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A recruiter said I rambled too much in my interviews. I didn't like it but I appreciated the honesty. 6 strategies I used to overcome rambling and be more concise: 1/ Bring notes to help me recall stories for common interview questions 2/ Use frameworks like STAR (Situation, Task, Action, Result) to organize my responses 3/ Use the "Rule of Three" when I respond to a question - I don't share more than 3 bullet points or items (people can't keep track of more than 3 items at a time) Example: Three changes really stood out that impacted our company. These changes were X, Y, and Z… 4/ Pause more between my thoughts (you don't have to be talking every second) 5/ Limit my responses to 60-90 seconds 6/ Practice by recording myself (I recommend video to see your body language, hand gestures, etc.) -- Long-winded responses can cause the interviewer to disengage & lose interest. They don't have a lot of time with you so they're looking for the most precise, relevant information to determine if you can do the job. The moment you do that you'll perform a lot better in your interviews. You got this. 💪 Bonus: I've included an interview response using the STAR framework below. #jobsearch #jobinterviews
I've been told this before too Reno Perry - and as much as I didn't want to hear it, the feedback was helpful (and needed) For anyone who struggles with rambling, here's an additional tip... Rehearse you introduction before the interview, so that you're distracted thinking about how to answer "tell me about yourself" at the very beginning of the interview But there's a specific formula you can use to introduce yourself in a way that always creates a positive 1st impression I have a free PDF on this If anyone is interested, shoot me a DM (or reply here)...just say "INTRO"
My husband told me this... and I utilized the notes strategy. I am a person that loves all the details-- but if you want to cover as much "stuff" as there is, you have to be succinct.
I have the tendency to share more information than is needed when I get excited… which, unfortunately in every interview, I’m excited Reno - the solution to control myself has been structure. I literally wright out the letters STAR before I begin answering, and I will go down the list in an effective fashion to keep myself on track
I suggest the STAR method to all of my clients. It's easy to start rambling when you're unprepared, but if you practice storytelling for the most commonly asked questions, you'll also have a "flow" for the questions you didn't prepare for. And recording yourself is also great! I'd recommend sharing the recordings with a more experienced peer, so they can help you spot mistakes that aren't obvious to you but can be seen from the outside. Great advice, Reno!
Whenever I interview, I try to look at the eye contact and engagement from the other person. If they seem engaged, keep speaking. If they seem to be losing engagement, try to end your response soon. Reno Perry
Rambling can hurt you in interviews. 1. It shows low competence. Also in social settings. 2. To counter rambling, slow down what you say and add energy. 3. Another idea: practice with a trusted friend or person who does interviews. Listen and take in constructive criticism. Appreciate you, Reno! #jobinterviews
Using frameworks to make answers more concise and using the rule of three are game changers. I remember watching a Ted Talk where they talked about how much information our brain can process at a time and they mentioned that 3 was sort of the maximum so when exchanging information, try to do it 3x at a time vs combining tons of info at the same time. Great share Reno!
Love it Reno Perry. Just finished a guide to speaking clearly and concisely (tomorrow's post) but wasn't related to interviews. I like what you have written because it is something I saw a client struggle with just 3 hours ago.
Thanks for posting this, many people struggle with this situation, and these strategies will definitely help them a lot.
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1ySTAR interview response example: Question: Can you share a time when you encountered an obstacle at work and how you handled it? Answer: We had to finish a new credit payments system project for a client due in 48 hrs, we were down 2 people on the team, and if we didn’t finish they wouldn’t be able to serve millions of people struggling from Covid-19 that needed to pay rent on the first of the month. I leveraged my relationships to find 2 contractors we previously worked with to quickly plug the existing gaps in our project which resulted in on-time completion and enabled financial support for over 20 million people during the pandemic. STAR Breakdown: S (Situation): needed to finish a new credit payments system project and down 2 people on the team T (Task/Your Responsibility): the project needed to be completed in 48 hours so that millions of people could pay rent using this new system. A (Action): Leveraged relationships to quickly find & hire 2 contractors that were able to work on the project. R (Result): The project was completed on time which resulted in financial support for 20 million people.