveness & love) leaps the child towards their very best self. Add in a sprinkle of Bowlby, Skinner, Panskepp, Jung, Vygotsky, Maslow etc, & kids thrive maximally, & many of the world's woes in the future adult world would dissappear. After all, adult behaviours are based on a foundation of childhood experiences. Get it right for the kids now, & the future will take care of itself. 🫡

"people who do more chores as children are happier later in life." - I would interpret it this way - children appreciate more than we think any possibilities to feel independent and the more chances to prove it we give (within their scope of skills and abilities), the happier they are. The more we trust them, the more we let them do without cricisim, letting them experience in their own way, with their own mistakes, the more self-confident they get, thus happy :-)

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1mo

Nope - don’t agree at all! I never did a single chore in my house and my parents bought me every single thing I own (very different than most entrepreneurs I feel like) I actually STILL don’t pay for my car, health insurance, or anything…i still get an allowance and I live with my husband HAHAHA I still woke up 5 AM everyday since I was 7, still trained for my competitive figure skating career before class started at 8 AM (at 7 years old mind you), had a 4.0 in college double majoring in chemistry and applied math, and became a top researcher at my university as an undergrad and NEVER did they EVER micromanage me This was all before cancer ruined my life of course hahahaha And yet I survived it and act like it never existed when it comes to the heights I allow myself to reach It’s based on how you see your PARENTS work is my belief I saw my parents work harder than anyone I’ve ever known so OF COURSE I mimicked their energy and attitude towards life I know plenty of people who did chores as kids and can’t even manage their own emotions, finances, and have 10000 failed business ventures It doesn’t mean anything imo I still do not do chores or even cook btw and I still managed to get married idk how

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I will be forever grateful to my parents because they made us do chores, go get groceries or help others before going out to have fun. Invaluable life lessons

Olayinka Emmanuel Bolaji, DVM, MVPH, MISPON

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1mo

I am a firm believer of teaching the kids to be responsible early in life so as to help them become independent in early adulthood.

I grewup doing housework because parents worked during the day. Cooked too. We mowed lawns, washed cars and harvested nuts and fruits. Worked the fields in the summer. Made money to buy clothes and go to the movie theaters. Parents must teach their children the value of work in building character and taking personal responsibility. !!@@!!

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I believe that involving kids in household chores is a win-win situation, benefiting both their personal growth and the well-being of the family unit as a whole.

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1mo

They needed an elite university to figure this out?? Other countries have been doing this for decades… America is way behind on this concept.

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