Men’s Role in Tackling Male Violence Against Women and Girls
Imagine being worried about your personal safety because of the result of a football match. Unfortunately, this is the reality many women will face on Wednesday night as England plays The Netherlands for a place in the final of the Euros. A study by Lancaster University found that domestic abuse incidents increased by 38% when England lost a football match and by 26% when they won. This issue reflects a broader concern regarding women’s safety:
- 70% of women in the UK say they have experienced sexual harassment in public.
- 3 in 5 women have experienced sexual harassment, bullying, or verbal abuse in the workplace.
- 1.4 million women in the UK experienced domestic abuse in the year ending March 2023.
These statistics are a stark reminder of the urgent need for men to step up and address male violence against women and girls. It’s why I became an Ambassador for White Ribbon UK, the UK’s leading charity engaging men and boys to end violence against women and girls.
Here are a few things you can do to help prevent violence in the short term and create a safer environment for women and girls in the long run:
Immediate Actions Men Can Take
1. Check-In with Friends and Family:
- If you know someone who is struggling with anger or stress, reach out to them. Sometimes, a simple conversation can help defuse tension.
2. Offer a Safe Space:
- If you suspect someone might be in danger, offer them a place to stay or a way to get out of a potentially violent situation.
3. Be Vigilant:
- If you hear or see signs of domestic violence, do not ignore them. Call the police or a domestic violence hotline for guidance.
Long-Term Strategies for Creating a Safer Environment
1. Educate Yourself and Others:
Understand the root causes of male violence against women and share this knowledge. Encourage discussions about respect, consent, and healthy relationships.
2. Call Out Bad Behaviour:
- Speak out against jokes, comments, or behaviours that perpetuate gender stereotypes and normalise violence. Tackle the sexualistion of women in the workplace
3. Support Organisations:
- Donate to or volunteer with organisations that work to prevent domestic
violence and support survivors
- Take the White Ribbon Promise (link in comments)
4. Support Survivors:
- Believe and support women who share their experiences of abuse. Your response can make a significant difference in their recovery.
5. Be a Role Model:
- Show through your actions what it means to be a respectful, supportive, and non-violent man. Young boys learn from the men around them.
By taking these steps, men can play a crucial role in reducing and ultimately ending male violence against women and girls. The responsibility lies with all of us to create a safer, more respectful environment where everyone can thrive.
What can you do today to make a difference?
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