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Self-care is a hot trend -- but so often it is associated with getting a massage, having a glass of wine, hanging out with friends, or going to the gym. But does self-care need to mean self-indulgence? A few weeks ago, I experienced self-care from a different perspective. I went on a mission trip to the mountains of Kentucky. This wasn’t my first mission trip – although the poverty of a coal mining town in Kentucky today is shockingly similar to that of a coal mining town in West Virginia 40+ years ago. Regardless of location, time in my life, or volunteer work that I’ve done, I’ve always returned with a gift far greater than the one I’ve given. Yes, my body was tired, but my heart was full and my mind somehow less cluttered. This year, my team helped a family of six – mom, dad, 8-year-old daughter, 4-year-old son, 2-year-old autistic son, and a 9-month-old. It was easy to pass judgement – 4 kids, a homestead full of animals, a house built of palettes (not wood from palettes, open palettes nailed together). Last winter, they lived in a canvas tent, almost freezing to death. But they were a strong, positive family. And while their conditions were shocking to us, the mom told me this was the easiest living she had ever known. In later conversations, I began to understand that while her wallet was thin, she was alcohol-free, in a home filled with love, and no longer suffering from physical and mental abuse. The work we did was on a 10x12 free-standing “shed” that attached to the palette house. We added electricity, hung insulation and drywall, and put down linoleum on the inside, adding gutters, a sofit, and cladding to the exterior. Our team included both men and women, aged 15 to close to 80. Most of us were not professionals and many (including me) were far outside of our comfort zone. However, each of us was able to contribute in our own way. I even had a bit of a “girl power” moment when the mom told me that her 8-year-old daughter ran to her breathless on our first day saying “Mom, there are girls working on our house.” (Note that both of the “girls” were over 50 years old!) On our last day, the mom was overcome with gratitude, saying that this would let her kids celebrate Christmas in a real room for the first time. At the risk of getting too preachy, the next time you are feeling burned out, look outside your comfort zone and dig deeper than self-indulgence. You might just discover that improving someone else’s life helps improve yours. #Selfcare #Perspective #Growth
I absolutely love this! Thank you for sharing! #Inspiration
Thank you for sharing your experience here. Your smile is beaming in the photo. You helped to change someone’s life. I know the warmth, purpose and joy you received will carry you forward until your next act of service and generosity. ❤️
That sounds amazing! Appreciate your example.
You are amazing for giving of yourself and for sharing that you received more than you gave.
Wow. Just awesome. It’s amazing what giving of our time and talents can do for our soul. Happy to see you be you. Thanks for sharing Pam.
That's awesome! It's all about balance!
Thank you for sharing this story!! Wow, what a difference you made.
You are such an inspiration to all of us!!
Just awesome and amazing, you are!
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2wThis is so awesome, Pam! A great lesson to keep being reminded of: Giving back always comes back around to give back to you!