I came out for the first time 20 years ago yesterday.
Halloween 2002. It wasn't brave of me; I was immensely lucky to have all sorts of privileges, to have a family that loved me, and to go to a public high school that wasn't so homophobic that life was unworkable.
And it was still ridiculously tough.
Had I not been able to speak freely at school about sex, to read books about queer people, and to find little glimpses of myself out in the world in queer people I could admire, I am quite certain I wouldn't be around right now.
It perplexes me why anyone would want to make anyone else's life harder. My hope is that the people who advocate for "don't say gay" laws and who push malignant anti-trans legislation and policy do so out of ignorance, that they simply do not understand the damage they're doing and the lives they're putting at risk.
More deeply still, I hope that that can change.
It'll only change with hard work. As someone to whom great opportunities have been given (as much as I have fought for them) I am happy to work myself to the bone on behalf of my community to earn from the world the credit LGBTQ people are due.
I know my colleagues at Grindr feel the same.
20 years after first coming out, the world is clearly more full of visible LGBTQ people. Visibility is a powerful tool ...
The Grindr team will see you soon down on Wall Street ... there's more coming out to do. 😉
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